The girl I like is going abroad, do I still need to confess my love to her?

The young man must be heartbroken when the girl he likes is going abroad. If you express your love, it depends on your specific situation.

If this girl is just studying abroad and not settling down, and you have a crush on each other and you are willing to wait for her to come back, then I suggest you confess your feelings. After all, if you study abroad, most people will return home, especially if you have feelings for each other, so you are more likely to succeed in the future. If you confess your love to her, you may become a couple. Maybe you are not together, but you will be single for each other and wait for a better time to become a partner. It is also very likely that she will reject you because she considers reality, but she will not give it a try. Are you willing to try?

My cousin established a relationship with my cousin-in-law before going abroad. At that time, when my cousin-in-law confessed his love, he promised her that if she didn’t want to return to China, he could also go to Australia. Now both of them are in Australia and are about to have a baby. In view of this, what I want to say is that you must also have the ability, whether you have the ability to apply for public funds to go abroad, or your family has the ability to support you to go abroad, then you and the girl will have more possibilities.

After all, if you pursue her soon, in a foreign land, under such fierce pursuit, the girl will definitely agree to you. As for confessing her love in advance, it is just to prevent the girl from being with others casually, it is particularly necessary.

However, if this girl has no feelings for you, or her feelings for you cannot match the reality, because you are unable to catch up with the life she wants, then I suggest you not to confess. Under such circumstances, confessing will only add trouble to each other and will not solve anything. Moreover, if we don’t confess, we are still friends and can chat when we meet; if we confess, it will be awkward, we won’t know what to say, and we will be even further apart.

Especially those whose girls want to settle abroad, but you will never be able to live abroad. Many people say that love can conquer everything, but they have forgotten that in addition to love, there is family affection in this world. , friendship, work, and too many practical factors. If these factors determine that you will never have the chance to be together, then don't make a pointless struggle. Anyway, you love her and wish her happiness, and that's enough. A classmate of mine from high school also settled in Australia. At that time, she already had a boyfriend of more than four years, but she just left as usual (the whole family immigrated, and there was no way to change it). In the end, the two of them lost to reality. Now, Marriage between men and women has nothing to do with each other. This is real life. Those fairy tales that are too beautiful are not life.

Before confessing your love, you still have to consider reality. If the reality can give you a chance to be together, then confess your love; if in reality, you can never be together, then you just smile. Send her away without saying anything.