China people in the United States, are you full of shit? Why are you so indifferent to each other abroad? ! And calculate each other!

Most people will not be interested in responding to your provocative topic. But I have been there before, so I can think about your state of mind.

It is impossible to ask a long-term poor and war-torn nation to unite without foreign aggression. Even husband and wife are just birds of a feather. When disaster comes, they can only run for their lives, not to mention friends and even irrelevant people around them. Decades ago, the Cultural Revolution destroyed the most basic interpersonal relationships and even caused people's distrust of people. It took generations to make up for the trauma.

What you said about China bullying China people often happens in other countries. Indians, Pakistanis and Middle Easterners bully their own people worse than China. The reason is simple: it is always easier to bully one's own people than outsiders. At school, Professor China's mentality of demanding a lot from China students is also very simple. That's what he was asked by his boss from the beginning. Isn't it unfair to his daughter-in-law who has suffered for many years if he doesn't enjoy it? Besides, he felt that his original efforts were ten times higher than those of these lazy students, and it was his deep responsibility to demand more from them, so he wouldn't feel anything wrong. It's even more natural for the boss of China Company to squeeze China employees. Why not go to a foreign company if you can? It's just a low threshold to mix here. You don't know your rights. You are afraid of getting a lawyer, and you are even more afraid of losing your job. There is no complaint channel. Who will you squeeze if you don't squeeze?

The discrimination of old overseas Chinese against new overseas Chinese began in the19th century, which is not only today, but also nothing unusual. Overseas Chinese in Xinhua have just arrived in the United States, and their eyes are dark and they can't figure it out. If they don't want to feel inferior and ask for help, they can only stumble and grope slowly. People who have been here for several years look on coldly and watch the new overseas Chinese make a fool of themselves, which satisfies their sense of inferiority. After suffering a lot, the new overseas Chinese became old overseas Chinese and started over.

As for those who do not lend a helping hand when encountering difficulties, it seems that it is not the patent of Chinese Americans. In China, photos of people who were seriously injured in car accidents often appeared in newspapers. In addition, scenes of urban management expelling migrant workers and beating people are often staged. It is not outsiders who suffer, but their own homophones. Not only that, but you can often see people outside the stadium clapping for urban management law enforcement. I don't know what you call these acts that have nothing to do with unity. Of course, the United States has similar behavior, but people will not get used to it.

In the United States, as long as a person works hard on his own, no matter who his father is, there is no small chance to get rid of the harsh environment. With the improvement of education level and economic ability, social status also rises. Although there may be political struggles in the office, he will gradually find that people in the environment are not malicious. At this time, the instinct of a normal person (please pay attention to the word normal) will gradually play a role. After he takes good care of himself and his family, he will be willing to help the people next to him when he has free time. Baidu replied that many overseas Chinese, including me, also have this mentality.

China's current prosperity is actually the energy released by the country's 30-year lock-up. It is not really rich, and it has not played a role in improving the fundamental national character. Moreover, many rich people have problems in obtaining money, which leads to the general dislike of the rich and makes the capable or rich people unwilling to lend a helping hand without the spotlight. So at least the positive energy of society is not as good as that of the United States. This is the main reason why many Americans are desperate to emigrate despite the economic downturn in the United States.

In addition, a large part of your current situation may be caused by yourself. Domestic friends grew up with open crotch pants and can be trusted because they have established revolutionary feelings. Why can't the same thing happen again in America? You have been in America for six years. Why should we limit our circle of friends to China people? If your friends are all nationalities and are busy to death every day, where will you have time to complain in Baidu that there are no China friends you can trust? Second, even if you just want to make friends in China, please give your heart and soul in exchange for the true feelings of others. If you always think that everything was good in the past and everything is not good now, and that other people's heads are full of shit, you will still complain about the same thing six years later. Otherwise, we should grit our teeth and make progress. Don't touch anyone. Everything depends on yourself. In a few years, you will be a hero, and others will try to be friends with you.

If you can only feel sorry for yourself every day, please come back as soon as possible. America is not for you. It's no big deal to go back to China, and you are by no means unprecedented, but if we conclude from this American experience that the brains of American Chinese are shit, it's a bit inconsistent with the facts. Moreover, it's a pity that your parents' hard work and hard money were wasted when they returned to Baoshan empty-handed.