So how to cultivate the ability to take risks?

In life, loneliness caused by boredom, repetition and monotony will gradually corrode people's hearts. On the contrary, eliminating some monotonous routine factors will keep you from having a nervous breakdown. Actively trying new things can make people who have been devastated and frustrated regain their courage and initiative in life.

(2) Try to do something you don't like;

Bowing to the wishes of others and some rigid rules and regulations has become the habit of people who lack self-confidence, so that they mistakenly think that they naturally like something and don't like others. It should be realized that the reason why you repeat yourself every day is because you are weak and have no opinion. If you try to do something you don't like, you will taste a new pleasure and gradually get rid of old habits.

(3) Don't always make plans;

People who lack self-confidence have no sense of security accordingly, and they want to be stable in everything. However, it is impossible to have a clear plan for a person's life, and many accidental factors are at work. Being organized doesn't bring happiness. The spark of life often comes from accidental opportunities and strange intuitive feelings. Only by appreciating and trying to catch these fleeting sparks can life become full of vitality.

Actively trying new things means taking some small risks. Adventure is one of the basic contents of human life. Without the spirit of adventure and the meaning of adventure itself to life, we can't enjoy the fun of success, and we can't cultivate and improve people's self-confidence. Self-confidence is essentially the accumulation of success. Therefore, looking ahead and looking back, panicking and avoiding risks will undoubtedly make our self-confidence completely lost, not to mention the generosity of looking forward to happiness.

If the unknown areas in your life can arouse your passion, let you be mentally prepared to "try"; If life is really like a card game, you can persist in washing cards instead of giving up halfway, then you will gain more confidence every time you overcome difficulties.

(4) strive to practice the ideal;

The manager of a large printing company once recalled his conversation with an accountant of his own company. The accountant's ideal is to become the auditor-general of the company or to start his own company. Although she didn't even graduate from middle school and was a new immigrant, she was not afraid. But what followed was that the company manager reminded her: "Your accounting ability is good, I admit it, but you should set your goals more realistically according to your education level." The manager's words made her furious, so she resolutely resigned to pursue her dream.

What happened afterwards? She set up an accounting service agency to provide services for small companies and new immigrants. Now, her accounting service in Northern California has grown to five offices.

In fact, none of us know how big the ability limit of others is, especially when they have passion and ideals and can persevere in the face of difficulties and obstacles, their ability limit is even more unpredictable.

(5) step by step;

An experienced ski instructor led a group of novices to the steep slope to teach them to ski. Standing on the edge of the top of the slide, looking down from the top, they will inevitably feel the danger of steep slopes and roads, which will lead to fear of difficulties. In order to help these students overcome the difficulties in the morning, the coach repeatedly told them not to regard the whole skiing process as from the top of the mountain to the bottom of the mountain, but to break it down and think about how to slide to the first corner and then to the second corner. This diverted their attention from what they can do at present, rather than what they can't do at present. After a few turns, their confidence increased. They can slide smoothly without more encouragement.

This method is also helpful to you. When you start doing something, don't pay attention to the overall affairs you are facing. Learn how to take the first step first and make sure that you can successfully complete this first step. If you go on like this step by step, you can achieve the glorious goal you expect to achieve.