Rural bachelors, after 40 years old, why is it difficult to get married and start a family?

In fact, it's not easy to find someone in the countryside after the age of 30, because you have no ability in the countryside, or have any academic qualifications, and then you don't have a stable job, so I don't think any girl wants to follow you. In fact, after the age of 40, for example, young people now want to have a house, a car and a fixed deposit, which is the minimum sense of security. If these conditions are not met, it may become more and more difficult to get married now.

In fact, this phenomenon is not only in rural areas, but also in cities. If you can't find the right one after 40 years old, plus whether you have any great skills personally, I guess it will be really difficult to find the right person to get along with you in the future. In fact, on the other hand, many girls will think so. If you are particularly capable, how can you wait until after 40 to find the right one?

In fact, sometimes in life, we should seriously consider the ideas of other girls. Don't always say that we consider the ideas of a boy. Nowadays, girls can earn money to support themselves. Some girls even buy their own houses and cars, but the ability given by a boy is far less than that of a girl. Do you want a girl to support you after marriage? It's impossible, or unlike the phenomenon of young people getting married now, unless you are particularly capable, then you have a house, a car and a deposit, and then you can be particularly motivated.

Although this situation is really up to you now, because that is all the conditions your family gives you, in fact, sometimes even if your family is particularly rich, I guess this girl is also after your family's money, and people can't say that she has a crush on you.