Everyone is a prisoner of his own experience.

"Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he likes, and don't let gold fly to the moon."

"With your current temperament, there are hidden roads you have traveled, books you have read, and people you have loved." These three seemingly completely unrelated phenomena have the same explanation-experience. We are inevitably influenced by experience; With the inevitable influence, you are now. So how does experience affect your present and future? The description of the past may also be affected, depending on you, who knows.

1? self-suggestion

An idea will grow inside. The film Inception profoundly reveals such a truth to us. The nutrient that nourishes this idea is self-suggestion. A small example, such as Zhang Ailing's novel Red Rose and White Rose, shows that the man inadvertently touched his hand with a little foam and gradually became deeply attached to the woman. For big examples, such as Chekhov's novel The Death of a Little Civil Servant and the movie The Legend of 1900, all men came to the end of their lives under the influence of self-suggestion.

There is another profound thing, why can't we persist in self-change?

Because we set limits for ourselves. After reading countless articles, speeches and lectures, I still can't do it. "Think of a thousand roads at night and walk one road in the morning" is repeated. And this self-limitation is due to our constant self-suggestion. These constant self-suggestions come from those who have encountered different efforts and failed again and again, and some of them have the deepest and clearest feelings about themselves. Like a circus elephant tied to a stake, it will never grow out of the stake. Here is a chicken soup for everyone. "The past is not equal to the future." You can choose to be your own spiritual opium and take a sip when you are depressed.

2? external use/application

Although not as keen as conspiracy theorists, our world and consciousness are controlled by some mysterious people and organizations; But some elites, such as well-known and excellent media people and businessmen, are influencing us imperceptibly.

If you don't know how to think about our life and the world we live in, public knowledge will tell you how to think;

If you don't know how to watch news hotspots, excellent media will tell you what to watch and how to watch it;

If you don't know what you want to buy, a good merchant will automatically recommend it according to your previous browsing history.

In addition to the influence of contemporary people, the influence of the times is self-evident. For example, after 50-60, they were pioneers in the Internet age, after 70-80, they were immigrants in the Internet age, after 90, they were aborigines in the Internet age, and after 00, they grew up in an environment where they could enjoy the intellectual achievements of the Internet age at any time.

3? Deal with spells

After reading these, some people may feel the sadness of life. However, the mystery of the rules is the same for everyone. So, in the face of the vast world, maybe you are willing to think about why, but I think you should think more about how to do it.

Listen to different voices: most of us don't have good independent thinking ability. Listening to different voices about the same thing obviously helps us to improve our independent thinking ability.

★ Look at the macro things: tactically correct, but strategically wrong, or the opposite. Read more about politics, economy and bills, news and famous stories. See the way can refer to the above point.

★ Be a realistic person: We will feel and learn negative things from many things because we always habitually associate them with those negative things. I know that regret may be necessary, but I have met too many people who are too cautious and afraid of making mistakes. They are so careful that they lie down where they fell and never get up again. We should try to look at the problem from a zero perspective: one is one.