In the face of failure, be sincere and don't sigh for missing.

Missed the morning glow, missed the noon sun, missed the splendor in the sunset, missed the twilight, and perhaps missed the charming moonlight.

I missed the romance of spring, the boldness of summer, the richness of autumn, the coolness of winter, and perhaps the gap between spring, summer, autumn and winter.

Miss the innocence of childhood, miss the ignorance of teenagers, miss the excitement of teenagers, miss the dignity of middle age, and maybe the peace of old age.

Missed two childhood conjectures, missed the feelings of first love, missed the love for each other, missed intimacy, and perhaps met and knew each other beyond reality and spirit.

There will always be so many misses in life, sometimes it will make the clouds cry, the wind will stop, the spring, summer, autumn and winter will stagnate, and life will be reincarnated. Anyone who has suffered from missing knows that missing for a while may lead to loneliness all his life. But what can we do? People can't let themselves live in emotions.

In this world, there are countless spring rains, countless mornings, countless fallen leaves and countless heavy snows. It's not the only one that missed it. Countless perfection, countless defects, not every one is perfect, every one has defects.

Life has missed so many things, so many troubles and so many helplessness. Inadvertently, many beautiful memories passed us by, blowing in the wind. But we might as well think of it this way. It is because of missing that all this makes you so emotional, unforgettable and precious. If it becomes a reality forever, looking back, maybe everything seems so dull. Therefore, in a sense, missing is actually a new life and a different kind of beauty. Just like Venus is beautiful without arms, we seek perfection by choosing too many mistakes. If it weren't for this past missing, how could there be missing growing day and night in the dusty heart? How can there be buds blooming quietly on the emotional wasteland?

Then let's take missing as a kind of beauty. Let's turn this yearning into a diamond in deep thought, quietly collect it in the deepest part of our hearts, and guide ourselves forward with hope and longing for the afterlife. In every missed day, in every waiting moment, I live happily every day of my life.

Can such a miss be understood as a different kind of beauty?

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After missing the warm date with spring, plum blossom resolutely chose to open in the cold wind, so there was a lonely figure of plum blossom in the snow and ice. The beacon light missed the gathering time with the day, and still chose to release its light in the dark, so there was a light that suddenly appeared in the stormy night.

Plum blossoms and beacon lights did not give up their faith after missing the beautiful scenery. They released their beauty to the world in another way.

The beauty after missing is not something that each of us can have. It needs an open mind and a broad mind.

Su Shi's life is full of legends. At the peak of his life, he accidentally missed the best career and walked into the trough of his life. However, he didn't choose to give up, give up the faith in his heart. In a palm-sized world, he finally found between mountains and rivers that plain is the best taste of life. He bowed his head easily and realized a higher life realm of "returning to the bleak place, rain or shine".

His passion makes him open-minded, and his openness makes him tolerant. His tolerance made him a mountain in the literary world after missing his official career.

Xu Benyu, who was moved by one of the top ten figures in China, finally decided to give up the opportunity to walk to graduate school and resolutely chose to go to Guizhou to realize his promise of "sunshine" made a year ago. Therefore, he missed the hard-won opportunity to walk, missed the colorful life in the city, maybe he missed the promotion step by step and missed the academic glory. Without any grandiloquence, he covered the children's eyes with sunshine and color. His deep love warmed the hearts of every mountaineer and awakened every sympathetic heart. As the report said, "He raised the torch and stung people's eyes".

His sacrifice touched thousands of China people in Qian Qian, making them lend a helping hand to the whole world and bring sunshine, warmth and real care to the poor children in the west.

We can miss the stars and the moon, but we must never give up the pursuit of beautiful things; We can miss the beautiful scenery along the way, but we must never give up our faith.

It is a pity to miss the beautiful scenery along the way, but a great soul can regain confidence after missing it and pursue another goal with an optimistic and positive attitude. His world must be colorful.

If you miss it, you can still have a wonderful world, because your mentality determines your destiny.

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Don't sigh for missing. When you regret missing the sun, you will also miss the stars. Tagore

Life is two broken lines, sometimes parallel and sometimes intersecting. When we miss the opportunity at the intersection, maybe we still have a chance, or we may miss it and lose it forever. Why do we miss the ever-changing scenery around us? Why do we delay the focus in life because of small things? Because we think too much. Sometimes I want to catch everything, but I forget that there are only two hands and only one bag. We can't take too many things. Therefore, I can only watch the long-awaited beauty pass by. There is a saying in the west: life is fleeting, and the god of luck only cares for people once. So, when we lose and miss, should we cry or laugh? When someone missed it, he lamented that he was unlucky and his life was at stake. Like Jia Yi, although knowledgeable, he died of depression because he could not get out of the shadow of his master's early death. No wonder Su Shi laughed at him. Some people miss it, but it is not a face of decay and resentment. It is wise for a wise man to throw away a shoe when he falls off the train. Su Dongpo was demoted, but he sang "a misty rain in his life", which is a kind of tolerance; Pu Shu missed the opportunity to attend the middle school attached to Beijing Normal University with a score of 0.5. He left the country bravely and finally "lived like a snowflake", which was another chance after missing it. Pessimistically chewing the missed bitter fruit and drowning yourself in tears, such people can't get out of the shadows and embrace a new life. He's bound to miss more. Actively grasp a failure, take the miss as a warning, as a reminder, and finally tap the sweet spring in the missed dry well to nourish the new voyage of life. When Europeans were looking for a more convenient "spice road", Columbus, Da Gama and Magellan set foot on the journey one after another. Although they missed the wealth, they caught the tail of truth. They found that the earth is round! Someone missed his goal in the wrong experiment and found penicillin; Some people find that Coca-Cola's prescription is not good; Someone accidentally soiled an expensive dress and accidentally found the dry cleaning agent. How subtle life is, missing the stars and the sun; Miss the sun and clouds. Those who have gained something from missing will definitely tell you: don't sigh for missing, gain something from missing, you will increase the depth of your life, and you will be taken care of by the lucky god. Now, we can confidently answer: when we lose and miss, smiling is our only expression, thinking is our only action in practice, and success will be our only result. If you miss spring, please don't give up to welcome summer.

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Suddenly there was a light, and he looked up. In front of him, a crimson glow dipped into the eastern sky, and the vast land was still immersed in the heavy night. Red clouds crisscross the sky, and in the gap between the black buildings in the distance, they are full of wanton agitation, which makes people excited.

Looking back on the past year, we missed a lot ... that T-shirt was not expensive, and that beautiful pocket watch ... too much.

But who has a "perfect and foolproof" life? "Our scheduled arrival is not equal to the end of life. But at the end of life, we'd better smile and say: although I missed a lot, I caught the most crucial and beautiful thing after all. In this way, "missing" is like a green leaf, which sets off the colorful flowers that I have "harvested" in my life! Liu said that Miss Liu is so beautiful, right? Isn't that what life misses?

Somewhere a long time ago, you will never see that beautiful meteor there. Unless he climbs that mountain and is lucky, he can only see a meteor once every 100 years. There is a man who wants to see a meteor that he has never seen before. He heard a passing businessman say that the beautiful meteor shower fell from the sky like a gem! He was very moved because the meteor appeared in 1 1 day. He made up his mind to climb the mountain. He climbed for a long time and finally reached the top of the mountain, which was ten days later in the morning. He is looking forward to waiting for that night, waiting for the jewel-like meteor in people's mouths ... he waited from morning to night and from night to midnight. He was so tired that he fell asleep in the dark ... when he woke up, he saw a flash in front of him, which was a meteor in his dream. But he will never see it again. He lost confidence and began to cry. Suddenly there was a light, and he looked up. In front of him, a crimson glow dipped into the eastern sky, and the vast land was still immersed in the heavy night. Red clouds crisscross the sky, and in the gap between the black buildings in the distance, they are full of wanton agitation, which makes people excited. This is the first time he has seen such a beautiful morning glow. He wiped the tears from the corner of his eyes and looked at the most spectacular scenery in the world, with a bright smile on his lips. A few seconds, just a few seconds, he saw a scenery that he will never forget! Although he missed the beautiful meteor, he saw a spectacular sight? Beautiful morning glow.

If life is jade, there must be flaws; If life is a blank sheet of paper, there must be black spots. However, have you ever thought that sometimes these flaws and black spots are the beauty of life? Maybe these beautiful women are not good, but they add a lot of fun to your life. ...

From a dialectical point of view, the extreme of minor defects is a kind of perfection, and the extreme of perfection is only the trace of minor defects. No one's life is perfect unless he is not mortal. Deliberately pursuing perfection is actually the most imperfect; Deliberate pursuit brings you perfection, but you will be very tired; What's even more amazing is that your perfection also has flaws ... flaws, flaws, it won't die, it will only follow you forever.

And often every miss has unexpected gains, adding a touch of beautiful color to life. ...

In fact, the short life needs to be missed too much, and the perfect harvest is accompanied by a lot of losses. On the journey of life, we have limited vision. If we refuse to miss some scenery in front of us, then we may miss the more charming scenery ahead. Only those who are good at giving up will realize the real beauty.

Some beauty needs to be missed, and some will be reborn, as long as your eyes and heart are always looking for it. ...

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The pot of epiphyllum on the balcony has sprouted. I am looking forward to a blooming night and remind myself not to miss it every time I water the flowers.

But I really missed it when I was busy! Until the next morning, I suddenly remembered that I pushed the door and left home in a hurry. Those flowers that had already bloomed were like the phoenix with its wings bent down, tired and cold. I wanted to leave it alone on the dark terrace last night. It was so sad and lonely, brilliant and decadent. My heart is full of regret and guilt-I didn't miss it, but I obviously failed!

However, this is unintentional, and sometimes it is intentional to miss it. On our honeymoon in Huangshan Mountain, we lived in a courtyard on the mountain, with a straight pool on the right, a curved pool on the left and a big valley in the middle. When we opened the door and looked down, the clear stream flowed down the Bitan like a belt. Surrounded by ups and downs, when the weather is fine, layers go away, showing that the castle peak is nine times heavy. One morning, he shouted from the balcony, "Get up and look at those clouds. Those clouds are coming out of the valley in a row!" " "

I turned a deaf ear, hiding in bed and thinking, if I don't watch it today, I can watch it tomorrow; I can't see it tomorrow, but the day after tomorrow. Anyway, the cloud is just outside the door. Are you afraid you can't see it?

Unable to resist his fire call, I had to get up lazily. Ah! What a beautiful picture of white clouds coming out of the hole! He shook his head and sighed.

"You missed its most beautiful time!"

Good things are always impermanent, including the chances of success and the care of fate. How many times can we miss in our ordinary life? We regret missing it, but how many times have we missed it?

An old man who is nearly 60 years old told me that his greatest regret in life is that he didn't study medicine. He said I was 14 years old that year. On the one hand, I'm worried that the white sneakers I washed at night will not be dry tomorrow morning. On the other hand, I think life is long and people always have time to do what they really want to do. So I asked him, why don't you just do it? He actually replied to me "because I didn't know I was suitable for this." I was very shocked after listening to it. I think the most terrible thing in the world is to live to be very old and find that I have "missed" myself.

However, I learned later that most people actually feel that they have missed something.

Father leaks flowers 14 yuan-Pingmai-a large piece of land near Shilin official residence must be hundreds of millions now; My mother misses having two children less. She could have dominated the political and business circles by virtue of her cleverness, dexterity and good communication skills. My cousin immigrated too early and missed the economic miracle of Taiwan, but learned about the American economic depression from beginning to end; My high school classmate missed the only lover who was suitable to marry her at the beginning; My colleague missed the week when the department store had a 30% discount. ...

Many people are more afraid of missing out because they keep missing out.

Just heard about karaoke and MTV. Don't miss KTV. Once you've been to beer houses and shrimp farms, you can't miss grilled seafood, foamed black tea and American coffee in 35 yuan. As long as what is popular, it seems that nothing should be missed.

Don't miss the large amount of US dollar deposits or immigration applications from New Zealand and Australia before leap August; Let's not miss the end of the century, when people are baptized before impetuousness and believe in Jesus for eternal life; You shouldn't even miss the gold rush of the times.

Just because I don't want to miss anything, I always try to have everything.

The reporter who wrote a beautiful article insisted on being a consultant in an enterprise management company, and worked hard for a while, leaving a doubt that "he may not be suitable". A super salesman who can sell anything to anyone, determined to give up his business and concentrate on writing advertising copy, was criticized as "vulgar and uncreative". But because everyone believes in the so-called potential development, they firmly believe that the more invisible talents are, the more so-called real talents are.

The best example is that when I was young, I studied chemical engineering at night, studied finance and taxation on weekdays and worked as a math tutor on weekends. At a certain age, when I am a lawyer, I want to be a singer, I want to be a legislator, I want to write poems ... everyone has several jobs, and everyone is not satisfied with doing only one thing all his life.

All this is because I don't want to miss it. I don't want to be Billy Sanchez in Marquez's novel A Stranger. Because I don't know French, I actually missed the death and funeral of my new lover. I don't want that old man who is nearly sixty years old to regret his original choice until he is old. It is because I don't want to miss it that everything becomes interesting, urgent and impossible to choose.