In Shenzhen, how many single men and women want to die alone, unmarried and without children, living alone?

If you don’t even get married, where will your descendants come from!

Some people

are married and have a family, and being single is not advisable. Food and sex also means that survival and reproduction are human nature. All human activities revolve around eating (survival) and sex (reproduction). We cannot spend our lives just to survive and forget to reproduce. This is unnatural. Or life is not perfect.

If you really don’t get married, you should also find ways to have children, so as not to be isolated and unbearably lonely in old age!

First of all, Shenzhen is a city of immigrants. Neighbors do not interact with each other and have little communication, so there is no such thing as Zhang’s family and Li’s family. Which girl is unmarried, whose boy is unmarried, whomever I love.

Secondly, Shenzhen is an open and cutting-edge city, and it is also a metropolis with considerable survival pressure. High housing prices are a threat to the general working class and even the petty bourgeoisie. Some people choose to buy a car first to travel, and rent apartments with better conditions, or rent ordinary houses in urban villages. Who would dare to consider getting married and having children in these places? So my friends talked about it one after another, but they never dared to talk about marriage.

Gradually, I got tired of it and decided to stay alone for now. The pace of work and life in Shenzhen is very fast. If you don’t worry about making money for three days, you may have problems with next month’s rent and Huabei, and some even have Weili loans. Once you lose your job, you have to pay for social security in full out of your own pocket.

Therefore, in Shenzhen, making money to support oneself is the top priority, and falling in love is just the spice of life. As for marriage, it’s like poetry and distance, just dream about it first!

In Shenzhen, there are single men and women who are not married and have no children, but there are also those who have been married once or twice. But not in the minority.

When it comes to young brothers and sisters who are single and have no children, it is too early to say. Not getting married does not mean not falling in love. You can get married several times in a weekend.

As for the older brothers, older sisters, and even the uncles and aunts who once faced difficulties, they jumped out of the three realms and did not want to step into the siege of marriage again. They chose to live an unfettered life, but they were also 'alone' and not 'lonely' , who doesn’t have a confidante to kiss and lean on Lan Yan’s shoulder? Frequent movement on weekends and holidays is indispensable.

To die alone may sound desolate, but loneliness is a kind of cultivation and a state. Those who are single and have no children are simply not ready. Because they (she) have not yet reached the state of "lonely boat and coir raincoat, fishing alone in the snow in the cold river". In the world of mortals, I was covered in mud, fell down a few times, and drank a few sips of water, but I haven't touched a stone yet. It’s too early to go ashore at this time!

Single men and women who want to be alone all their lives do not know whether they are seeing through the world of mortals or playing games in the world. Not only are there many leftover male and female saints in Shenzhen, but also in cities all over the country, and even in countries around the world, who doesn’t have a scripture that is difficult to recite?

Live alone for the rest of your life.

There are many older single friends around me, both men and women, who all hold the concept of not getting married. If you don’t get married, you will naturally be infertile. I support it! If time goes over again, so will I

Why are so many people unwilling to start a family and reproduce the next generation?

It has a lot to do with the current guidance of public opinion, especially some self-media. In order to gain traffic, they concoct a large amount of content such as marital discord, family disputes, marriage breakdown, etc., and spread it widely on the Internet, which makes many young people People are discouraged and have a fear of marriage or even a mentality of not getting married.

The family is the basic cell of society and the basis for the country's stable development. If more and more young people continue to fear marriage and stay away from marriage, the fertility rate will further decline.

This will bring disastrous consequences to our country and nation.

There are so many leftover women in Shenzhen, why are they unwilling to get married?

In recent years, the phenomenon of leftover women in first-tier cities has attracted much attention, but the group of leftover women is still growing.

According to statistics, the largest number of leftover women in China is in first-tier cities, especially in Shenzhen. Now the number of leftover women in Shenzhen has exceeded 1 million, not only ranking first in the country, but also setting a new record in the world. Why on earth are the leftover women in Shenzhen unwilling to marry themselves off?

Faced with the problem of leftover women in Shenzhen, experts mainly explain there are two reasons.

First, the economy is now independent. Many young women have much higher incomes than men. They are no longer dependent on men for their lives. Women have the right to choose their own marriage.

Many women think that they can live a happy life alone, go shopping, watch movies, and buy clothes with their best friends. If they find a man and have a baby, it will be very hard to be burdened by the family. of. Another kind of Shenzhen women have excellent family conditions and own several houses, but their boyfriends are from a poor family and cannot afford to buy a house. For this reason, many women choose to live together without getting married. Because in the eyes of the parents of the leftover girls, the family has a rich fortune and cannot take advantage of this poor boy.

We believe that the above explanation can also reflect the reasons why there are more leftover women in Shenzhen, but it is still not comprehensive enough.

The main reasons why leftover women in Shenzhen cannot get married are as follows.

First of all, women in Shenzhen have very high standards and are looking for good men with houses, cars and careers. However, men with successful careers are often already married and have children, while young men are in the stage of struggling for their careers. , do not have any economic conditions, just like this, there are more and more leftover women in Shenzhen.

Furthermore, the gender ratio of men and women in Shenzhen is relatively balanced, but except for the rich second generation, most families in Shenzhen cannot afford high-priced housing.

But for men in Shenzhen, this problem is not big. They can marry girls who come to Shenzhen to work, because girls from other places can endure hardships, have strong hands-on skills, and have good temperaments.

Some people say: If you don’t get married, you may not have a partner when you get old; if you get married, you may not live to be old. If you don’t make money, you may not be able to provide for your retirement. If you work hard to make money, you may not need to provide for your retirement.

I have lived alone for so long, and many people say what will you do if you don’t get married and get old? I think this is too unfounded. I don’t know if I can live to be old. If you are not satisfied with a hundred years in life, you will always worry about a thousand years. Live each day in the present moment first. If you think too much, you will only be asking for trouble. If everyone does not die young, then everyone will grow old, so we should wait until we are old to talk about it. Because there are many uncertain factors, it is too early to say now and it does not make any sense.

If you don’t get married, you won’t have so many troubles, and you will grow old slowly. Even if you are old, it shouldn’t be a problem to take care of yourself, and if you live alone, because your expenses are small, you must have saved a lot of money. It is also possible to designate an immediate family member for retirement. On the contrary, those who are married have given birth to a large group of children and have overspent their youth prematurely. If the children are not grateful and filial, they will suffer even more when they grow old. Haven't you heard that there are so many people who chew on the old now? Some want to gnaw all the bones of their parents. News of unfilial children is not uncommon in today's society. Therefore, it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. The most important thing is not who will provide for you in old age, nor to think about how to provide for you in advance, but to take good care of your own body and protect the machine parts. Even if you get old in the future, the machine will still be able to It operates as usual, and life can still take care of itself as usual. #春日 punch in##小habits check in#

There are many of them, and they are likely to spread. This is also normal.

Very busy. After experiencing the era of poverty, people have an eagerness for food after being hungry for wealth. Even if they have enough food and clothing and are even well-off, the psychological shadow left by poverty and hunger is still lingering. We must keep running and chasing on the road to accumulating wealth. There is no time left for love and marriage, just run all the way until you are exhausted.

Objectified love and marriage. Dating show sketches exaggerate the reality of life, but sometimes it really is like that when you think about it. They must repeatedly weigh their own interests, and then consider and tangle with the interests of the family. After scoring on various indicators, they will be considered if they pass, and if they fail, they will be rejected. How can young people in the city stand this kind of nagging mother-in-law and mother-in-law? Just like this, alone, a glass of wine, a song, and a waning moon.

The community where I live is all land-based households, and I have never seen anyone say they want to be alone forever without finding a partner.

I think fate has not come yet. If fate has come, naturally you will not think about your life like that. Newcomers coming to Shenzhen will definitely not consider personal issues so early. They are usually twenty-eight or nine. When you get married in your thirties, you always put your career first and then think about marriage.