How to choose a place to work when you are heavily in debt?

My suggestion is that you go to work in the county. Although the salary is a little less, you can always go home and see the children. It's best to do both.

It's not easy to find a job outside. The situation now is different from that before the epidemic occurred years ago. Take me for example. I resigned years ago and went out to find a job many times this time. It's really hard to find. The salary I can give is 30% less than before. The cost of living outside is high, the rent is expensive and the expenses are high. Although there is a little more money, the actual income in the end is not much better than that in the county. You can make a comparison, calculate the actual income, and see if there are obvious advantages. If you have only a little advantage, you won't consider other places.

Your specific situation is that you have a child now. It may bother you to miss your children often after going abroad. What a pity if the child can't get your caress for a long time!

Debt! It may be a problem that many people will face this year, so hurry up and solve it! Wait for opportunities, search for opportunities, and then the problem will be solved.

The child has just given birth, and the mother has to go out to work to pay off her debts. I think your family must have gone through something. I don't know what your husband does. At this time, he should learn to be more responsible! Men's shoulders are born to support their families. Under this sky, it is the happiness of your wife and children and the peace of mind of your parents!

My advice to you is: You just had a confinement, so you'd better stay in your hometown. Now the epidemic is not completely over. If you think you are physically feasible, you can find a job in the county where you live. When you say "heavily in debt", it may be your own pessimistic perception of life. Judging from your written description, you should be a person who knows the honor and disgrace of life. The people who lend you money must know your character very well and believe that they can.

You can persuade your husband to go out and work hard for a few years. For the sake of family happiness, you must learn to take responsibility at this moment. As long as he sinks down and works hard, the debts he owes will be paid off soon!

As a mother, taking care of children is as important as keeping a house. After all, children are too young to be cared for by their mothers. I believe that as long as you husband and wife are United, no matter how big the difficulties are, you will definitely overcome them!

I'm glad to answer your question. Personally, I think it's better to work at home, which can not only earn living expenses, but also look after the children at the same time.

1. The child is just born and too young to go out to work. Now many young couples in rural areas have children, and children can eat coarse grains when they are one year old. When children learn to walk, they can go out to work and entrust their children to their grandparents, so that they can at least walk and eat coarse grains, which is also beneficial to their physical and mental health and grandparents will not be too hard.

2. Children are the eternal concern of parents. As soon as the child is born, you will go out to work, which will inevitably miss the child and affect your work. Although you owe some debts now, you can pay back the money slowly as long as you work hard. I believe those creditors will understand that it is not easy to be a mother and will not embarrass you. Sunshine will always be after the storm, and the bright tomorrow will be better! Come on!

This year has dealt a great blow to both the boss and the workers. Many of us are at home this year, some have gone out and will come back next month. These days, people who work outside the home are all skilled, educated or professional, which is better, or they can sell coolies. If you just do general work, the competition is particularly fierce this year.

What I'm talking about is that everyone here has this situation. I don't know about your place, but according to your local actual situation, because even if we don't go out to work here, there are many factories in our town, and the overall salary is not worse than that outside. Because it costs a lot of money to pay rent outside, many of us haven't gone out this year and are working in our hometown.

Debt kills people, so we should adjust our mentality. Whenever you buy something, try not to buy anything with negative consumption. At that time, you might feel very proud when you bought it. After buying it, you have to pay more time and money to fill it. Everything is relative.

Hello, in your situation, you must think about how to arrange your future life. My suggestions are as follows.

First, give up getting along with children and go to other places to find job opportunities. You may earn more wages and pay off your debts faster, but it is cruel for a mother to be separated from her children for a long time and endure the pain of missing them.

Second, find a job with a slightly lower salary near my hometown, but I can grow up with my children every day. This is the best way. Although my salary is low, I may feel better every day because I can get along with my children. Although it takes longer to pay off the debt, don't you think it's better for yourself and your children?

I suggest you choose the second scheme. Accompanying children to grow up is the most important thing. If you really succeed in raising your child, your debt may be paid back to you in minutes.

Remember, debt is a promise and a little expression, not the end of the rope. God never shuts one door but he opens another. How can people commit suicide?

If you don't take good care of your new son Kang 'an, what regrets will you leave? It's a debt that can't be compensated for a lifetime, and it's suicide!

First, staying away is the worst policy, with small advantages and great disadvantages.

1, emotional disadvantage

The separation of mother and baby makes it difficult for you to give up your heart and cure it, which is not conducive to the growth of BB, and you also shed tears in your heart.

2. Lose money

No matter how much money you earn, it is not enough milk powder, but feeding is not the most suitable and high-quality food. BB has no profit, the debt is not repaid, but the money is given to the milk powder shop.

3. Parenting failure:

Not breast-feeding, BB's resistance is low, no matter how much money she earns, she still works for the hospital. There is no money left, and BB's health is also discounted.

Second, being close to home is the best policy.

1, seeing BB every day is a kind of happiness and motivation, and it is emotional comfort, strength and hope in life and work.

2, BB has natural food and grows healthily.

3, a month not only saves one or two thousand yuan of milk powder money, but also wages, that is, five or six thousand yuan of wages.

4, creditors often meet people, understand your situation, naturally understand, rest assured. Who doesn't respect and fear maternal love?

Third, the division of labor is appropriate and the family and career are prosperous.

1, BB Kang 'an, home is the bond between husband and wife. He is the motive force and hope for the existence and development of the family. Do you know that the essence of raising a new child is to maintain a family and husband-wife relationship?

At this stage, the husband mainly makes money and takes care of his family.

3. In difficult times, it is particularly critical to reflect the role of women in maintaining the family. When the heart is tired and the heart is scattered, the home does not exist.

At this time, it is even more necessary for couples to love and help them cross the road. Everything will be fine, really!

The first thing that many people in debt think about is how can I make more money to pay off my debts. This is understandable, but whether my daily and annual efforts can change my life and that of my family is beyond many people's consideration. Because it is too long-term, many people will give up and feel that one step at a time is like the "mouse trajectory" of cash flow games, always circling around and living in a busy and tired environment all their lives.

What you are facing now is not the problem of debt or where to work, but the problem of your future direction. You should know yourself and plan yourself, so that such efforts will be meaningful and you will get more income than just trying to make money and pay off debts.

Here, I will share with you a method to judge your strengths and weaknesses-SWOT analysis, which can help you quickly locate yourself, so as to find the desired job or entrepreneurial direction faster and better.

First, prepare a pen and a blank sheet of paper. There is still time (about 30 minutes).

S (strength) is advantage analysis, which finds advantages from yourself, such as your hobbies, professional knowledge, personality, attitude towards things, interpersonal relationships and so on.

W (weakness) is weakness analysis. Like the sub-item of advantage reference, the weakness evaluation here should be objective and true, and the weakness can be better analyzed according to its own combination.

O(opportunity) is an opportunity analysis, an opportunity to analyze your environment and external environment. Environmental opportunities refer to the aspects in which your environment is conducive to your promotion, such as a good learning atmosphere and high efficiency, and you can learn to contact the latest information or technology at any time.

T (threat) is a threat analysis, which comes from your current environment, including the prospect of this company, or the prospect of this job, competitors, etc. And discover the threat to yourself in advance.

After the discovery, formulate the corresponding action plan. The basic idea of making a plan is to give full play to advantages, overcome disadvantages, take advantage of opportunities and defuse threats. I believe you can fly freely in your future life and reach the other side you want.

Attached is a picture for your reference.

I'm glad to answer your question. I am a distant person. I suggest you stay with your children. The outside world is not as good as your town now.

I am also heavily in debt!