Turned around and returned to the same place.

Continue reading "The Great Relocation". This book talks about ecological migration.

The content of the book is boring, but it also describes the state of one person: many people have lived in one place for a long time, knowing clearly that leaving will bring more opportunities and a better life, but they still feel painful.

They initially chose a place for various reasons, but in the end, this place made them poor for generations, disconnected them from the outside world, and made them lose the joy of life, but they still would not take the initiative Go find somewhere better.

In the end they were forced to leave.

Think of many people, including myself.

What kind of lifestyle a person chooses naturally has the internal logic of his choice. He chose that way of life that must have made him happy.

If a person is forced to accept a certain way of life, he will definitely be unhappy in his heart, or he will compromise after accumulating for a long time, or use other ways to make up for his shortcomings. The piece that can’t be reached.

A person who completely subverts his life for the sake of lifestyle must have a kind of persistence in his bones. The terrifying stubbornness will make him fearless.

But if he chooses to give up, there will inevitably be a new substitute.

But not everyone understands.

A friend said that I am too stubborn and why I always have to stick to one direction. I have been thinking about it. Maybe this is the reason why I am who I am.

But now, I want to change, or I don’t want to be me anymore.

Why do I have to be that me if that me makes my own pain never stop? Isn't happiness the most important thing in life?

In order to stop suffering and to be happy, you can change your direction. If you can't find ways to make yourself happy, then you should find ways to make yourself happy. It should be human instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, but people use obsession to trap themselves in circles, which shouldn't be the case.

Asking others to be responsible for your own pain is a particularly stupid way of thinking, just like placing your happiness on others.

So, after turning around, I realized that I was actually back where I was.

But this place is really not the same place as before.

Some experiences will let people know that the things they once pursued exist, but they just can’t always be there, because life will wear away those good things.

Some experiences will make people change their direction. If they run into walls too many times, their original intention and naivety will make them hurt and painful.

Some people are sober and clear throughout their lives, knowing who they love, hate, and who they want, and what kind of life they want. They have clear goals and live the life they want early. Some people really don't know very well. They will fall into temporary confusion in the process of exploring their feelings. This is the only way for them to go from youthfulness to maturity, from confusion to self-recognition. It is a long process.

Sometimes, it may be too late to realize it.

However, the world is still so beautiful.