Is it unfilial not to let her parents live together?

Is it unfilial not to let her parents live together? This has to start from the beginning. People can't pay without getting it. Even if you get more, your heart is sweet. If we don't get any care and help, we are all newcomers. Why do you want to be a free labor force? Support you?

First of all, do your parents-in-law have sons? If there is, then it is an unwritten law that the son inherits the family property and is responsible for providing for the elderly. What you should do is ask your brother-in-law or brother-in-law why he doesn't support the elderly.

If they don't have a son, they will continue to have a stroke. Did they ask for a sky-high bride price when they got married? None of those betrothal gifts turned out to be your wife's dowry. Has the money arrived at your small home? If they really wanted to marry their daughters, you must treat them as filial parents. If the money had not been paid back, it would have been written off long ago.

Then look at your husband and wife's efforts in life. If you are in charge of making money to support your family and she is in charge of beauty, then I advise you to spend money on yourself and your children.

Now some women like double standards and don't talk about equality between men and women before marriage. Zhang Haikou wants a bride price, and you are not allowed to mention a dowry. After marriage, silence means equality between men and women. Both parents treat each other equally, and I get half of the money you earn (I heard that she recently paid her mother and asked her husband for living expenses, but obviously she didn't manage the family well. Divorce will be said to be overreacting, as if she was married and did nothing. Willing to give birth to a child for you is already the favor of the empress. This kind of woman doesn't love her husband at all, but only loves herself. This is the most horrible thing. Even her parents have no obligation to give everything for you, let alone her husband.

The life of husband and wife needs both sides to run together and support each other. If your parents-in-law marry their daughters sincerely, your wife will treat you sincerely, even if she only manages the family after marriage, she will be conscientious. You must take her parents as your own, because their property will be inherited by your husband and wife in a hundred years, and you have the obligation to support them.

If this is the case, then you may be the kind of person who doesn't like living with the elderly, so let me talk about some of my feelings.

Moving out and living alone after marriage has become one of the indispensable conditions for young people to get married now. I kept it from my parents after I got married. What is the hidden mind? Can't say dark, but at least not clear.

I have lived with my parents and my mother is a strong woman, so I understand the hardships of living with my parents. Adults long for freedom and freedom, and no one wants to be controlled, but loneliness is a poison. I saw my grandmother change this idea.

Grandma's family is very rich, and the two sons and three daughters are doing well, especially the two sons. In 2000, my uncle's assets were about 20 million to 30 million, and the smallest was over 100 million. Is this between ordinary people?

However, my great-uncle has a bad relationship with his grandmother because of the contradictions in his youth. I pursue alimony, but leave me alone. I always thought my uncle was unfilial, but my grandmother was also at fault. When my great-uncle was down and out, she broke a son's heart.

Small business abroad, his family immigrated to Australia, so he can only give money, but I know that even if he didn't immigrate, he wouldn't want to live with my grandmother, because my grandmother is very nice, but she is just a chatterbox.

My grandfather died early, so my grandmother has been living alone, rich, and living in a house in the country, but she is very lonely. Anyway, I hate to see it.

Grandma is too old to move around, so she hired a nanny. Oh, the example of nanny bullying the elderly really happened to me (I didn't see it with my own eyes because I was not in China either, but I listened to my mother). The nanny must decide what to eat for three meals a day. If grandma talks a lot, she also hates rolling her eyes and yelling at me. Hanging around playing cards for at least half a day is just spending money to support her uncle. By the way, the nanny's salary at that time should be more than 3000, 438+00 from 2005 to 2065. It's really easy to earn. My grandmother has always kept a secret, and her neighbors say that she is not easy to contact, and there is no country nanny. Until my grandmother broke her leg and the nanny was away, my mother fired the nanny in a rage. At the worst time, my mother even started to drive people away, and later it was not much better. She is greedy. I brought a person back to sleep at night ... all kinds of problems, and when I think of the news that the old man was killed by the nanny, I feel a kind of desolation that I can't turn around and leave. My grandmother is very nice, but she likes to talk. I used to play with her when I was a child.

I suggest grandma come to our house to accompany my mother, but there seems to be a custom that old people can't leave home and live in their daughter's house. Probably, they will be scolded by the village for being unfilial, so my grandmother has always disagreed.

Some time ago, I saw a news that a mother trained two sons of Tsinghua Peking University and was finally sent to a nursing home. The old man tidied up the house, tidied up the books, and gave away the gadgets he had saved all his life, sold them and threw them away. She was so reluctant to go, and finally entered the nursing home with a little luggage. Because there is only one small room in the nursing home, she can't put them down. The old man knocked on the door three times before leaving the house. She sold the house for herself. Or two sons), he was arranged to go to a nursing home and spent his own money. How many people still want to have children when they see this? I'll never forget that expression.

When I grow up, I fly solo. What's the difference between that and a pigeon occupying a magpie's nest?

I don't like preaching. I just advise those who decide to move out and live alone not to make their parents feel lonely. They often take their children back to see them. Besides, living with parents is not without benefits. They will help to look after the children, help to cook, and give advice when something happens (I remember a news that the child swallowed mercury by mistake, and the mother was at a loss, and the grandmother suddenly poured milk and then vomited. After being sent to the hospital, the doctor said that the grandmother had been rescued properly and the child was fine.

In fact, the biggest problem in society now is that young people are too independent, too self-centered and rarely think of others, otherwise the divorce rate will not soar to 60% after 2002. ...

Then those damn net posts, amorous people licking dogs, and filial mother Ma Bao are all in a mess.