Is it really necessary to persist in transnational relationships?

If two people really love each other, they should stick to it, find out the problems, and work together to find ways to overcome them.

1. Spiritual love defeats physical love.

Transnational love is of course a spiritual love. Some people have said that transnational love requires at least one party to have enough patience and willingness to maintain it. In fact, this is not necessarily the case. It must require the joint efforts of both parties. Those who are in cross-border love, don’t question whether your partner loves you. Just think about it, if you didn't love him, would he still stick with you until now?

Relationships, like marriage and family, can and need to be managed. Learn to manage each other's relationships, deal with possible conflicts, etc. But I think maybe it's just that I'm stupid, so I think so directly, and I need to slowly understand these things. Emotions are the foundation, and character also accounts for half. Emotions and character can both be worked on. No one is naturally suitable for anyone, and no one is naturally suitable for anyone. It's just an excuse.

2. Know how to communicate with Western men and conquer the biggest enemy (time difference in foreign countries).

Many girls who are in cross-border relationships will have such emotions. If they want to have a quarrel, they will still do it on the phone. Thinking about him sleeping soundly, he felt an inexplicable grievance with nowhere to vent. Therefore, boys should not question the question of love or not at this time. Relationships can and need to be managed. Every girl who insists on transnational love should have the right to lose her temper for no reason.

Boys have the obligation to comfort and understand. To overcome jet lag, staying up late is not a long-term solution. Do your own thing well, whether it's work or going to work, and then put your mind on the other person as much as possible, and seize the possible time to communicate with each other. When you are woken up by a phone call in the middle of the night, please don't get angry. The other person needs comfort more than you at the moment.

3. Overcoming loss and confusion

The hardest thing is not persistence, but the meaning of persistence. For most people with normal thinking, the meaning of insisting on a transnational relationship is to end the long-distance relationship and get together. People in long-distance relationships are most afraid of letting their partner lose sight of the hope of being together.