"Good Parents and Good Teachers—Harmonious Family Education" Education Stories Around Us

Let children be the little masters of learning. "Poor parents in the world." There is no parent in the world who doesn't want their children to grow up toward the rising sun like a sunflower. And I am also an ordinary parent among thousands of parents. I have the same idea. However, due to many external factors, children today have a higher starting point in their understanding of many things than before. With more ideas, they will I no longer listen to my parents. I think my parents are the older generation who don’t understand many things and view them with old ideas. Therefore, I often ask my daughter to exchange roles with me, compare our feelings, and let her know how hard it is to be a parent. Even though I have worked hard for my children, I still feel happy doing it. Parents educating their children is an eternal theme. Good characters are created from cartoon characters. Nowadays, cartoon characters have penetrated into the hearts of children and play a guiding role that cannot be ignored. I remember that on the first day of my daughter’s elementary school, I kept telling her, “Daughter, now you are facing You will have to fight against ten years of learning difficulties. No matter what, you have to work hard and be as brave as Ultraman Tiga! "You must know that my daughter loves Tiga the most. For this reason, I often look at the cartoon characters that my daughter likes. Explore their advantages and then tell your daughter to learn from them. With so many living role models, your daughter has developed a strong character from an early age, so that she can persevere and pursue unremittingly despite difficulties in learning. 1. Hone your strong will from the prescribed life. Today’s children are bored in books every day. This is not conducive to the child’s inner growth and will. If you want to broaden your horizons, let your daughter throw away the books during the weekends and go outside to breathe. Getting fresh air is also a good way. Every Friday after school, I ask the children to finish their homework. The premise is to use going out as a bait. This can stimulate the children's enthusiasm for learning, but this will cause the children to complete the tasks. mentality to complete the homework, so as a parent, I will check appropriately and take the opportunity to exercise the child's learning autonomy and cultivate her character of responsibility that she has developed since childhood. On Saturday, I will fulfill my promise to take her to outside activities. . For example: skating, swinging, etc. are all good choices. You can hone your will in outdoor activities and have abundant extracurricular activities to give you a holiday. 2. Develop innovations from the Internet. Nowadays, almost every household must have a computer, and my family is no exception. In order to prevent children from falling into the Internet and being unable to extricate themselves, many parents choose to keep their children away from the Internet, but they can be appropriately Moderate use of the Internet can provide children with some extracurricular life, and can develop children's IQ, acquire knowledge that cannot be learned in books, and expand children's knowledge. 3. Encourage children’s progress from small aspects. It is said that children cannot lack encouragement! Children who are praised will always be better than those who are scolded. I am no exception. I often encourage my daughter when I see a little progress. When I see the smile on my daughter’s face, I believe in her. We will definitely do better. As parents, shouldn’t we be proud of our children? Guide them every time they get lost, and encourage them every time they make progress. 4. Look directly at one’s own shortcomings. Sometimes, children’s suggestions and opinions from their parents are crucial. The saying "Parents are their children's first teachers" is absolutely true. As parents, our children learn from our words and actions. Therefore, when children learn, I believe that parents should first teach them how to be qualified. Parents should accept their own shortcomings with an open mind. Is this the so-called "teaching and learning"? 5. Reflect great wisdom from small details. It is very good to develop the habit of being careful and attentive from an early age. I often teach my daughter to observe small details and pay attention to everything. Sometimes many mysteries will be found in many inconspicuous little things. Life is full of things. With knowledge. Only through continuous careful understanding and continuous discovery can we find the source of knowledge. 6. Learn how to love your children. Excessive pampering will cause a lot of excessive willfulness, while too little care will also cause children to have low self-esteem and withdrawn personality. Therefore, as parents, we should have a good sense of proportion and learn how to love our children without being overly accommodating or overly indifferent, which will stifle the child's young spiritual development. I firmly believe that only when a child is loved can the child understand the happiness of her love. 7. Learn to cooperate with our children. As parents, we should also think about our children's inner thoughts, so as to encourage our children to study with goals and take practical actions to pursue our own realistic goals and goals. The formulation is also very important, which requires the cooperation of parents and children. Parents only play a guiding role, and ultimately it is up to their children to decide. Good guidance is the successful starting point for children to achieve their goals. 8. Learn to cultivate children’s willingness to learn. Children’s lack of willingness to learn is due to spontaneity and delayed development, which makes children lack their own potential and show other people’s personalities. More parents say to their children: “If you don’t study well now, you will have to do it in the future.” Go beg for food! "If you don't study hard now, you will regret it later. Your parents are doing this for your own good!" These words are more likely to trigger children's obsession with psychology. Therefore, as parents, our biggest responsibility is to help children find the joy of learning in learning and create a good learning atmosphere for them. 9. Learn to be your child’s friend. This is an extremely important point. I often talk to her after meals.

At home, she and I are more like two close friends. She will tell me many things that happened at school, her thoughts, suggestions or worries. This not only enhances the relationship between me and her, but also strengthens the relationship between her and me. improved her language skills. Why not? As the study burden increases, her worries increase. Sometimes telling her a few jokes to liven up the atmosphere can also relax her brain. 10. The little trendy mother who has learned how to dress up. I will help her dress up several times in her extracurricular life. There is no girl in the world who doesn’t like to be beautiful. But the beauty I am referring to here does not mean the kind of fireworks and wine, but the kind of beauty. Clean and tidy. Even if you dress neatly at home, it is still important. Most parents often ignore this point. The cultivation of moral character of scholars not only refers to internal cultivation, but also includes external cultivation.

In short, educating children does not happen overnight. This is the same responsibility of parents and children, for the same goal!