Tang Yifei publicly killed Sebrina: Is it necessary for the incumbent to kill her husband's ex-wife after eight years?

Introduction: Many women always have mixed feelings when referring to their husbands' predecessors or ex-wives. However, for the ex who broke up with her husband, it is not the man who is the husband who often forgets them, but the current husband.

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There used to be two women who frequently searched online, one was Tang Yifei and the other was Sebrina.

These two women may never say a word, but they are together from time to time because of a man, and that man is Ling.

It's Lin's ex-wife Married in 2003, 20 1 1 divorced. It's been eight years now.

After the divorce, they remarried. Because Lin and he remarried on June 20 12 after a year and a half of divorce, they have always suspected that they had feelings before Lin's divorce.

Now, more than eight years after Yao and his divorce, Weibo has made no secret of cheating in marriage and has more than one partner.

In the program, Tang Yifei repeatedly stressed that he was not a mistress, and established a fan base, giving fans who supported him a red envelope of 60,000 yuan.

I don't know why, but after this incident broke out, it was obvious that the public didn't have much sympathy for Tang Yifei and didn't deliberately trample down Sebrina.

Compared with Tang Yifei's gaffe, Sebrina seems to be much calmer. She doesn't seem to care too much about the fact that her ex-husband's current husband has killed her. Moreover, after divorcing Lin, she rarely mentioned her ex-husband in public.

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Today we don't talk about the private affairs between stars. Let's just say one question on the matter: Is it necessary for the current husband to cling to his predecessor, even though he and his predecessor have been separated for nearly ten years, is there really no connection after separation? !

A friend, Hui, once encountered a problem. After she broke up with her ex-husband, there was no contact, but she was harassed by her ex-husband's current wife many times.

Hui and her ex-husband also had feelings. They are college alumni and students in the same grade. Campus love does not take into account many practical problems. Hui just thinks that her ex-husband is very kind to herself, so she has the idea of growing old together.

Who knows, when they got married, they caused a lot of unhappiness. The reason is that they have different understandings of marriage and family.

Ah Hui's parents didn't ask for a bride price, but because the two families were hundreds of miles apart, Ah Hui was going to get married in the man's city, so Ah Hui's parents asked the man to prepare the wedding room without asking for a penny for a bride price. Of course, Hui's name is not required in the wedding room, but the name of husband and wife is required.

However, A Hui's former mother-in-law thought that A Hui didn't have a dowry and a stable job, so she would lose a lot at home when preparing a wedding room, so she rented a suite and lied to A Hui and her parents that it was a wedding room.

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Soon after they got married, Hui knew the truth about the house. She doesn't think she has no hands or feet and can't make money, so why should she guard against this and that?

Hui felt that her former mother-in-law had watched too many palace dramas, so she didn't care too much, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was naturally bad.

It happened that at this time, Hui's ex-husband had no effect at all. He can't handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and he wants to be a good son, so he always wronged Hui more or less.

After a long time, Hui felt that her ex-husband was unreliable.

Just then, Hui's ex-husband met a new female colleague, and her admiring eyes satisfied her ex-husband's self-esteem. After a while, they began to be ambiguous, and Hui was the last to know.

Marriage is hopeless, so Ah Hui never had time to have children, and they haven't been married for long, and there is nothing to divide the property. The divorce went well.

After the divorce, the ex-husband did not marry his former female colleague. Although the ex-husband and the female colleague were really good for a while, they finally broke up.

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After the divorce, Hui returned to her parents' city, and everything started from scratch, from the very beginning to preparing for the exam. In short, she has been moving forward.

In the third year of divorce, Hui was admitted to a public institution and met a man who was also divorced and childless. They got married after dating for more than a year.

Hui is very good in all aspects. She gave birth to two children. Her husband is very kind to himself and his children, and her own career is quite good, and it is still rising.

However, just as Hui was immersed in a happy life, she received a puzzling short message mentioning her ex-husband's name. And from this message, I often receive short messages about my ex-husband.

The content of the message is about saying that Hui is not a good woman, does not respect her mother-in-law, does not care about her husband, and can't control her husband to cheat her.

It took Hui a long time to confirm that these messages were sent by her ex-husband, but Hui didn't reply to any of them.

Hui said: "I am very happy and full now, with a job, children and family." I am busy every day, how can I have time and energy to argue with a stranger? If you have this time, it is better to take your children to play or have a rest! I think this woman is just too idle. How come I never go to my husband's ex-wife? I've never thought about it! "

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You see, people like Hui are living well.

The past is the past. No matter why they divorced or broke up, the point is that they are all in the past.

Especially after nearly ten years, many things really don't need to be entangled.

There is a saying: let others go, and let yourself go.

The focus of a woman's life is really not to pester her husband's ex. Whether your predecessor is good or bad has nothing to do with you.

What you need to do is to take care of yourself, your career or your family.

Too many women want to prove that they are excellent, because Excellence can win the love of their husbands and make them forget their predecessors, so they start to prove their Excellence and even take the initiative to find their husbands' predecessors for verification.

This reminds me of Michelle Ye, who was called "the boss" before, and also broke up with Xiao Mo's predecessor and her boyfriend's predecessor. Fortunately, Xiao Mo's later girlfriend was not as bad as Michelle Ye's. Otherwise, when will this revenge be reported?

Woman, let's relax and cherish the beauty that belongs to us now, instead of adding obstacles to ourselves and others.