36-year-old woman: I won't make do with it. Wait a minute. There will be good men. Can you wait until this age?

For love, Xiaobei has been waiting for the appearance of the only thrill. Until now, she still looks like an old god, and she is not in a hurry.

To say that this is also the self-confidence of modern women, and they don't have to rely on men's income and shelter to live. She feels that she has the right and freedom to choose her favorite marriage partner and wait for the man who is destined to appear.

But in stark contrast to her, after her parents came home from college, they began to urge marriage, which made her very headache.

As long as she comes home from work, grandma is on the left, mom and dad are on the right, and my brother forms an encirclement on the other side, she doesn't directly say. Afraid that she would get annoyed and walk away, she began to pretend that she didn't want to chat, saying that her nephew could cook soy sauce and her daughter married again. Xiaobei was indifferent after listening. What does this have to do with her life?

02

In college, Xiaobei once talked about a boyfriend. They are in their prime and have a good relationship. However, after graduation, practical problems are in front of them, and their life plans and goals are very different.

Boyfriend wants to take her to study abroad. If she develops well there, she will settle down, that is to say, she will emigrate and will not return to China. However, the Xiaobei family is not allowed to get married at home, let alone go to the other side of the ocean. There is no room for discussion.

They are all science students with higher education. Calm and rational is far better than emotional impulse. Out of respect for each other, they parted peacefully. From then on, Lao Yan and his wife broke up, lived at two ends of the earth and never contacted each other again.

Xiaobei is very open to the failure of this love. She didn't admit that she was lovelorn, but felt that her love lost to reality, and the blow was not too great.

For marriage, Xiaobei has his own principles. He will never get married, but he must marry love. But since she had an ex-boyfriend, she has never met the right person. She has been waiting from her early twenties to her thirties now, and she still lives alone.

03

But for her, the loneliness of one person is better than the boredom of two people. Marriage without love is not a home but a grave, that's what she thinks.

In addition, one thing deepened her confidence and strengthened her choice. Someone made her believe that love has no age limit, as long as it is destiny takes a hand's fate, it will always come.

No matter how old you are, it is still possible to find happiness in life. She has a best friend, the same age as Xiaobei, who is unwilling to marry, but only willing to marry love. Two stubborn women just met and never agreed to stick to the offensive and defensive alliance. At the age of 33, my best friend waited for his Mr. Right, and they fell in love at first sight. She said that she finally met the man named "once in a thousand years".

I met for a month and got married. At that time, the speed was so fast that Xiaobei sighed: Is this love? After getting married, my girlfriend's husband gave her a Porsche and opened a clothing company for her. She married love, got wealth and became a winner in life, which made Xiaobei envious.

04

The elders at home have never given up. Over the years, they have arranged various blind dates, and Xiaobei has also been there, but without exception, they have no feeling at first sight, and Xiaobei directly refused.

She said that at first, boys were too young to understand, and everyone felt embarrassed when they met, and they didn't cherish the opportunity, so they were too lazy to contact.

Later, when she got older, the men she met became worse and worse. Obviously, that's the age of marriage, and she wants to find a woman who also wants to get married to start a family. She's not interested.

What is even more ridiculous is that she is still waiting for her Prince Charming to appear, but she is targeted by those middle-aged greasy men who are divorced and widowed. Fat, thin, dry, ugly, without money and feeling good about themselves.

At that time, wechat was added out of courtesy, and I was not interested in connecting to meet. These "crooked melons and cracked dates" in her eyes actually sent her Weibo, saying how low their requirements for marriage are, saying that "broken pots and broken pots have their own broken pots", just looking for someone to chat, and they were so angry that they pulled each other black on the spot.

05

They are broken pots, yes, but she is not the broken pot cover, not the person they can make do with. In her opinion, the other person is too tasteless, too ignorant and has no self-knowledge.

From then on, as long as she thought of these unpleasant things, she ate a fly and even lost interest in blind date. She also wants to marry her lover like her best friend, even if the other person has no car or house.

In order not to let her marriage become a grave, she adhered to such a bottom line and criteria.

Every time my mother nags, she only replies, "I won't make do with it. Just wait. There will be a good man."

Mother's hair turned white, and the old man sighed and said, "Daughter, you are 36." Her answer was, "So what?"

With the development of society, there is a clear distinction between young people and the older generation in marriage and love.

The older generation thinks that marriage is to live together, while young people think that a make-do marriage can't be happy, let alone lasting. Is single uglier than divorce? Xiaobeiren doesn't know what the world is like. Xiao Bei's values, right? What's your opinion and idea?