Is it okay to immigrate to the United States to open a barber shop?

In a blink of an eye, my brother Leslie Cheung has been away from us for 18 years.

My brother's songs, my brother's movies, my brother's ... and the news that "my brother loves to wear skirts/high heels" and "my brother loves homosexuality" also stayed in my memory.

How to look at this matter? Perhaps it is most appropriate to use the sentence that my brother himself said:

How simple and complicated it is, it has always been us.

However, my brother's side has always been beautiful as a cloud. Why is he with Tang Hede?

Let's read my brother's voice, maybe we can find the answer.

As my brother himself said, he is really not "gay". He once loved several girls. Let's review it paragraph by paragraph.

Leslie Cheung was born in September 12 1956. She is a virgo who pursues perfection.

His father, Zhang Huohai, is a tailor and the owner of a foreign clothes shop.

Not an ordinary tailor, but the king of foreign clothes.

Zhang Haihui's foreign clothes shop has designed foreign clothes for many Hollywood stars, such as Marlon Brando, william holden and gary grant.

Because Zhang Hai-hai is skilled in craftsmanship and knows how to publicize, the business of foreign clothes shops at home has always been good, and the family conditions of the Zhang family are naturally not bad.

Zhang Haihui is a "big family". He has married three wives and concubines, and Leslie Cheung is his tenth child.

When he grew up, Leslie Cheung was sent to Luqi College (primary school) by his father, where he met his first love.

In primary school, Leslie Cheung fell in love with her classmate Kuang Manxian.

Xiao Kuang is very beautiful because he is shorter than Leslie Cheung and sits in front of him.

In order to attract Kuang Manxian's attention, Leslie Cheung often throws notes to her.

Because Pan Yuyao, the mother whom Kuang Manxian's mother knew, began to be clever and deliberately approached her, hoping to brush her face in the future.

From grade two to grade four, Kuang Manxian immigrated to Canada with her family before she got her "mother-in-law" in Leslie Cheung. ...

After middle school, Kuang Manxian came back once. Leslie Cheung, who got the news, seized the opportunity and put forward an invitation to "go shopping together". I didn't expect Kuang to agree in one bite.

Leslie Cheung was so excited that he couldn't sleep all night, so he went to the barber's to get a haircut that couldn't be shorter, so as to look "refreshed".

This sight really refreshed Kuang's classmates and made them speechless with surprise.

Girls developed early, and Kuang Manxian was already very slim at that time. On the other hand, Leslie Cheung is not only thin, but also tanned by frequent swimming. Looks are very different from Kuang's classmates.

We agreed to go shopping, so let's bite the bullet and go shopping.

But Kuang's classmates are completely uninterested. They don't want to go here, and they are not interested in it. In the end, the two had to end the "date" in a hurry.

Story, there would be no "later".

When he entered middle school, Leslie Cheung was eager to find a girlfriend. He thinks it would be "cool" to have girls to play with.

However, the school he attended was very strict, with boys and girls attending classes separately, even during recess.

It's hard to meet a girl you like.

But Leslie Cheung knew how to meet the challenge, so he began to "analyze" and make a "plan".

Girls who are quiet and love reading are generally not easy to get in touch with. It's easier for an extrovert who loves sports (I don't know why he thinks so).

In short, Leslie Cheung is eyeing the sports ground. ...

In order to pursue female classmates, Leslie Cheung enthusiastically signed up for the sports meeting and took the initiative to meet female classmates.

It wasn't long before he really met Nancy, the girl he liked.

At that time, Nancy already had a boyfriend, and she was a large group of "boyfriends".

Looking for the right action, Leslie Cheung bravely confessed to Nancy, but she didn't think about it but got the woman's disgust.

At that time, Leslie Cheung was very cute. His English name was Bobby. Nancy thought Leslie Cheung was too naive for herself, so she politely refused him.

Later, Leslie Cheung admitted that he changed his English name to "Leslie" because he didn't like "Bobby" because it was so cute. He said this at the farewell concert of 1989:

Emmmm~ must have been rejected by Nancy, leaving a "blow" to Leslie Cheung.

Leslie Cheung, who failed in confession but full of energy, once again decided to pursue the next "true love" on the sports field.

In the second grade, I met a little girl named Wang in the badminton court.

Later, when recalling this relationship, Leslie Cheung said:

This was Leslie Cheung's first real "first love" and he didn't feel rejected. But if it is "love", it is not enough to ask for entertainment.

Leslie Cheung and Mr. Wang often get together to learn their skills. The two spent an unforgettable time together in their youth.

As for why not, because Leslie Cheung was going to study abroad.

From primary school to middle school, Leslie Cheung's grades have been average. Even if his father, Zhang Huohai, invited a tutor for him, it had little effect.

Perhaps because of "loving exercise in sports field too much", Leslie Cheung almost failed in middle school 1 grade. I barely entered the second grade, and my grades were still very poor. The teacher was impatient and called Zhang Huohai to school to talk many times, which made Zhang Dad very angry.

So, one day, Zhang's father suggested:

Hearing his father's proposal, Leslie Cheung thought it was feasible. Anyway, my grades in school are very poor, and I am not very successful in pursuing girls. Just go abroad and see the world.

So, in 1969, Zhang Haihui sent 13-year-old Leslie Cheung to a middle school in England. After graduation, Leslie Cheung was successfully admitted to the University of Leeds in England to study textiles. At that time, Leslie Cheung also dreamed of going home to inherit his father's "mantle" after graduation, becoming a tailor and getting rich by his hands.

But you never know, when I was a freshman in Leslie Cheung, Zhang Huohai suddenly had a stroke.

Leslie Cheung had to suspend his studies and return to Hongkong.

If the first few paragraphs are not true love, then Teresa Mo must be (love).

Mao Mao is the only girlfriend admitted by Leslie Cheung himself, and both sides have met their parents.

Leslie Cheung once said that when he was 20 (or 22), he proposed to Teresa Mo, who was 17 (or 19). Backward, it's probably 1977, which should be when my brother just debuted.

Many years later, Leslie Cheung recalled the origin of Mao Mao, he said:

Speaking of which, Leslie Cheung paused, considered and continued:

As my brother himself said, he is really a single-minded person. Although he was "active" when he was young, not many people really loved him after he entered maturity. Later, he met Mr. Tang from Tang Hede, who is also a man with long-term feelings. After his brother died for many years, he didn't find a partner again, and the house was still the same at that time.

Although what I said is a bit old-fashioned, it is true that two single-minded people can last for a long time.

My in the mind continue to talk about Mao Mao, brother said:

In the end, the words revealed regret and added:

But no matter how hard his brother tried, when Leslie Cheung, 20, confessed to Mao Mao, who was only 17 years old, little Mao Mao was frightened. ...

It should be said that Leslie Cheung's confession is still abrupt and immature. Mao Mao can't marry a man who has only known him for a few months. Besides, Mao Mao was still very young at that time, which was the period of her career development. It is human nature that she doesn't want to get married too early.

After a while, the news of their love came out.

Sydney, formerly known as Yan Huiming, is Michelle's sister. She was only 16 years old when she debuted.

At that time, Michelle was very strict with this little sister, but she was very at ease with her younger brother, because Michelle's character was trustworthy.

I wonder if you have found that Sydney and Teresa Mo are very similar in temperament?

Leslie Cheung once said of Sydney:

Sydney, known as "BB Elephant", wants to lose weight, but Leslie Cheung doesn't agree. He said:

Sydney likes dancing in discotheques, so Leslie Cheung often goes with her. He said:

My brother went to Singapore to perform and bought a skirt for Sydney when he came back, but Sydney didn't like wearing skirts very much.

Maybe two people's personalities and preferences are really inappropriate and out of step everywhere. This relationship ended in nothing.

After their separation from Sydney, Leslie Cheung and Ni Shibei had a brief love affair, and they filmed together.

Together, they developed 24 flavors of batter and sweetness from right to right.

But this relationship should be a "propaganda need", not a real "love". Soon after, because Ni Shibei went abroad, there was no following.

Waiting for the serious love, and the eldest daughter, Yang.

Leslie Cheung first met Yang Shoucheng, who was watching the game, at a star basketball game. At that time, although my brother was not popular, Yang Shoucheng felt that he had great potential and would become a superstar one day. In addition, he likes his brother's sincere personality very much, so they became inseparable friends and often ate and chatted together.

Once, my brother wanted to shoot the album cover, and Yang Shoucheng offered to go to his swimming pool to shoot the needed shots, and my brother gladly went.

On the day my brother went to shoot, our eldest daughter Yang just returned to Hong Kong for the summer vacation. In the long run, the relationship between them has advanced by leaps and bounds. But before long, he will go back to the United States to study, and Yang and his brother have become long-distance lovers.

Although we can still communicate through long-distance telephone calls and letters, after a long time, this relationship will be lost.

My brother developed feelings with several girls, but none of them succeeded in the end. Looking back on the road, I found that he loved me the most, but he was always by my side.

Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede have known each other since childhood. They are childhood playmates.

1982 65438+On February 9th, we went to Regent Hong Kong to have a family dinner with dopted mother Tan.

Besides, Tan has an adopted son.

Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede didn't see each other for many years, but they met again at that banquet.

1983 65438+ 10. On the 2nd of October, the two formally met at the party and confirmed their love relationship, which lasted for 20 years.

When the two met again, in fact, my brother's career was still in the climbing period and had not reached its peak. On the other hand, Tang Hede is already a successful person. He is engaged in the financial industry and earns a lot of money every year.

After they got together, Tang Hede not only extended a helping hand economically, but also put forward his own suggestions for his brother's career development. He accompanied his brother through the most difficult period of exploration and growth. When my brother was half the sky red, he ran off the stage and silently accompanied him behind him.

After a long time, Leslie Cheung said:

Years later, Leslie Cheung was interviewed by his ex-girlfriend Teresa Mo and asked why he liked Tang Hede. Leslie Cheung replied:

Although he has been with Leslie Cheung for a long time, Tang Hede has kept a low profile. When Leslie Cheung was inconvenient to make public, he silently cared for and supported him behind his back.

He takes care of his brother's property, life and daily life.

When my brother goes to a concert or a performance, he always waits silently under the stage.

You said it was too light? But true happiness is mostly so dull.

People who really love you can't bear to let you suffer a little injustice.

Brother also doesn't want Tang Tang to be wronged.

On another night, when Tang Tang was shopping with his brother, he met paparazzi who took pictures secretly.

Leslie Cheung obviously found the camera and knew what the paparazzi were trying to do. But he suddenly shook Tang Hede's hand in front of the camera. Tang Tang's hand was suddenly pulled, and he looked back. This moment is frozen.

Holding his hand is to give him confidence and tell him that I will be brave and I will always be there.

In fact, Leslie Cheung once gave up her singing career because she couldn't stand gossip, and went to Canada with Tang Tang.

1989, Leslie Cheung announced his retirement from music and moved to Canada with Tang Tang. In order to accompany Leslie Cheung, Tang Hede applied to the company for transfer to Canada.

In Canada, they spent the most leisurely days in their lives, making tea and reading books together. Go out to meet friends occasionally. The deer in the neighborhood sometimes come to their yard to "steal" flowers, which Leslie Cheung affectionately called "Bambi".

But at that time, both of them were too young and comfortable for too long, and they began to miss the "world of mortals" again.

Leslie Cheung told Tang Hede that he missed the stage and fans again.

Tang Tang word, with his brother back to Hong Kong.

199765438+1On October 4th, Leslie Cheung publicly thanked his mother and beloved Tang Hede at the concert spanning 97. And sent a song "The Moon Represents My Heart".

Leslie Cheung introduced his love affair to the fans present, not only did he not "lose his powder", but he also got the blessing from the fans.

In order to take care of Leslie Cheung, Tang Hede, who used to work in the financial circle, also quit his high-paying job in the bank to concentrate on his brother's finances. Although "overqualified", he is very satisfied.

Tang Tang stayed with his brother during his illness. My sick brother sometimes loses his temper, but the good-natured Tang Tang always tolerates him and takes him to see a doctor everywhere.

My brother is very ill. After a period of treatment, he still hasn't improved.

I can't take it anymore.

On April 1 2003, my brother fulfilled himself and left Tang Tang alone in this world.

At his brother's funeral, Tang Tang appeared at the top of the family obituary as a "beloved".

On the day of the funeral, Tang Tang needed the help of two friends to stand up. He kept looking at his brother's portrait and shouting "A Zi (brother's nickname)", with an OK gesture in his hand. It is said that this is a sign of love between Tang Tang and his brother.

After the noise disappeared, Tang Tang still lived in the original house, and the furnishings in the house were the same as when his brother was alive.

Finally, let's take a look at the question raised in the title: Why did my brother Leslie Cheung ignore "beautiful women like clouds" and come together with Tang Hede?

After reading my brother's love history, we can find that several relationships when I was young were not very successful. In particular, being rejected by Teresa Mo was a great blow to him. Then several relationships, although my brother still paid a lot, ended in failure. It was not until 1982 that he met Tang Hede again that he realized the feeling of being spoiled by others.

My brother has been looking for "love" all his life, but unfortunately he can't love it.

1999, Leslie Cheung talked about his love view in his personal photo interview:

Although many people can't accept the love between my brother and Tang Tang, you should pay attention to my brother's sentence, "If someone likes me, I also like each other, it doesn't matter whether he is a man or a woman. Anyway, I can't touch such happiness anyway. If both men and women can, the chances will double. What's wrong with you? " It feels right.

Why do you love him?

Because he is good, because he is Tang Hede.

People are always "not optimistic" about something because of limited experience and negative worries.

But love has always been self-aware, and my brother doesn't need to explain it to anyone. No blessing is ok, but please respect it.

What do you think of the affection between my brother and Tang Tang?