Who immigrates to the United States is not suitable for American life?

Many people like to be lively, especially those who have seen many American movies or TV series, think that American life is rich and colorful, including myself. In fact, I didn't know until I came here that life in the United States is very monotonous, a bit like life in rural China. Most people are in a hurry to go home after work, and rarely work overtime (of course, computer companies work overtime more), instead of attending any party, and they will never find a few friends to eat, sing and play cards after work, as we do in China; There is little contact between friends, and they all put family first. People are used to going home after work. So if you are used to the lively life with friends in China, you will find it very monotonous.

At home, officials of all sizes are enjoying or trying to enjoy some special rights as much as possible, such as eating and drinking at public funds, private use of buses and building luxury offices (it is said that the municipal government in Chengdu can be compared with the White House in the United States). My hometown is a small town, but the office building is big and luxurious. It is said that a person has two offices on average, which is a luxurious private house, and no taxpayer dares to object. Public money travel (euphemistically called business trip), even taking a mistress, and telling people what to do when they meet. Here, ordinary people dare to say that Bush is stupid, and there are advertisements satirizing Bush on TV. The relationship between superiors and subordinates is limited to work, and people will not think that you are an official. There is absolutely no misuse of public funds, otherwise local taxpayers will directly unite against it. Therefore, officials who are accustomed to the comfortable life in China can never live here. Of course, they are smarter, and people don't have to work in America at all. They all brought a lot of public money from China, bought luxury houses in the United States and lived a luxurious life. I read in Sing Tao Daily the other day that there was a town where almost all corrupt officials escaped from the mainland. They bought millions of luxury houses, which directly doubled the local housing prices. One of them is the president of the Bank of China, who transferred 2 billion RMB from the Bank of China (he has been extradited to China).

People who want to get rich overnight

Many people have a misconception that arachis duranensis is the United States, so they try their best to come to the United States to find their American dream. In fact, there is a very good and pertinent saying, "The United States is a place to live, and it is still in China that people make a lot of money.". Because all aspects of the system in the United States are perfect, there are absolutely not so many loopholes to drill, and you will be put in prison if you are not careful. If you want to produce fake and shoddy goods, you may be punished by going bankrupt overnight. It's also impossible to have a big project for you just because you know people in the government (like in China, people who have relations with officials have ascended to heaven because of one person, a fairy, and a chicken and a dog have ascended to heaven). Few leaders here took office and began to build large buildings, which brought the opportunity to "get rich". Few government departments I have seen in new york and my state are as luxurious, atmospheric and modern as China, and many houses are still very old. Doing business is not as easy as in China, and restaurants seem to be easier, but without public funds to eat and drink like in China, you won't have so many "regular customers" who don't care about the price. I've been to many restaurants in China, and I've never seen customers fill half the hall. Moreover, the labor bureau is also very strict in checking whether workers have work status and whether employees' wages meet the minimum wage requirements. Last month, a restaurant was accused of failing to pay overtime for its employees. This restaurant not only has to pay all the wages to its employees, but also has to be fined a lot of money. There is nothing to talk about. By no means can it be solved by inviting the leaders of a certain bureau to have dinner and give gifts. Of course, many China people have created wealth here, but they really work hard; There are also many highly educated and intelligent intellectuals who have successfully started their own businesses. But it is definitely not as easy as many people think. In contrast, in China, it is much easier for many people to make money, especially those who have connections or can participate.

People with family background who want to rely on.

In the United States, a person's good family background only provides him with good opportunities for growth and education, and has little influence on his future work and life. It is very unlikely to find a good job for yourself by relying on the status of parents. People have been educated by themselves since childhood. In China, family background is very important. Parents have a good job, and children may work in their parents' units or in places where their parents are leaders, so they can arrange a good job for their children, such as domestic power companies, telecommunications companies and even banks in previous years. As long as your parents work there, you are likely to go to work easily and get a good salary, even if you just graduated from high school; On the other hand, it doesn't matter even if you graduated from a famous university with a master's degree. It's hard for you to get into those units. Sometimes it's really unfair to think about it. The liberal arts professors in our university (many universities) (the science professors have the financial support of national scientific research projects, and their lives are very good) are only three or four thousand yuan a month, and the pressure is still great. After completing the master's degree, they will also receive further study abroad. As long as ordinary employees of power companies are logistics, they can get at least eight or nine thousand months and tens of thousands of holidays, so their work is very easy. The irony is that the state subsidizes them every year.

People who want to get something for nothing by virtue of their youth and beauty.

Just like the concept of marriage and love I wrote earlier, Americans (in general) pay more attention to whether each other's hobbies are consistent with their own, and whether they are happy with each other, comfort and happiness are the main factors they consider; They don't pay so much attention to the outside world, so many people think that foreigners' aesthetics are different when they see that many China women married by foreigners are not beautiful. I have seen many interviews in this field, but in fact, most of them are not much different from us in aesthetics. Their answer is that he doesn't care whether others think his girlfriend is beautiful or not, as long as it is his, he feels good. Not that they are noble. Their culture is to believe in themselves and be proud of their choices. Therefore, many girls may be disappointed if they want to get something for nothing or find a rich husband just because they are young and beautiful.