Why are there more "bachelors" in rural areas and fewer "leftover women" while there are more "leftover women" in big cities?

There are more bachelors in rural areas and more women left in cities.

There are over 30 million bachelors in China, but there are only over 3 million women left. Even if all the leftover women are married to bachelors, there are still more than 10 million lamps left. Moreover, leftover women and bachelors themselves are people from two worlds, and they are two unrelated groups. It's crazy to want to combine them.

There are only bachelors in the countryside, how can there be leftover women?

The government should give guidance and adopt the way of going out and introducing. That is to guide the export of labor services and systematically export bachelors to Vietnam, Africa, Russia, Latvia and other countries. Because there are more men than women in these countries, bachelors make money when they go, and they can marry a daughter-in-law if they are lucky.

Introduction is to introduce foreign women, let these women engage in the tertiary industry and increase the proportion of women. Only when there are more women around you can you find a wife.

In my hometown, women who have been married twice and three times want more than 200 thousand bride price. There is a woman in the neighboring village who has been divorced twice and lives in her mother's house with her twin sons. The bride's parents demanded that the bride price be no less than 250,000.

There are more than 20 men competing for such a request. Finally, my youngest son won. The youngest son is1.8m tall and unmarried. He owns a garage with an annual net income of more than 300,000 yuan. The main reason is that he has only one son and one daughter. If he has two sons, the woman will still not agree.

Why are there more "bachelors" in rural areas and fewer leftover women, while there are more "leftover women" in big cities?

Many rural parents want their daughters to go to the city, find a job and marry a man in the city. This is called water struggles upwards. I hope my daughter is well and I don't want her to be in the countryside.

Now you have to buy seeds, fertilizers, pesticides and herbicides for farming. If there is more land, you have to hire people to farm it. In autumn, all these costs are gone, and food can't make much money at all.

So all the girls from the countryside went to the cities, and the rest were boys. Now there are more men than women. In rural areas, there are more bachelors who can cash out, and there are fewer women left.

There are many leftover women in big cities, especially divorced women, and there are many women aged 40 to 50.

Because rural women have gone to big cities, female students in colleges and universities have stayed in cities after graduation, because there are many women in big cities, with good economic conditions and high wages.

In terms of marriage, some women have good conditions and high academic qualifications, and are unwilling to find a partner, so they postpone the wedding event. There are also many divorced women who have extremely high requirements for finding men, which can reflect that there are more leftover women in big cities. According to relevant media reports, there are more than 800,000 women left in Beijing, which is really shocking. In the countryside, single men can't find wives.

Now, women think differently. In the past, women wanted to get married early and have a family. Nowadays, many women can't find a suitable partner and can only choose to be single. Maybe they want to find a man they like, so they might as well be single for life.

It is a fact that rural bachelors are mostly, but it is incorrect that urban "leftover women" are mostly: rural women staying in cities is the main reason for the increase of urban "leftover women". Therefore, there is a superficial phenomenon that there are not many "leftover women" in rural areas.

Friends, today I want to change a new topic.

Today, some men decide the fate of being single from the aspects of personality, conduct and responsibility. For example, there is a bachelor in his forties in my old house. He plays tricks on things, afraid of being cheated, and never works hard. I can't support myself. How can I support my wife? Why should I support others? I hope I can go to a rural nursing home when I am 60 years old.

With this view, I don't believe any woman wants to marry him.

Some male bachelors, from family to themselves, don't want to be single. Every holiday, they look for the media everywhere, but can't they find it? Then talk about another group of people, leftover women.

People are realistic. Everyone wants to live a good life. What's wrong with living a good life? That's right!

Young men work, so do young women.

The way men think is to work, buy a car, buy a house and marry.

No matter what a woman thinks, she also wants to buy a car and a house and live a better life. If the man is mortgage to buy a house, it is possible that he will really despise him.

As we all know, men and women now look for objects from the perspective of reality, and they will choose each other when facing reality. When choosing others, have you ever thought about whether you are beautiful, innocent and loyal?

I think young people nowadays may be short of money, but they are not short of jobs. I don't believe you go out and recruit young people everywhere.

Since it is a job (part-time job), there is still a difference in the place (unit) where you work. Such as salary, benefits, holidays and so on. Simple means birds of a feather flock together, don't be bored, and try to enter a circle that doesn't belong to you. I think marriage is the same. But some people just don't want to wake up in their sleep.

This is advice, but advice is the worst.

Time can't stay, but in a blink of an eye, middle-aged and young people are gone. It has caused many people's regrets. They should have lived under one roof for four generations, but they didn't see their grandchildren.

Whoever made a mistake and committed a crime should reflect on it. Warning older men and women, find their own position, find their own position, it's time to get married. Hehehe!

This is related to our economic policy. Attach importance to urban development and neglect rural construction.

In rural areas, there are no sound public resources, no complete medical security system and no service institutions. To put it bluntly, there are no hospitals, schools, banks, vegetable markets, supermarkets and parks. These things are all in the city. If you live in the countryside, it is very difficult to send your children to school, withdraw money from the bank, see a doctor, go to the market to buy food, and go to the supermarket to buy daily necessities. There is no park for you to play, so there are many inconveniences in life.

Because of too many difficulties, both men and women ran to the city and stopped farming. The woman ran to the city to find a man with a house, a car and an economic income, so that life would be stable. There are more women in rural areas than men. So there are more and more unmarried women in cities. Rural men can't stay in the city, so they have to go back to the countryside. With the growth of age, such people are gradually eliminated by the city and gradually return to the countryside, so there are more and more bachelors in the countryside.

There are more bachelors in rural areas and more women left in cities. As a result, more and more people are single. The result of being single is no children. There are more and more old people and fewer children in a nation, and this nation is slowly declining.

In this materialistic society, people's values have changed a lot.

Before the 1980s, there was pure love, and they only valued each other's character and ability, and didn't care much about family wealth. In that era when the ingredients were still exquisite, it was quite glorious for the three generations of poor peasants to show off their worth. As long as men and women look at each other, they basically get married without much bride price and dowry. But now, pay attention to material comparison. A rich boy can find a wife. Now you don't pay attention to human nature. Even if everyone praises you as a good person, as long as you are poor, you may not be a wife.

It is an objective fact that the ratio between men and women is unbalanced, with more men and fewer women. Some good-looking girls, or girls who study and work outside the home, mostly live in cities and don't want to go back to the countryside. Originally, the competitive advantage was not so good, which led to fewer and fewer girls, and so on. So girls are scarce. There are no leftover women! There are also reasons why there are no boys with high face value, technical ability, background and wealth among the 30 million bachelors in China.

Most urban leftover women are mainly due to the deviation of their own values of marriage and love. Most people who become saints are very picky and so on. The so-called poor people don't want to be rich, but often expect too much from men. And myself, with a valuable distance from the man, want to find a prince charming or a rich bachelor. But what about yourself? He doesn't like men at all, except that he is delusional. On the contrary, women who are worse than themselves despise it, so they have created a group of leftover women.

Some women are hurt by their feelings. Love for marriage is not so hot, but some fear. Slowly miss the age of marriage. It is also the main force of a group of leftover women.

Some women advocate freedom and independence in life and have no clear understanding of the meaning of marriage. Some women enjoy the idea of making money and spending money, and the concept of celibacy prevails, which also increases the existence of leftover women.

In short, there are many reasons for the emergence of rural bachelors and urban leftover women. However, the above examples are also the main factors, and I have little knowledge. Please correct me!

Mainly money, to tell a real example, my grandfather is a civil servant. My grandmother passed away last year. Less than three months later, someone came to introduce my grandfather to Second Spring. He is even younger than my brother-in-law and wife in their thirties. I don't know what I did to Grandpa by adding Grandpa's WeChat chat, so that Grandpa couldn't forget him and kept saying that he wanted to get a marriage certificate with her. My uncle, my father and my brother-in-law all disagree. Isn't this a burden for them? During that time, my father quarreled every day. They said that the woman was just cheating him out of his money. He doesn't believe it. There are many unmarried people in their thirties in our village and nearby villages. Why not introduce them to others or you? My grandmother died less than three months ago. What is there to worry about? My grandfather wouldn't listen. Don't marry him, go out and rent a house by yourself, and cheat menstruation. She has always hated my aunt and my mother behind her. They called the door to scold the woman. That woman didn't contact my grandfather. A few days later, she married an old man who was also a civil servant. My grandfather hates my parents very much, saying that they are greedy for his little salary [covering their faces].

So in the countryside, as long as you have money, you are not afraid of not finding a wife?

Rural poverty, can't find a wife, can't afford a bride price, women don't have high eyes, they get married when they are suitable, while women in the city have high eyes and want the best for everything. How can there be such a good thing? Consider yourself when choosing others, so keep your eyes open!

First, the gender ratio is seriously unbalanced. The problem of son preference in rural areas is more serious. As a direct result, there are far more school-age men than school-age women. "There are many women in one family", and naturally there are many bachelors.

To put it more bluntly, there are more differences between men and women in rural areas. There are too many families with boys and too few families with girls, that is, rural girls do not flow into cities. It is quite difficult for rural boys to find wives, and some men cannot find wives.

Second, rural girls are more likely to flow into cities than boys. Rural girls are more likely to flow into cities when they are much less than boys, which further aggravates the difficulty for rural boys to find wives, and some bachelors will inevitably appear.

It is really difficult for rural boys to enter and flow into cities if their family conditions are not very good. Even if some of them work hard in the city through reading, they don't have a "nest" in the city and don't buy a house, which can't be called real integration into the city. On the other hand, rural girls are more likely to rise higher. Housing is not the main problem that affects their integration into the city, so they choose to go to the city through marriage. It is easier for rural girls to flow into cities, which will naturally lead to fewer girls staying in the countryside, and it is more difficult for rural boys to find wives.

Thirdly, influenced by education and other ideological trends, rural girls are far worse than urban girls, and there are no more urban girls who are too picky about marriage and hold an unmarried attitude. Naturally, there are far fewer "leftover women" in rural areas than girls in cities.

Generally speaking, women with higher education level and women who have lived in cities for a long time have relatively high views and requirements on marriage, and there are relatively many people who hold the trend of not marrying. However, rural girls are rarely too picky about marriage, which is also an important reason why urban girls are picky and "leave" themselves. As for the problem of not getting married, few rural girls hold this attitude. Even if rural girls have this idea, they are often pressured by their parents and relatives to change it. In short, they will try their best to get their daughter married.

There are many rural bachelors, because the comprehensive conditions of rural bachelors are really poor, and they are expected to be single. Especially in the era of economic rise and urbanization, people (especially people in rural areas) judge a man's success by whether he can find money or buy a house and settle down in the city. Therefore, if a man can only stay in the countryside and other conditions are poor, then nine times out of ten he will become a bachelor candidate.

On the other hand, with the development of urbanization in today's era, the trend of rural girls flowing to cities and towns is becoming more and more obvious, and many rural areas basically show a shortage of women. Therefore, this leads to fewer and fewer opportunities for rural men to marry their wives, and the cost of marrying their wives is increasing, making it more difficult for men who are poor in all aspects of rural areas to marry their wives and more likely to be single. Moreover, there are still many rural men who can't keep their wives. Taking advantage of the opportunity to go out to work, many people will not come back as soon as they go out. For example, my hometown is in a remote mountain village. I can't find a wife, I can't find a daughter-in-law after divorce, my wife has run away, and so on. There are many such men. Nowadays, young and old single men can be seen everywhere.

On the other hand, looking at the city, why are there more and more leftover women?

First, more and more women are moving to cities.

There are two kinds of women who flow to cities: one is that some women are self-reliant and economically independent in cities, and they have higher requirements for finding objects. If they can't find the right one, they would rather be lonely than lack. The other is that some women find good families to marry. But after all, a good family is a minority, and there must be very few women who can get married smoothly and get happiness.

Then, the divorce rate in cities is getting higher and higher now.

Once many women get divorced, it is difficult to find a suitable remarriage partner. Like these divorced women, it is impossible for her to re-enter marriage easily. There is no suitable one, she is willing to be single for life. Quite a few women would rather spend their lonely time with only one lover than get married again. As a result, there seems to be an increasing trend of urban leftover women.

Finally, in cities, the situation of yin flourishing and yang declining is becoming more and more serious.

Nowadays, cities seem to be more suitable for women to live, and the cost of living for men is much higher than that for women. If a person wants to survive in the city, he must have excellent skills and intelligence, but such men are few after all. Either you are a person in the system, or you have a skill to make money, or you have always been rich in the city, with certain fixed assets and a stable source of economic income. But this is a minority after all. Women are different. You don't need to be as good or excellent as the man mentioned above. As long as you are healthy, have a decent face value and are diligent and enterprising, you can survive in the city. But after all, there are many ordinary men and women, but the survival ability of ordinary men in cities is much worse than that of ordinary women. This is the real reason why the so-called yin flourishes while the yang declines. Ordinary men are mostly in rural areas, and ordinary women are mostly in cities. So, in this way, there will be more and more leftover women in the city.

In a word, whether there are more and more leftover women in cities or more bachelors in rural areas, the real essential reasons or the problems of economic and living conditions are essentially in line with the law of the jungle in society. The survival of men and women and the choice of marriage must be changing around the economic law. There are more leftover women in cities and more bachelors in rural areas. In the final analysis, the difference between urban and rural economy and living environment is at work. Therefore, the economy is the superstructure, and it is also the foundation for the survival of the lower people.