As a senior, do you choose to work hard to make money or work hard to do what you love?

Life is always full of choices. We always face various crossroads. After making a choice, we always think, maybe it would be better if we chose another one at that time?

There are people who know what they should do, but they are not the majority. Most people still don’t know themselves well and don’t know what to do. Such people often envy those who always do what they do. They are those people who can make decisions quickly and decisively.

Xiao Ai, a girl who has just graduated from college, is faced with the dilemma of whether to develop in a small county at home or go to a big city? She wanted to stay in the small county town at home. This way, she could eat and live at home and the cost of living could be reduced to almost zero, which was exactly what her parents wanted. I started looking for a job in the county town, but either I felt that the company was too small and the working environment was not good, or I felt that the salary was too low and unacceptable. Xiao Ai's parents were worried when their daughter was unemployed at home, so they used their relationship to help her find a job, but Xiao Ai always felt they didn't like it. I spent a month at home like this. Later, I saw in the circle of friends that Xiao A, a college classmate, seemed to have a good life every day, with a bright and spacious office area, and a group of colleagues who could travel on weekends. Xiao Ai was very envious. After all, her seventh aunt and eighth aunt who were unemployed at home still bothered her by asking her questions every day. I decided to contact Xiao A. But the result was not as glamorous as she saw. It turned out that Little A had to get up at 6 o'clock every day to take the bus and subway, spending more than an hour getting to work at the company, and working overtime was commonplace. There is a lot of pressure to deal with every day. Xiao Ai was very hesitant and a little scared after knowing it.

It wasn’t until one day when her mother started to introduce a partner to Xiao Ai that Xiao Ai realized that adults who seemed to be calm about everything were actually very anxious inside. Then go out and have a try, even if you are resistant inside.

Life is sometimes like this. It looks like there are many choices on the outside, but in fact it is not. Xiao Ai came to this big city and after a lot of job interviews, she received many interviews. However, every time she went there with high expectations, most of them came back sad. Yes, she had just graduated and was indeed a novice. Get a job first and then choose a career. After all, survive first and then think about how to live. After all, the cost of living is a little out of reach.

Xiao Ai chose a small company to work, but soon found that it was different from what he imagined. I feel very bored inside, and I don’t know whether to continue to adapt and adapt, or to leave as soon as possible and pursue a job that I like. Xiao Ai was very conflicted and went to work with this emotion. Whenever she had conflicts with colleagues or was criticized by her boss, Xiao Ai would have an extremely strong desire to resign. Two people are fighting each other in their hearts, each talking about his own reasons.

What happens next? I thought you must be wondering. Xiao Ai did not leave the company. Later, the company went public. In order to motivate employees, the company distributed stocks to employees. Xiao Ai naturally enjoys this treatment. Maybe you would say this is because she is lucky, but life, as the old saying goes, who knows which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. Maybe you are Xiao Ai, struggling internally, whether to do what you like or do what you want to do? But in fact, sometimes, doing what you like may achieve nothing, but doing what you like may achieve something.

What does this have to do with Xiao Ai in the article? In fact, what Xiao Ai does in this company is not what she likes, and she is even a little bored of it, and this is what she has to do, because if she chooses to continue to find something she likes to do, she may be looking for On the road, I was already struggling with the cost of living. Instead of finding what you like in the process of searching, it is better to find out your true inner thoughts in this process, do what you want to do, and then achieve something.