What should I do if my boyfriend is going to America?

If your boyfriend is really over age, then his own immigration trip will be quite long.

Now the situation will be as follows:

1. If he is not over age, then he can go to America at once. But you can't get married before he gets a visa, otherwise his appointment will be invalid.

Then, you can ask him to apply for your immigration (after marriage), and the spouse of the green card will be arranged for about 6-7 years. Plus the formalities, it is estimated that it will take you at least eight years to reunite in the United States. Before that, he can only go back to China to see you.

If he is over age, it will take quite a while to re-apply for immigration. Even longer for you.

One way is not to get married all the time. He arranged unmarried adult children according to the American green card 10 year, then married you and applied for it. It will take about 7-8 years, so you will come to America in about 20 years.

Another way is that you will get married right away. He will arrange married adult children according to the American green card for more than 20 years. At that time, you can go to America together.