Cao Dewang is worth tens of billions. He fell in love with his confidante and divorced, but his illiterate wife saved him in one sentence.

In the circle of entrepreneurs in China, Cao Dewang is a moral model.

After his career reached its peak, Cao Dewang not only didn't emigrate overseas to enjoy life like some rich people, but also spent hundreds of millions of dollars to develop public welfare undertakings and became a famous philanthropist in China.

What many people don't know is that Cao Dewang had a prodigal son's return in his early years. Cao Dewang, who had a successful career, met a confidante, and for the sake of so-called love, he did not hesitate to divorce his wife.

However, Chen Fengying, who is illiterate, saved their marriage in one sentence. What happened?

First, Cao Dewang, who was born in poverty

From the perspective of "birth theory", Cao Dewang's success has a great relationship with his father.

According to public information, Cao Dewang's father, Cao Heren, was a business tycoon who ran the business circles in Fujian and Shanghai during the Republic of China, and the first department store in China, Yong 'an Department Store, had shares in Cao Heren.

Although Cao Heren lost all his possessions in a shipwreck, he passed on his most precious business skills to his son.

When Cao Dewang was 16 years old, because of his poor life, he took the risk of "speculation" and started selling tobacco. It was his father who took him to the mall.

After six years of business, it's time for Cao Dewang to get married.

arranged by her parents, Cao Dewang married a girl named Chen Fengying. Although Chen Fengying is illiterate and her family is not a noble family, she is full of the virtues of traditional women in China.

Chen Fengying took care of his parents when he went out to work hard in Cao Dewang. When Cao Dewang's business was short of money, it was Chen Fengying who took out his dowry to support his career.

From here, we can see that Chen Fengying is a good wife of a virtuous and virtuous person.

Second, the "Chen Shimei" storm

In our traditional culture, Chen Shimei is undoubtedly a figure spurned by everyone.

Cao Dewang, who had a successful career in the 198s, almost became the contemporary Chen Shimei. What happened?

In 1988, Cao Dewang became the head of Fuyao Glass Co., Ltd., and during a business talk, he got to know his "Zhu Shazhi".

It is understandable that Cao Dewang likes an unmarried girl, but he has fallen in love with a wife who has a husband and children.

From the moral point of view of ordinary people, Cao Dewang's behavior is undoubtedly disgusting, because he not only destroyed his own family, but also destroyed others' families.

However, according to media reports, the gossip girl is a very open person.

Not only did Alice not mind being a stepmother to Cao Dewang's children, but she also divorced Cao Dewang without hesitation. Seeing that the confidante is so affectionate and righteous, Cao Dewang is also ready to abandon his wife and children.

On second thought, Cao Dewang sent Chen Fengying a "goodbye letter".

It is said that because Chen Fengying can't read, this letter was read by Cao Dewang's sister. At that time, everyone, including Cao Dewang herself, was sure that Chen Fengying would give her life to make a scene with Cao Dewang, but Chen Fengying's next action reflected her emotional intelligence.

3. Illiteracy with high EQ

Many people despise illiteracy and think that their EQ is not high, but Chen Fengying is obviously a counterexample.

After receiving Cao Dewang's letter, the Cao family all supported Chen Fengying, the daughter-in-law whom the Cao family legally married. But after all, this is Cao Dewang's family affair, and others can only support Chen Fengying morally. Only she can really turn the tables.

If Chen Fengying chooses to make a scene and make a splash, it will not only be difficult to scare off Cao Dewang, who has been working hard in the shopping mall for many years, but also likely to lose the support of Cao's family.

After all, no matter from the perspective of protecting the Cao family's industry or maintaining the Cao family's reputation, the Cao family doesn't want this matter to be too big.

However, Chen Fengying didn't do this. She just accepted Cao Dewang's divorce request calmly, and in addition, she made another request, "Leave me the children and the house".

Objectively speaking, the Cao family may not be stingy with their house and money, but Cao Dewang's two sons and one daughter can't give up anyway.

Maybe some people will think it's difficult. It's just a lawsuit for custody. Can't Cao Dewang compete with an illiterate person?

Cao Dewang can certainly do this, but his reputation will be completely ruined. Of course, he dare not do this.

But after receiving his wife's reply, Cao Dewang had mixed feelings.

With such a big industry, my wife wants nothing, just children and a place to live. I thought my wife would make a scene and accuse her of cheating, but she didn't say anything after suffering for most of her life. At this point, Cao Dewang came to his senses, the prodigal son returned, and his children and wife became the fetters that he could not give up easily.

It is said that a good wife who is sensible and knows how to advance and retreat is the foundation for her husband to succeed in his career. Today, Cao Dewang can be described as both fame and fortune.

It has not only made unemployment prosperous, but also become the best in China. Who can say that there is no credit behind it from his illiterate wife?

Conclusion

Feelings are very selfish, so we can't easily judge right and wrong between Cao Dewang and his wife.

However, Chen Fengying's experience tells us that in the face of unfaithful people who cheat in marriage, sometimes you can get better results without making noise. Imagine if Chen Fengying had chosen to make a scene at that time, how could she have secured the position of the proprietress of Fuyao Group?

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