If you immigrate to the United States, how can you support your parents?

A basic idea is that you don't owe your parents anything. If you really feel that you owe your parents something, you can only give it back to your children. In the relationship between parents and children, one party has no choice at all. Parents bring their children into this world for their own fun, and children can't choose whether to live or not. Therefore, parents have endless obligations to their children, at least until their children reach adulthood, while children have no obligations to their parents. Whether you choose to have children or not is your choice as an adult. You should take full responsibility for this choice. Your children should not be responsible for this choice. Many parents in America, after retirement, sold their houses and bought an RV to travel around the United States. Children have their own lives, and they all live in different states. Parents can see all their children when they travel in America. I think it's good. For China people, the only problem is that there is no corresponding social security system in China. Without you, your parents can't get enough security. In addition, parents' opinions are also very important-some parents are very westernized, and they have long known that you can't rely on you anyway, and you will find someone who will accompany you all your life, and they will certainly accompany each other to the end. You will be more relaxed with such parents. Otherwise ... can you accept this view? Can you make it easier for your children to make similar choices? The misfortunes of some families are passed down from generation to generation and are permanently bound to death. Finally, how others solve their parents' problems after immigrating to the United States may not be consistent with your specific situation at all. For example, if you can't speak English, I don't think there will be such a problem in Chinese communities in new york, Los Angeles and San Francisco. People around you are all Chinese restaurants. At least for people with a Cantonese background like me, I feel at ease that my parents are active in such areas. If your parents are over 65 years old after you become a citizen, it seems that they can't apply for immigration (heard but not verified), but you can still help them invest and immigrate to Canada (assuming you have money), and then look forward to staying in the United States for a long time. (can't work? 65 years old and still looking for a gainful job? Vancouver also has a huge Chinese community.