How can you keep my mind balanced? ! ! :(

I remember a previous skit. It was performed at the Spring Festival Gala a long time ago between Ni Ping and someone I forgot.

Ni Ping met an old classmate on the road, and the classmate told her that she was now He is very rich, but uneducated. After recently buying a house, he wanted to decorate it to make the owner look very educated, so he asked her to help buy books. The more books the better. Although he does not read books, he wants to make people feel that he is knowledgeable. Ni Ping said: "I really envy you. I have loved reading since I was a child. Although I have read a lot of books now, they are all borrowed. I never dared to imagine that there are people who buy books just for others to read. His The classmate said: "I envy you. You are so knowledgeable. No matter how rich I am, I am still a rough person."

Because personal pursuits are different, the paths and results are also different. Blindly Envying others without considering what you really need will cause you to fall into the bottomless abyss of desire. Eventually, you will lead yourself astray. Desire can only satisfy temporary vanity, but it cannot provide long-term support. If you give up your true needs Blindly following those illusory things. When you achieve your goal, you will feel that you have lost something more important, and your heart is empty.

Material wealth is indeed more It brings many benefits, but it also breeds more disadvantages. Greed, laziness, arrogance, hypocrisy, etc. are often the results it brings.

No matter how much you envy them, you think they How happy they are. In fact, their happiness may not be more than yours. It may be more just because your envy of them satisfies their vanity.

Is it unbalanced? Try to imagine yourself as Stand on the top of the earth and overlook the world. Then you will feel that these things are actually so insignificant. It turns out that people in the world, whether poor or rich, are equally insignificant. The only difference is that we give ourselves Just like the ants in the anthill, they are all the same. There is no difference. The only difference is that some are worker ants, working hard for the overall survival, and some are male ants, who seem to be doing nothing and getting something for nothing, but in fact there are other Division of labor. They are all an indispensable part of the ant colony.