Is the concept of ancestral home in Northeast China relatively weak compared with Shanhaiguan?

Northeast people need to be classified. Although most of them come from crossing Kanto, there are still indigenous people. First of all, the aborigines are mainly Manchu, mostly exiled nobles or Manchu ministers (exiled Han ministers have all gone to Xinjiang), and of course there are a small number of Han people. However, genealogy is not available in every family. Genealogy is a book in which feudal families record their lineage and the deeds of important people. Therefore, the core figure of the genealogy must not be mortal. Therefore, among the indigenous residents, their family values are not thinner than those in Guanli. Secondly, for the "immigrants" who came from Kanto before. Quite a few people moved here with the whole village. For example, I have a classmate. When her grandmother was young, she brought a "Liucun" village and chose a good place to settle down. This situation is generally preserved by families with genealogy, and people who move collectively basically have no relatives in prison. Third, a few people came to work in the northeast, such as my grandmother, who got married here without finding a job. Her home is in Tangshan, and she used to go home every year when she was in good health. Later, during the Cultural Revolution, many educated youths in Shandong were resettled in the northeast, and most of their relatives were in Shandong, so when they had the opportunity to return to Shandong, they basically did not stay. It can be said that if it is a family collective migration, the family with genealogy retains the genealogy; Individuals have migrated for social or political reasons, and the genealogy is basically with relatives in their hometown.

The concept of ancestral home is weak. In fact, it is not as embarrassing to say that you are from Shandong in the northeast as it is in Shandong. Northeasters whose ancestral home is Shandong generally think that they have a great relationship with Shandong, and they will have a sense of happiness every time they mention it.

I don't think there is such a saying that the landlord asks the distance. I am in Heilongjiang, because my ancestral home is not Shandong but Hebei, and my family requirements may not be so high. This lack of awareness is related to family, not distance. If the old people in the family are strict, there will be very traditional rules, but usually the family requirements of Shandong nationality will be strict. Because there is no business in Northeast China, parents want their children to be highly educated, watch and study every day, and are not allowed to participate in activities, so they have little free time. In addition, modern scientific knowledge will impact traditional ideas. In addition, the implementation of the national policy of family planning, each family has only one child, and all children are treasures, which is also a blow to the traditional patriarchy and feudal ancestor worship. Let's say I'm a girl. My family shouldn't have gone to Tomb-Sweeping Day to visit the grave, but because my cousin is in another province, he can't come back to participate in such activities at all, so this kind of thing at home is my responsibility (sorry ...).

Generally speaking, this kind of thing depends on the internal solution of each family. Usually grandparents are more concerned. Most parents cater to grandparents to do some preparatory work, and generally the younger ones are only responsible for attending.