Should China children adopted abroad go back to China to find their relatives?

It is wrong for parents to give up on themselves, but not every parent is wet and abandoned on purpose.

Some people are forced to come back to find relatives, which doesn't mean' just that children want to meet their biological parents'.

Mrs. Jane Hoffman, who entrusted the aforementioned Gorard Ni Center to adopt children with cleft lip from China, told the World Journal, "At that time, more and more Americans went to China to apply for adoption of orphans, and the waiting time was getting longer and longer, about five to seven years, but the speed of adopting disabled children was very fast."

At present, the China government has tightened its policy, greatly reducing the number of children exported to China, which may be due to the gradual imbalance of gender ratio, insufficient food and clothing in life and the scandal of abducting children for international adoption. At the same time, the restrictions on foreign adoptive families are also stricter. Single, gay, obese, older, not rich enough, often divorced and married, taking antidepressants or having multiple children, as long as they have one, they will be rejected by China.

According to the data quoted by British Finance, there are about 700,000 orphans (children without parental care) in China, of which about 654.38+million are adopted by state institutions, and most of the rest receive government subsidies.

The best environment for raising children is the family, not the institution. Jacob Booth said, "The openness and love of Americans can provide a loving family environment for children adopted overseas." In the United States, there is a national support group named "Family Association for Adoption of China Children", which provides a platform for American families adopting China children to keep in touch and communicate. China children adopted by American parents have not cut off contact with China, and some American parents will take their children to China to find their roots. Many adopted children in China can only speak English now, but their adoptive parents will also let them take Chinese classes.

However, these stories of returning to China to find their roots also have a lot of helplessness. In the summer of 20 12, Jenna cook, who was called "Yale girl" by the media, came to Wuhan to find her relatives. Twenty-five years ago, about a month after birth, she was abandoned near Zongguan office in Wuhan. In Wuhan, she received one or two hundred phone calls to recognize her relatives, met and chatted with more than 50 families, and listened to their stories, hugs, tears and photos. Judging from the news photos, there are really many women holding Wallace in tears, and some people want to verify her birthmark. But in the end, Schwartz failed to find his mother.

The question is, if Haworth doesn't have American citizenship, has been studying at Yale, but is just an ordinary China girl who grew up in China Welfare Institute and now works at Foxconn, will there be so many families and so many Chinese mothers come to marry her in tears?