How to treat the communication between Swedish boys and China girls?

This is normal. Cross-border love is not unusual now. As long as two people are in love, they should be blessed.

Most Swedes are essentially kind. But many foreigners will still feel the coldness of Swedes when they arrive in Sweden. This indifference is not a lack of enthusiasm, but a sense of distance and alienation.

They are quiet, polite and gentle. You will lend a helping hand when you are in trouble, but you can't have the carefree feeling of drinking and eating large pieces of meat together.

Never imagine that you can wear a pair of pants with your friends in Sweden. Their self-esteem, independence and good upbringing make them behave gracefully most of the time, at least in public.

No one has acted savagely or roguishly. Decades of old neighbors get along well and drink coffee together every day, but they may never know all kinds of seclusion, personal privacy and distant past.

In any case, personal choices will be universally respected, such as homosexuality, such as not getting married or not getting married. No one will make irresponsible remarks about other people's lives except those involving character. Of course, if it is immoral, it will still be despised by most people.

Most men in Sweden are also shy. Unless they drink alcohol, they will strike up a conversation with girls. Otherwise, no matter how beautiful and charming you are, there will be no men watching, whistling or cheeky talking on the streets of Sweden.

People in the street are in a hurry. In addition to meeting strangers in the bright sunshine in summer, they will say hello or smile kindly. Many times Swedes have a sense of distance on their faces.

I discussed their indifference with a Swede. The Swede explained that Americans are like peaches, with a sweet and soft appearance but a hard core.

Swedes, on the other hand, are like nuts, with a hard shell on the outside and soft and fragrant inside. It is said that it takes years or half a lifetime to make intimate friends with Swedes, but once they become friends, that kind of friendship is lifelong.

In Sweden, there is no worldly wisdom, no conformity, and everything comes and goes easily. There is no corruption, there is no green light, everything is carried out according to principles and rules, and there is a lot less human touch and a lot less affectation.

In the eyes of many foreigners, Sweden is a highly developed modern country, which has long been divorced from the agricultural society. For people who come to Sweden, most of the impressions left by Swedes are civilized and elegant, and some of them are even lofty and aloof.

However, if you have more opportunities to get in touch with ordinary Swedes, you will more or less feel that there is a deep attachment to the countryside and awe of nature in the hearts of Viking descendants with blond hair and rosy cheeks.