What is a breakup? Why did you break up?

It is enough to remember a formula, breaking = cutting unnecessary things, giving up = abandoning redundant waste, leaving = leaving the obsession with things. Break up+give up = leave.

What happens if you don't give up?

Take my dad as an example. He always wholesales potatoes and tomatoes to go home. In short, buying cheap goods for life accounts for 90%. But rarely eliminated projects. This house is a dump. As long as there is a place, every desktop floor is covered with things, and there are many decorative paintings hanging on the wall, which makes the room look more chaotic. After the neighbors moved out, they stopped living. He greeted his neighbors and continued to pile more "garbage" into people's houses. . . As a result, I have to take off my glasses every time I go home. Out of sight, out of mind.

I used to be like this. Influenced by my family, I always buy bargains and fish everywhere. If I get something for free, I will be very happy. If I don't have to spend money, it will be a kind of enjoyment. As a result, the fortune of life fell to the lowest point because of accumulation. . .

What happens if you don't give up?

Even if you basically don't buy, just consume the existing items, but don't get rid of the old and new, how can you bring pleasure? If you don't eliminate the old things, it will eventually become a bad heart at home, rot in your heart and become the introduction of negative events.

What will happen if we continue?

My mother's example, this year, she took advantage of the eleventh I went out to travel, and no one at home wanted to give me a chance to help water the flowers. She also brought me two pairs of autumn trousers, 1 a bottle of detergent that can never be used up, 1 a pot of green plants. In fact, it is idle and occupies an area. My mother has been buying autumn trousers all her life, at least hundreds. When she bought her own houses, she gave them to relatives and friends all over the world. Even the relatives who immigrated to the United States put on the autumn trousers bought by my mother, which is really the international fashion in send warm. She always feels that others are missing a pair of autumn trousers. . . I really want to cry.

My mother's heart is good, but to put it bluntly, it's because everything she buys is cheap and her wallet is painless, or because she has limited pocket money every month and has no life experience in buying expensive things. In fact, to put it bluntly, she still thinks about the poor. Shopping is just consumption, not a profitable investment. She lives unconsciously and is constantly bound by things. Surround yourself with things and get a little comfort and satisfaction.

The ultimate goal of "breaking up" is to let everyone give up their obsession with material things and return to the most authentic and simple life. Simple definition: break the entrance, do subtraction, and reduce desire.

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