"Ode to Joy": Why is the packet more suitable for Andy than the Singularity?

Andy in "Ode to Joy" is a character that is both simple and complex.

Her character is simple, kind, and even a little naive. Be straightforward and honest, never mincing words or mincing words.

At the same time, he has a superior IQ, is naturally sensitive to numbers, and has an amazing memory.

With his excellent mind and extraordinary work ability, Andy comes with the dual buffs of "White Bone Essence" and "White Fumei" as soon as he appears.

Andy has a simple character, but has a complicated life experience.

Her mother and grandmother suffered from mental illness, so she and her brother were sent to an orphanage since childhood.

Later Andy was adopted by an American couple, grew up in the United States, and lost news of his younger brother.

When Andy returned to China, in addition to helping his friend Lao Tan acquire Red Star, his more important purpose was to find the whereabouts of his younger brother.

While searching for her brother, Andy met her first boyfriend: Singularity.

Qingdian is a self-made businessman who once came back from the dead in the financial crisis. He is thoughtful and cautious.

He has an extraordinary IQ like Andy, and the two chatted happily on the Internet. After returning to China and making contact, they slowly came together.

Singularity paid a lot to Andy, but failed to reach the end with Andy.

After breaking up with Qingdian, Andy chose Mr. Bao, who fanatically pursued her.

Singularity is Andy’s love enlightenment, and Xiaobao is Andy’s emotional attachment.

So, why is the packet more suitable for Andy than the Singularity?

01

First, Singularity is too self-centered, Xiaobao always respects Andy more

Because of Andy’s childhood experience, both emotionally and physically He doesn't like to be in contact with others. He always closes himself off and keeps others at a distance.

After moving into the 22nd floor of Ode to Joy, the frankness and enthusiasm of the other four girls slowly melted Andy's heart, giving Andy a "fireworks" atmosphere.

However, Andy is still very repulsive to other people's physical contact.

After Qingdian met Andy, he fell in love with Andy at first sight and immediately launched a strong pursuit.

Why is it said to be a strong pursuit? Because Singularity has been dominant in this relationship from beginning to end, while Andy is completely passive.

When they met for the first time, Singularity kept testing and scrutinizing Andy.

Even though he has been dating on the Internet for a long time, he is still wary of Andy when he meets him for the first time.

In order to hide his strength, Singularity not only deliberately took the subway to see Andy, but also wore a wrinkled suit.

When they met for the second time, Qi Dian looked brand new. He wore a suit with exquisite fabrics and took Andy to a restaurant he was familiar with.

Then, another trial lasted for a whole meal, digging out the relationship between Andy and Lao Tan, his life experience, and the purpose of returning to China.

The smart Andy has already seen through Singularity's little thoughts, but she still chooses to tell him everything she knows.

It wasn’t until I left that I received a warning: Don’t always observe me, test me, or test me.

Although Andy and Qingdian are both extremely smart, have experienced ups and downs, and have many different languages, they are two different people at heart.

A shrewd calculation, a frank one to the end.

When Qingdian and Andy met for the third time, Qingdian confessed his love to Andy directly and forcibly hugged Andy in the underground parking lot regardless of Andy's resistance.

Singularity has long seen that Andy doesn't like to be touched, but he still ignores Andy's objections and repeatedly makes physical contact with Andy.

After being rejected by Andy, he will also make some reactions that put a psychological burden on Andy.

It can be seen that Singularity is a very self-centered person.

He seems to be kind and funny, but in fact he has always intervened in Andy's life as a strong man, and even "invaded" Andy's world.

He never ignored Andy's rejection and went his own way in this relationship.

When Andy didn't want to see him, Singularity ignored Andy's refusals and followed Andy downstairs, even chasing him to the underground garage to wait for Andy.

In this relationship, Singularity always only cares about his own feelings and constantly tries to persuade Andy to accommodate him.

Body language cannot lie. In front of the Singularity, Andy is always nervous and even afraid.

Xiaobao and Andy met for the first time. Andy also had a bad impression of him, but Xiaobao's performance was very different from Singularity.

Andy met Mr. Xiao Bao through Lao Tan's introduction at a cocktail party. Mr. Xiao Bao, like Singularity, fell in love with Andy at first sight and was interested in cooperating with her.

After the cocktail party, Xiao Bao drove to catch up with Andy, handed over another personal business card of his, and invited Andy to have supper.

After being rejected by Andy, Xiaobao did not bother too much, but immediately stood up and watched Andy leave.

Mr. Bao’s behavior may seem out of line, but he will still fully respect Andy’s wishes and actions after Andy explicitly refuses.

Not only expresses his sincerity, but also has a reasonable sense of proportion.

Without knowing Andy's details, Xiao Bao has already fully demonstrated his sincerity. His humor, straightforwardness, and intelligence all make Andy admire him with admiration.

This is also one of the biggest differences between the packet sum singularity.

Faced with Andy's resistance to physical contact, Singularity's approach was to persuade Andy to accept his contact with a slightly forceful approach, while Xiao Bao used a coquettish way to open his arms to Andy.

Singularity puts his own feelings first, while Xiao Bao always puts Andy’s feelings first.

Comparing the two, one can judge the difference between them.

Second, Singularity makes Andy nervous, while Xiaobao always makes Andy relax

Singularity always emphasizes the shortcomings of Andy’s native family, which reminds Andy again and again. His own unbearable past.

After Andy rejected his contact, he would constantly bring up Andy's mental disorder and blame Andy for rejecting him because of his own problems.

Therefore, when Andy is with Singularity, he is always nervous and has low self-esteem.

Under the reminder of the singularity, Andy's psychological shadow is constantly amplified and strengthened.

From the moment Xiaobao met Andy to the time he pursued Andy, he never deliberately asked about Andy's origins.

Although Xiao Bao was deeply attracted to Andy from the beginning, he was only interested in Andy as a person and would not dig too much into her past.

Andy's state in front of Mr. Bao has always been calm and relaxed, and his whole person exudes confidence.

Maybe Andy herself didn't know that she would have such a sincere smile only in front of Mr. Bao.

Andy lacks emotional experience, but Qu Xiaoxiao next to her can clearly see it.

With Guan Guan, Qiu Yingying and Fan Shengmei all standing at the singular point, Qu Xiaoxiao was the first person to see through that Xiao Bao was always more suitable for Andy.

Singularity has indeed paid a lot for Andy, but as Qu Xiaoxiao said, Andy has everything, and she does not need other people's efforts and responsibilities.

She only needs her other half to bring her happiness, which is more important than any conditions.

In fact, Andy is a very sensitive person. She can feel the emotions of people around her, so the alertness and tension of Singularity are also transmitted to her and amplified infinitely on her.

Xiaobao always behaves very relaxedly in front of Andy and never puts any emotional burden on Andy, so Andy is also very relaxed in front of him.

Only those who can make Andy feel comfortable can become Andy's true emotional belonging.

Third, Singularity and Xiaobao have different attitudes towards Andy’s life experience

In order to pursue Andy’s knot, Singularity not only consulted a psychiatrist about Andy’s mental disorder, Still investigating Andy's information behind the scenes.

He has an inquiring eye on everyone, and digs deeper into Andy's life experience, trying to understand and control everything about Andy.

Through investigation, Singularity dug up Andy’s biological father, Wei Guoqiang.

Without any foreshadowing, Singularity actually brought Wei Guoqiang directly in front of Andy, revealing Andy's biggest pain point and making Andy nervous on the spot.

Wei Guoqiang told Andy that he met Andy's mother while going to the mountains and countryside. After marriage, he discovered that the other party had a hereditary mental illness, so he chose to escape.

After Andy's grandmother suffered a mental illness, she was also abandoned by Andy's grandfather.

Andy's younger brother was born after Wei Guoqiang left, and his biological father is unknown.

Wei Guoqiang said that if he had known about Andy's existence, he would have strangled Andy to death.

The appearance of Wei Guoqiang made Andy face the cruelest truth, and also destroyed Lao Tan's painstaking efforts to hide Andy from him for many years.

It turns out that Lao Tan had known about Andy's life experience for a long time, but he knew that Andy had been shrouded in the inner demons of "mental illness". In order to avoid irritating Andy, he chose not to let Andy know the truth.

And Singularity's self-assertion broke all Lao Tan's painstaking arrangements and aroused Andy's deepest fear.

The miserable Andy proposed breaking up with Singularity, but Singularity was unwilling to accept it and pressed Andy step by step, which once again aroused Andy's intense emotions.

In the end, Andy ended her relationship with Singularity in a very extreme way.

She allowed Singularity to see her "sick" appearance, eliciting Singularity's instinctive fear, and allowing Singularity to face the horror of living with a mental patient.

Singularity finally gave up on Andy.

After breaking up with Qingdian, Andy went to the island for vacation to heal, with Xiaobao following closely behind.

Although Andy was very dissatisfied with Mr. Bao's "interference", he still couldn't help but smile happily when his eyes collided with him.

Accompanied by Mr. Bao, Andy regained his confidence and cheerful appearance.

After Mr. Xiao Bao took the initiative to tell Andy about his childhood experience, Andy also confessed the fact that he was an orphan.

Xiaobao’s first reaction was: It turns out that you are a child left behind on earth by aliens.

This sentence is similar to Qu Xiaoxiao's sentence "It turns out you jumped out of the cracks in the rocks", and it suddenly changes the depressing atmosphere into a relaxed and interesting one.

Later, Mr. Xiaobao did not continue to ask about other things, but tried his best to make Andy happy.

After getting together with Andy, Xiao Bao rarely took the initiative to mention Andy's life experience, let alone Andy's mental disorder.

Because Zaibao felt that Andy was not sick at all, and he could completely treat Andy as a normal person.

Regardless of whether Xiao Bao really understood Andy, he handled the matter in a way that made Andy most comfortable.

Don’t ask, don’t explore, don’t care, just be the most considerate to Andy.

This sense of security brought by respect and tolerance is the most lacking quality in the relationship between Singularity and Andy.

Therefore, Xiaobao is always more suitable for Andy's other half than Singularity.

Although Singularity is excellent, he hides himself too tightly and has too much control. He cannot give Andy relaxation and happiness, and makes Andy worry about gains and losses.

No matter how much he devoted to Andy, he would never be able to get to the end with Andy.

02

Singularity’s personality is related to his experience.

Being self-made and having freedom of wealth gave Singularity an inflated self-confidence, so he pursued Andy very forcefully, and always had various reasons to reject Andy's rejection.

After encountering the financial crisis, Singularity abandoned his partners and survived alone. I experienced the betrayal of my girlfriend again and had an extreme lack of trust in others.

So Qingdian wants to capture everyone and everything he cares about, which is why Qingdian is a little paranoid about Andy's feelings.

Although Singularity is excellent and considerate, he has brought Andy too much depression, low self-esteem and anxiety, constantly making Andy fall into self-tangle.

Xiao Bao is always a rich second generation with a strong family background and a cheerful personality. His ideas and experiences are relatively simple.

When pursuing Andy, he was full of tricks, but he was also very sensible and knew how to give Andy space at the right time.

He doesn't care about Andy's past, nor does he care about Andy's life experience. All he cares about is Andy.

Xiaobao's sunshine and optimism unknowingly infected Andy's heart and broke Andy's defense.

Combined with the numerology of Singularity and Xiaobao, the difference between the two can be clearly seen.

From the perspective of horoscope numerology, Singularity has the following numerological characteristics:

1. The horoscope will bring wealth, be good at hiding yourself, observe others, and be very scheming.

Singularity was willing to reveal his true identity only because of Andy's unreserved frankness, which fully demonstrated his precautions.

Although guarding is Singularity’s instinct, it is also in sharp contrast to Andy’s sincerity.

2. People with a Sun-Lu pattern are prone to being self-centered.

Andy's inferiority and depression caused by his relationship with Singularity are all due to Singularity's strong self-awareness.

Although Andy does have certain psychological barriers, both sides have reasons for their blocked relationship, but Singularity never thinks that there is anything wrong with him.

3. The horoscopes include Sheep Blade and Lu Shen, and they are very possessive and controlling

Singularity has always had a strong desire to control Andy, not only caring about Andy's future , but also exploring Andy’s past.

When Andy met Mr. Xiao Bao for the second time, he frankly told Mr. Xiao Bao that he had a boyfriend.

But Qingdian knew that Andy had met Mr. Bao, and his first reaction was to question Andy.

Andy has no secrets in front of Singularity, but Singularity will still be suspicious of Andy intentionally or unintentionally.

Given Andy's attraction to the opposite sex, if Singularity and Andy have a future, their future will also be full of suspicion and control.

For people like Mr. Xiaobao, the numerology has the following characteristics:

1. The year pillar is a financial officer and is in a prosperous place, with powerful parents and a wealthy family.

A good family background gave Mr. Xiaobao strong self-confidence and confidence, and also allowed Mr. Xiaobao to develop an optimistic and cheerful personality.

Therefore, Xiao Bao is always confident and unyielding in front of Andy.

In the face of Andy's indifference, he can still keep his face and heart not beating, and shamelessly try to please Andy.

2. The horoscope has many financial stars, a sunny personality, and no ambition.

Most of Xiaobao's expressions in front of Andy are positive emotions. This positive emotion constantly nourishes Andy's heart and eliminates Andy's uneasiness.

Andy’s gloomy heart will gradually clear up if he is exposed to this positive energy for a long time.

3. The four pillars are in harmony with each other, have high emotional intelligence, can speak well, and have a strong tolerance.

The reason why Andy is more relaxed in front of Mr. Bao is because Mr. Xiao Bao never puts any emotional burden on Andy.

Sensing that Andy's emotions were wrong, he followed the temptation and tried every means to get Andy to release his emotions.

Xiao Bao is always sophisticated but not worldly, tactful but not shrewd, and good at empathy, giving Andy a feeling of spring breeze.

Therefore, Xiaobao and Andy are the same kind of people at heart, with the same frankness, truthfulness and simple mind.

The happiness and relaxation that Xiaobao always gave Andy could not be given by Singularity.

03

If Singularity is the person who opens Andy's heart, then Xiaobao is the person who can truly enter Andy's heart.

Although Singularity knows all about Andy through his own investigation and exploration, he does not really understand Andy.

As for Mr. Bao, even if he doesn’t understand where Andy’s loss comes from, he will still try to understand Andy’s thoughts and tolerate Andy’s behavior.

In Andy's two relationships, Singularity is the taker, and Xiaobao is always the giver.

Only when Andy is always with Xiao Bao can she truly break out of her shackles and experience all the ups and downs that love brings to her.

Therefore, even if Andy is reluctant to let go of Singularity, he will not continue to be together with Singularity.

After all, only your feet know whether the shoes fit you or not.