Is it forbidden for relatives to immigrate in the United States, Zhihu?

I don't know when people started to think that marriage is a necessity, but now there is no marriage, which is actually nothing. Moreover, more and more chicken soup about loneliness and death is circulating in the circle of friends. It is said that love is never a necessity. In fact, you can live well alone. So the marriage of modern young people has really undergone earth-shaking changes. Marriage is no longer a necessity of life?

In fact, I think the change of this concept is the progress of the concept of the times. In the past, people thought marriage was a necessity, so at a certain age, even if they didn't meet someone they liked, they had to find someone to marry. Even if you don't like this person, or even hate this person, you should marry this person, because that was the concept at that time, and many people suffered greatly from it, so you should endure it even if you are unhappy.

Although people always say that we should learn to wait, we love. People who love us too will appear one day. However, with the growth of age, we will know that it is normal for such people to encounter the blessings that they are estimated to have repaired in their previous lives. In fact, few people can meet the people they like and also like their own people. Since I haven't met anyone who likes me and myself, why should I get married?

Carry on the family line? For the next generation? This reason is hard to convince. So in fact, this change in concept is also a progress of the times.

Let people now not live so depressed, don't always live in other people's opinions, or think more about their own happiness, but how this society views marriage, and what we should care more about is how we view love.