Mountain and Sea Love: Does Ernst & Young deserve to be scolded?

Mountains and Seas: Does Ernst & Young deserve to be scolded?

In "The Love of Mountains and Seas", Shui Hua attracted everyone's attention as soon as she appeared on the stage, and her every move and smile made people feel heartbroken. Perhaps it is precisely because the audience likes Splash so much that they are particularly dissatisfied with her husband An Yongfu.

Some people say that Ernst & Young is threatening to die and not letting water flowers grow mushrooms, which is a manifestation of hypocrisy and selfishness.

Some people say that Ernst & Young does not love Shuihua at all, but just wants Shuihua to obey him.

Some people also say that since Ernst & Young has a disabled leg and his hands are not disabled, can’t he help Shuihua with some housework?

Some people say that behind every successful woman, there is a There is a stumbling block man!

But I want to say that Ernst & Young is not that bad. On the contrary, he has many shining points, and his bad temper is just a splash of distress but helpless to blame himself!

1. The villagers in Yongquan do not believe in the future, but Ernst and Young Fu creates the future with hard-working hands

Daddy Shuihua casually promised Shuihua to Anjia for the "generous" gift. Ernst & Young.

According to Mai Miao: "He (Shui Hua's father) took such a good Shui Hua sister and exchanged it for a water cellar, a donkey, two sheep, and two cages of chickens, and she became a rich man in our village." "Rich man."

After accepting these gifts, Shuihua Daddy became a rich man in the village! It can be seen that many villagers are extremely poor, otherwise there would not be a family of three brothers** *Wear a pair of trousers, and the guinea fowl used for poverty relief by the government will be eaten down to one.

The An family was able to give out so many things as betrothal gifts despite widespread poverty, which shows that they are relatively wealthy. An Yongfu and his family must be very capable to live a decent life in such a poor place. a little.

As for those who ran back from Diaozhuang, they would rather suffer poverty and eat dirt in comfort than endure hardship for a better life in the future.

In contrast, Ernst & Young is good. He is hardworking and capable, and has earned a relatively good life with his sweat. He marries a wife and has children, and pursues ordinary and practical happiness.

In Ma Huashui’s words, the people in Yongquan Village are blind and cannot see the government’s painstaking efforts and the good future. But Ernst & Young is painting a picture of the future, striving for a happy life with hard-working hands.

2. The more An Yongfu loves Shuihua, the more he is afraid of losing it

Ernst Yongfu is very good to Shuihua, and he wants to dig the biggest water cellar in the village for Shuihua.

Some people say that he does not love Shuihua at all, nor does he respect Shuihua. What he gives is not what Shuihua wants.

Indeed, Shuihua doesn't care about the water cellar at all. She wants to immigrate to Jintan Village and create a new life there.

But there is a reason why Ernst & Young is unwilling to immigrate.

On the one hand, it’s because Shuihua’s first love, Ma Defu, presides over the immigration work in Jintan Village.

On the other hand, Anjia is not like most villagers. They have nothing and can just pat their butts and leave. However, An Yongfu still has a little bit of wealth that he worked hard for, and he can find it in his hometown. With a little sense of superiority, he had to start everything from scratch like everyone else in Jintan Village.

In fact, no matter from which aspect, Ernst & Young is afraid of losing splash. After all, in his hometown, his economic conditions were better than Ma Defu's, but in Jintan Village, Ma Defu was the most dazzling.

In addition, Ernst & Young knows that the conditions in the Gobi Desert are difficult, and he is reluctant to let Shui Hua suffer there with him, so he always avoids this issue.

It can be said that Ernst & Young loves Shuihua deeply, but the deeper the love, the more afraid of losing it, and people will become more and more inferior.

Standing in 2021, we can say that Ernst is short-sighted and narrow-minded. If he truly loves Shuihua, he should give her what she wants. But how many of us can really do this?

What’s more, it was 1996, and the consciousness and thoughts of a rural man were just like Ernst Yongfu: taking what he thinks is best, Give it to the one you love most.

3. Ernst is disabled and cannot share the hardships of life for Shuihua. This is his greatest inferiority complex

Unfortunately, in order to fulfill his promise, Ernst repairs a mouth for Shuihua. The large water cellar was smashed and damaged.

A man who wanted his wife to live a good life suddenly became unable to do anything and became a useless person in need of care. The pain is unimaginable.

Some people say that Ernst and Young's legs are disabled, but his hands are still good and he can still do some work within his ability.

But for a person who is suddenly disabled, not only his legs are broken, but also his dignity as a man. No one can quickly let go of this kind of life-changing injury. He needs time to get out of his inferiority and self-doubt, re-understand his own value, and regain the dignity of life.

This process is painful, because people with self-doubt will always find faults to attract the attention of those around them, test her bottom line, and prove that no matter what they become, the other person still loves them. of. Just like a child who lacks love and always uses mischief to attract the attention and love of his parents.

This approach is very childish, but which injured person doesn’t want to be unconditionally accepted and cared for like a child?

Ernst Yongfu does not support Shuihua’s mushroom cultivation, so follow her Losing his temper, even childishly threatening him with death, are all caused by his low self-esteem.

He heard that Professor Ling praised Shuihua for being smart and able to learn quickly, which made him even more uneasy. Because Splash becomes more and more outstanding, he becomes even more dwarfed, and his inferiority complex becomes more and more serious.