What are the advantages and disadvantages of the only child?

loneliness is not the key to the problem.

On the issue of the only child, the only child over 4 years old has the most say. The 3-year-old only child has just entered the threshold of voice.

The only child is a legacy of that particular era. We have no choice. Let's face it, accept it and understand it! Objectively speaking, there is a big difference between only children and non-only children. Throughout the world and all mankind, China's only child in the past 3 years is the only wonderful work in human history. The problem of accumulation is too serious!

when the only child grows up and needs to shoulder the responsibility of the family, it is only when we reach the age of "the old and the young" that we realize that our life is actually: we are all alone.

The "high risk" of the one-child family is that it is the most unstable "inverted triangle" structure, which means that all the burden falls on the only child.

The middle-aged only child is most afraid of hearing the news of his parents' illness. His parents' illness is like a time bomb, ready to destroy the efforts and accumulation of a family for many years. The only children who have no brothers and sisters and no retreat must bear twice or triple the economic pressure.

According to statistics, at present, there are more than 42 million disabled elderly people over 6 years old in China, accounting for about 16.6% of the elderly population over 6 years old. In other words, one out of every six elderly people in China cannot take care of themselves. A demographic study in Peking University shows that by 23, the number of disabled old people in China will exceed 77.65 million, and the disabled old people will experience an average disability period of 7.44 years before their death.

what is the most important thing in the 21st century?

talent? No, it's a paramedic!

The monthly salary of many only children who work hard in first-and second-tier cities is just enough to pay their nurses.

I saw someone ask in Zhihu: What kind of experience is it to be an only child in one sentence? Among them, the one who praised the most replied: I dare not be poor, I dare not get sick, I dare not marry far away, and I even dare not die, because my parents only have me.

It is said that people who stand at 3 are not confused at 4, but they can really stand at the fork of their thirties and forties and look up. In life, people depend on us, but there is no one we can rely on. There are no brothers and sisters to discuss, friends can never feel the same way, children are still hungry, but parents have stooped.

this is the reality.

I once read a sentence: "Children who marry far away are all children lost by their parents." When it comes to this topic, we must mention "distant marriage", because it is a topic that has been repeatedly mentioned, but it will always poke people's hearts. For the only child, I dare not stay away from my parents' work and life, and I dare not marry far away. "Your father is lying on the ground, but you are in the address book." It has become the farthest distance in the world.

Only children dare not be poor, because the future of this family needs to be supported by one person, and they dare not get sick, because their parents are getting old. Even if we have a younger brother and sister, they can bring us a lot of warmth, know how to protect, take responsibility and never give up. Too bad we didn't! But we still have a dream, a dream that will never come true ...