What is the psychology of Tik Tok people drying divorce certificates?

It depends on the specific situation. I don't watch Tik Tok very often. What I can analyze may be these kinds of psychology:

Second, gain self-inner recognition. Some people may be extremely ambivalent and confused about their divorce. When I post him online, I will hint to myself "Look, I don't regret it" in my mind, thus achieving a state of self-awareness and coordination. Therefore, this may be a self-deception phenomenon.

Third, show off to your ex-husband. It may be a proof to the ex-husband, "I live better than you" to get satisfaction. However, this possibility is not great, because Tik Tok is an undirected communication channel, which may not be seen by the ex-husband. Moreover, if so, it also proves that I still care about my ex-husband.

Therefore, in fact, this kind of behavior is nothing more than the psychology of "showing others", "showing yourself" and "showing him". Either way, it actually proves that inner insecurity and self-worth are quite pitiful.

Since ancient times, the formation of national will has determined that men should get married and women should be masters of their own affairs. Under the condition of stable demand, the government legislates according to the requirements of the country and people's daily life, which is called marriage law.

However, with the continuous progress of the times, people's thoughts have improved their knowledge and understanding of the concept of marriage, and the equal marriage human rights of men and women have increasingly raised women's marital status to freedom of marriage and convenience of divorce, forming a child's play marriage in today's times.

When a country's divorce certificate is greater than the marriage tax, it directly shows that the country's economy has developed to the peak of desire.

I am a talented person and can't think of a better point of view? Our people should show good faith and analyze the development of human marriage today and in the future with the emphasis on moral marriage. Aren't you afraid of our future generations and where their future will go?

I am 62 years old and my wife is 53 years old. Lived together for 35 years and never got married. I just moved the woman's account into my name. There are three families in our village who have never been married. These three families have a good life, and their living standards rank first in the village.

In my own eyes, the marriage certificate is only an intermediary certificate, and of course it is also a dead letter. Of course, our conscience and morality are always high, and our life is also happy.

Divorce is a kind of failure, a kind of pain and a kind of self-denial. So, why show the wound to everyone? I think it may be the following situations:

First, relieve the pain.

Similar to turning over serfs to sing. After liberation, we should take to the streets, sing and dance, and dance yangko. How happy you are now, how painful you were in the past.

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Second, she is the innocent party in the marriage.

If she cheats, she will never get a divorce certificate. She won't let everyone see what happens when she cheats. When she got the divorce certificate, someone must have asked her why she divorced, so she found an opportunity to pour out her bitter water happily.

Third, announce to the circle of friends that she is a free man.

She must be in good condition. What is the beauty around you? Maybe there are some secret admirers. Now tell everyone that you can pursue her again with confidence, and it is not illegal.

Fourth, inner pain, seeking comfort.

Everyone has one thing in common, which is sympathy for losers. So she showed everyone her failure. It is easy to get sympathy, comfort and encouragement, which makes it easy for her to get out of the pain of divorce.

Fifth, warn her not to marry the wrong person.

She is a person who dares to face and admit her mistakes. Admit that your marriage is wrong. If you marry the wrong person, that's what happens to her. It is often said that the tears after marriage are all water in the heart before marriage. Everyone entered the marriage with a beautiful dream, but as a result, her dream woke up early. Girls who are not married should take their own stories as an example and think twice before you act.

She is a brave and bold person.

Women are generally afraid that others will laugh at them, suffer indignities, suffer losses, and are unwilling to let others know. Knocked out a tooth and swallowed it with blood. The arm is broken and hidden in the sleeve. Abused, wearing makeup, wearing sunglasses, hiding. Being derailed, pretending that nothing happened, I dare not let anyone find out the failure of my marriage.

Seven, the nightmare is over, never look back.

My heart is broken, so I will be so determined. Sun's divorce certificate shows her determination. Stay out of this life. I can't figure out what kind of man would hurt her like this.

Men and women handle things differently! Men like to carry it alone and don't want people to see the weak side. Unlike a woman, she wants everyone to know, then comfort her, and then belittle men. So it is usually the woman's divorce certificate.

Woman, what did you say about her? Said she was miserable after the divorce! As a result, she filed for divorce. Say no pity! When I show, I say that men are useless, and I am virtuous and generous.

When a woman speaks, it makes sense. She can tell how hard it is for her to cheat, how lazy she is, how bad it is for her skin, and how big a mistake she made. Men don't admit their mistakes, then turn over the old scores, and at the end, you all feel that you are not things.

Another reason is that women are so headstrong that they show their divorce certificates. It is also a kind of self-affirmation to advertise for myself and show my ex-husband how many people support me and pursue me after my divorce.

Nowadays, women are extremely inflated, because there are some men who have never seen women, the support of divorced women, and the guidance of online poisoned chicken soup. Divorce certificates have been the same as a woman getting a driver's license, and there must be a person, so as to keep up with the development of the times.

China women's other skills are not strong, and their ability to distort facts is unparalleled. You reason with her, he tells you about the past, you tell her about the past, she tells you about grievances, it is not easy for you to tell her about yourself, she tells you about responsibility, you tell her about responsibility, and she tells you about today's society.

This is the status quo of women in China. If you don't believe me, let's see how women answer questions.

Humans silently become vassals of entertainment, without complaint or even willingly. As a result, we have become a species of entertainment to death-entertainment to death.

A few days ago, Tik Tok released several "short videos", which set off a craze for drying divorce certificates. These short videos have been played more than100000 times and commented more than a thousand times. The huge traffic caused is beyond our imagination.

I'm sure you have been poisoned by Tik Tok, and you can't stop brushing your teeth for hours. We are curious to see how others grind iron into needles, how they fill the sea with stones, how they drip water through stones with water bottles, and how fools move mountains. Brush to see how the little diaosi is dressed as a goddess, very curious, pretending to be crazy and selling stupidity, grandstanding, selling color, worshipping money and showing off wealth, and so on. Although the video is only 15 seconds, I just can't help but draw down, relying on these short videos to give us a short pleasure.

Tik Tok is full of useless junk content, but we can't help clicking on it and enjoying it.

Now, netizens can do anything for their Tik Tok, without any bottom line or principle. Live broadcast trampling on a police car, calling 1 10 to tease the operator, pretending to be the deputy director of the public security department, provoking the police, stealing Mercedes-Benz logo, etc.

"In ancient times, there was a bonfire, and only beauty laughed. Today, there is Tik Tok brain powder, double-click to follow 666. "

So now you have to ask me what my mentality is to get a divorce certificate in Tik Tok?

The recent divorce certificate is just grandstanding and eye-catching. I'm not surprised. I'm even used to it. As for why getting a divorce certificate will be a fire, it may be that divorce has finally been freed from the nightmare relationship and the mind has been liberated. Nowadays, in this fast-paced society, there are many divorced people, resulting in a considerable number of * * * sounds. Therefore, it is sought after and imitated by the majority of netizens, but traditionally, there is nothing to show off. Everyone should take his life seriously. This kind of value output will subtly affect everyone's attitude towards marriage and become more and more irresponsible.

If the people degenerate into passive audiences and all public affairs are like magic tricks, then this nation will find itself in danger and the fate of culture will be doomed-entertainment will die.

Of course, this can't be blamed on the Tik Tok platform. The original intention of the platform is to "record a little bit of life". What we really need to do is the recommendation and distribution mechanism, so that the real high-quality culture can be exposed and the vulgar content can be refrigerated.

I believe that there will be excellent and thought-provoking high-quality content to wash our spicy eyes and hearts in the future.

Challenge your courage and courage, because I used to think that divorce was the most terrible and difficult thing. I am very worried and scared. I am under great pressure from family, children, work and so on, but I am difficult to get along with. Nervous, depressed and uncomfortable all day. Now, through hard work, I have finally overcome all difficulties and realized my desire for divorce. I was relieved, and the burden on my body was finally lifted. I only think about my own affairs, so I feel very relaxed and comfortable, so I issued a divorce certificate to show that I am really great. I did such a big thing, such a difficult thing. I am proud, I am proud. I'm not afraid of anyone from now on. Look! I exposed the divorce certificate to let everyone know that I am divorced. I am not afraid of your nonsense. My divorce was the right choice. Don't talk nonsense. I am aboveboard. From then on, I decided to live for myself, not for my children, not for my family, not for anyone, and no one can hurt me.

In my opinion, getting a divorce certificate means: you can finally get rid of it!

The disintegration of marriage will make people's hearts very tired and will cry again and again.

Divorce is an unbearable thing for both men and women.

Love is gone, so is family. The warm nest that has been in business for a long time is gone at once. How can I not shed tears?

There is another way to say goodbye to the past.

Only when life is not smooth and you can't get along well will you get divorced. Divorce is the beginning of another life.

Even if it hurts again, you must live!

I think that's what happened.

Sun's divorce certificate, another possibility, gives a hint to the relevant personnel.

In any case, the pursuit of happiness is everyone's wish to live. Just don't be rash and hasty, but know how to respect and love yourself. This is the most important thing!

This must first rule out hype, because that is their job! Don't think it's impossible. Some people can do anything to be famous. Just like someone gives immigrants leave to get married.

Excluding the first reason, if a woman can get a divorce certificate, it means that she really came out of the last marriage, won't stay and dare to show it to everyone, that is a relief. Most of these women are cheerful.

At the same time, when I regain my freedom, I also hope to find sincere friends and even lifelong lovers in this way.

Both are normal psychological needs. Human beings live in a socialized society, and the pressure of life is great, especially for a single woman. Therefore, we should tolerate this kind of thing more and think in a better direction, otherwise it will be our psychological sunshine.

Finally out of the misery, you can do whatever you want and start looking for new goals.

You can talk, you can make an appointment, and you need to pay!