Where Han Suyuan immigrated to Vietnam.

Recently, Han Suyuan revealed in the program that she and Chen Hua intend to have a second child and have plans to immigrate to Vietnam. ?

Just like star couples, after the liberalization of the second child policy, many families have already or are ready to have a second child. However, it should be noted that having children should not be a whim. Before giving birth to a second child, we should carefully consider whether various situations are suitable for giving birth to a second child.

The first is the economic foundation, which is a commonplace topic. I believe all parents who want to have a second child will consider this aspect. Nowadays, raising a baby is not more difficult than before. As long as you stutter, you can bring up your child. Many families in remote mountainous areas can even have children, and there are several people in a family. Nowadays, in raising children, in addition to food, clothing, housing and transportation, we should also consider school tuition fees, extracurricular interest classes, and even buy school districts so that children can go to better schools. Spending on children all year round can be said to be huge. Perhaps one child is already the financial burden of the whole family, and having a second child means double consumption, so you must consider whether you can bear the financial pressure before giving birth to a second child.

The second is to consider whether there is enough manpower and time to take care of the baby. To tell the truth, raising a baby needs money and leisure. In addition to financial strength, we should also consider whether we have manpower to take care of the children at home. In the past, the task of taking care of children was often given to the mother alone, so many stay-at-home mothers appeared. Nowadays, most women need to take care of their careers and families. Therefore, in addition to their mothers, they must have effective helpers at home, such as the elderly taking care of them during the day or asking a nanny to take care of them. In the evening, both parents should take time to accompany their children after work. The above is aimed at one child, so after giving birth to a second child, you need to double your manpower. If Dabao has gone to school, so much the better. If both children are in preschool, I'm afraid at least two people need to take care of them at the same time. Whether to let in-laws or parents help, or whether husband and wife sacrifice one's job, these are all issues that need to be considered before giving birth to a second child.

Finally, we must also consider the acceptance of Dabao. Before giving birth to a second child, Dabao was the apple of his family's eye. He may have everything, but he is selfish by nature. But having a second child means that parents' love should be split in two, and the second child needs to be taken care of as soon as it is born. The whole family will definitely focus on the little penis. At this time, Dabao's psychology will be unbalanced, and there may be fierce reactions, even jealousy and revenge, and there will be harm. In order to avoid this kind of thing, before giving birth to a second child, parents should do a good job in psychological construction for Dabao and test the child's reaction to having a younger brother or sister. If Dabao accepts it gladly, so much the better. If Dabao refuses, don't take it seriously. Either be patient with your child's work or reconsider whether to have a second child.

Of course, in addition to the above three points, parents who are going to have a second child still have some things to consider, such as whether they can guarantee fairness to the two children after giving birth to a second child, such as whether Ma Bao's physical condition is suitable for giving birth again, etc. If one or more of the above conditions are not met, parents are advised to choose a second child carefully, which is both their own responsibility and their children's responsibility. ?