Revelation of life

The first story

Chen Atu is a farmer in Taiwan and has never traveled far.

Finally, he got an opportunity to travel abroad with a tour group. Everything abroad was very new to him, especially the fact that he was part of a luxury group and each person lived in a standard room, which made him feel even more novel.

This morning, when the waiter knocked on the door to deliver breakfast, he shouted to him: "GOOD MORNING, SIR!"

Chen Atu was stunned: What does this mean? In his hometown, strangers usually ask when they meet: "What's your surname?" Thinking of this, Chen Atu shouted loudly: "My name is Chen Atu!" Like this, for three days in a row, the waiter knocked on the door. , say loudly every day: "GOOD MORNING, SIR!". Chen Atu also shouted back: "My name is Chen Atu!"

After a few days, he was very angry: This waiter is too stupid. He asks him what his name is every day. Tell him if he can remember it. Stop, it’s so annoying! Finally, he couldn't help it anymore and ran to ask the tour guide what "GOOD MORNING, SIR!" meant. The tour guide told him the answer, "Oh my God! It's so embarrassing!"

After returning to the room , Chen Atu repeatedly practiced the phrase "GOOD MORNING, SIR!" so that he could deal with the waiter decently.

The next morning, the waiter knocked on the door as usual. As soon as the door opened, Chen Atu shouted: "GOOD MORNING, SIR!"

At the same time, the waiter The call was: "I am Chen Atu!"

This story tells us: Interactions between people are often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him, or he influences you. If we want to succeed, we must cultivate our own influence; only those with great influence can become the strongest in life! ! !

The second story

Five-year-old Hank went to work in the forest with his father, mother, and brother.

Suddenly, it started to rain heavily, but they only brought a poncho.

My father gave the poncho to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank.

Hank asked: "Why did dad give the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to me?"

Dad replied: "Because dad is better than mom. Strong, my mother is stronger than my brother, and my brother is stronger than you. We will all protect the weaker ones."

Hank looked around, ran to the side and stretched out his poncho to protect himself from the wind and rain. On top of a delicate little flower swaying.

This story tells us: A truly strong man does not necessarily have to be powerful or rich, but the most important thing is how helpful he is to others! Responsibility allows us to complete things, and love allows us to do things better! !

The third story

A man went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of a parrot that read: This parrot can speak two languages ??and sells for 200 yuan.

The sign in front of another parrot says: This parrot can speak four languages ??and sells for NT$400.

Both of them have bright fur and are very cute. Which one should I buy? The man was spinning around, unable to make up his mind.

At this moment, he suddenly discovered that there was an old parrot with toothless hair nearby, with dull and messy fur, and a price tag of 800 yuan!

The man quickly called the boss over and asked, "Can this parrot speak eight languages?" The shopkeeper said, "No."

The man felt strange: "Then why is this old, ugly, and incompetent parrot worth this amount?"

The shop owner replied: "Because the other two parrots call this parrot Boss."

This story tells us: A true leader does not necessarily have to be very capable. As long as he knows how to trust, delegate power, and cherish, he can unite forces more powerful than himself, thus increasing his worth. On the contrary, many very capable people pursue perfection too much, have to do everything by themselves, and feel that no one is as good as them. In the end, they can only be the best public relations personnel and sales representatives, but they cannot become excellent leaders.

The 4th Story

A man from a small country came to China and paid tribute to three identical golden men. They were so shiny that the emperor was very happy.

But the people in this small country were not kind and posed a difficult problem to the Chinese emperor. Which of the three golden men was the most valuable?

The emperor thought of many ways and asked the jeweler to check, weigh and see the workmanship... The results were exactly the same.

What should I do? The envoy is still waiting to go back and report to his king. Isn’t it such a big country that can’t even handle this little thing?

Finally, an old minister said he had a way. He held three straws confidently, pulled out one of them, and inserted it into the ear of the first Jin man. The other ear of the second golden man came out; the straw inserted into the second golden man fell out directly from its mouth; and the third golden man, after the straw went in, it fell into the golden man's belly.

The old minister said: "The third golden man is the most valuable!" The messenger was silent and the answer was correct...

This story tells us: The most valuable person is not necessarily the most valuable person. The most eloquent person.

God gave us two ears and one mouth, originally to let us listen more and speak less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.

Story 5

A said to B: "I want to leave this company because I hate this company!"

B suggested: "I Thumbs up! You must give the company some credit! However, it’s not the best time for you to leave now.”

A asked why, and B said, “If you leave now, the company’s The loss is not big. You should take advantage of the opportunity that you are still in the company to try your best to attract some customers for yourself and become an independent figure in the company. Then, if you suddenly leave the company with these customers, the company will suffer heavy losses. Very passive, and then you..."

A felt that what B said was very reasonable, so he worked hard. Everything went as planned. After more than half a year of hard work, A has many loyal customers.

When we met again, B asked A: "Now is the time, we must 'act' quickly!"

A smiled calmly: "The boss has already had a long talk with me. I am going to be promoted to assistant general manager, and now I have no plans to leave..."

Actually, this is exactly B's original intention. Working alone is always just writing a life resume for himself. Only when you pay more than you get and let your boss truly see that your ability is greater than your position will you be given more opportunities to create more profits for him.

Story 6

Three people were going to be imprisoned for three years. The warden gave each of them an achievable request.

The American loves to smoke cigars and went to jail after asking for three boxes of cigars; the French are romantic and want a beautiful woman to accompany them; and the Jew said that he wants a phone to communicate with the outside world.

Three years later, the first person to rush out was an American. His mouth and nostrils were filled with cigars. He shouted: "Give me fire, give me fire!"

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It turns out that he forgot to get popular. The Frenchman came out next. He was holding a child in his hand. The beautiful woman was also holding a child in her hand, and she was pregnant with a third one. The last person to come out was the Jew. He held the warden's hand tightly and said: "In the past three years, I have been in contact with the outside world every day. Not only has my business not stopped, but it has increased by 200%. In order to express my gratitude, I will give you a gift." A Rolls-Royce! ”

This story tells us: what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Our life today is determined by our choices three years ago, and our choices today will determine our life three years from now. We must choose to be exposed to the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create a better future for ourselves.

Story 7

Two people were walking in the forest and suddenly encountered a big tiger.

A quickly took off a pair of lighter sports shoes from behind and put them on. B became anxious and cursed: "What are you doing? You can't outrun the tiger even if you change your shoes!!!"

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A said: "As long as I run faster than you..."

In the 21st century, having no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially after China enters the customs, telecommunications, banking, insurance, and even civil servants, which we have always considered very stable and secure industries, will face many variables. When more tigers come, have we prepared our running shoes?

The 8th Story

A scholar came to Beijing for the third time to take the exam and stayed in a store where he often stayed.

Two days before the exam, he had three dreams: the first dream was about growing cabbage on the wall; the second dream was about a rainy day, and he wore a bamboo hat and held an umbrella; The first dream was that I and my beloved cousin took off their clothes and lay together, but back to back. These three dreams seemed to have some profound meaning, so the scholar quickly found a fortune teller to interpret the dreams the next day.

When the fortune teller heard this, he patted his thigh and sighed: "You'd better go home! Think about it, isn't it a waste of time to grow vegetables on the high wall?! Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and hold an umbrella?! Follow My cousin was naked and lying on the same bed with their backs on each other. Isn’t that a no-brainer!

When Xiucai heard this, he went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home.

The shop owner was very surprised when he saw it, so he asked him: "Isn't the exam just tomorrow? Why are you going back to your hometown today?" The scholar said this, and the shop owner was happy: "Hey, I can also interpret dreams. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it a good idea to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a bamboo hat and holding an umbrella mean that you are well prepared this time? You stripped naked with your cousin Lying back to back on the bed, doesn't it mean that it's time for you to turn over?"

When the scholar heard this, he felt that what the shop owner said was more reasonable, so he was in high spirits and took the exam, and he actually won. Exploring flowers.

Positive people are like the sun, which shines brightly wherever it shines; negative people are like the moon, which is different on the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month. Ideas determine our lives. What kind of ideas we have, what kind of future we have.

Story 9

The little camel in the zoo asked her mother: "Mom, why are our eyelashes so long?"

The camel mother: "When When the sandstorm comes, our long eyelashes can help us see the direction in the sandstorm.

The little camel asked again: "Mom, mom, why are our backs so hunched? It's so ugly!"

Camel mother: "This is called a camel hump. It can help us store a lot of water and nutrients, and allows us to endure conditions without water or food for more than ten days in the desert."

The little camel asked again: "Mom, mom, why are the soles of our feet so thick?" "

Camel mother: "That will prevent our heavy bodies from sinking into the soft sand, which will make it easier for us to travel long distances!

The little camel was so happy: "Wow, it turns out we are so useful!" But mom, why are we still in the zoo now instead of going hiking in the desert? ”

I am born with talents that will be useful, but unfortunately no one is using them now. A good attitude + a successful textbook + an unlimited stage = success. Everyone’s potential is unlimited, the key is to Find a stage where you can give full play to your potential.

Story 10

There are seven people living together, and they have to share a large bucket of porridge every day. >The terrible thing is that there is not enough porridge every day.

In the beginning, they drew lots to decide who would get the porridge, and one person took a turn every day. So, at the end of the week, they only had enough. It was the day when they divided the porridge.

Later, they elected a person with high moral standards to divide the porridge. Power will lead to corruption, and everyone began to try their best to please him and bribe him, which made the whole clique collapse. The smoke blocked the atmosphere. Later, everyone formed a three-person porridge committee and a four-person selection committee, but they often attacked each other and started arguing, and the porridge was all cold in the mouth.

In the end, Someone came up with an idea: take turns to share the porridge, but the person sharing the porridge should wait until everyone else has finished picking the last bowl. In order not to eat the least, everyone should try to divide the porridge equally. Even if it is unfair, we can only accept it.

In the end, everyone is happy and harmonious, and the days are getting better and better.

For the same seven people, different distribution systems have emerged. Therefore, if a unit has bad work habits, it must be a problem with the mechanism. It must be that it is not completely fair, just, open, and has no strict rules for rewarding hard work and punishing laziness. How to develop such a system is up to each individual. Issues worth pondering and considering for leaders...

The 11th Story

Everyone who has been to a temple knows that as soon as you enter the temple, the first thing you see is Amitabha Buddha, who greets guests with a smile. , and to the north of him is Wei Tuo, who has a black mouth and a black face. But it is said that a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but were in charge of different temples.

Mile Buddha. Happy, so many people came, but he didn't care about anything, was careless, and didn't manage the accounts well, so he still couldn't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a good accountant, he had a gloomy face all day long. Being too serious led to fewer and fewer people, and finally the incense was cut off.

The Buddha discovered this problem when he was checking the incense, so he put them both in the same temple, and Maitreya Buddha was responsible for public relations. , welcomed guests from all over the world with a smile, and Wei Tuo was selfless and meticulous, so he was responsible for the finances and strictly controlled the affairs.

[color=blue]In fact, in the eyes of masters of employment, there is no useless person, just like a master of martial arts, he can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without a precious sword. The key is how to use it.

The 12th story.

A psychology professor visited a lunatic asylum to learn about the living conditions of lunatics. After a day, he felt that these people were crazy and behaved unexpectedly. It was an eye-opener.

Unexpectedly, when he was about to return, he found out. His tire was knocked off. "It must have been some lunatic who did it!" the professor thought angrily, getting the spare tire ready to install.

The matter is serious. The person who took off the tire actually removed all the screws. There’s no way to get in without screws and even a spare tire!

The professor was at a loss. When he was extremely anxious, a madman jumped over and sang an unknown happy song. He spotted the professor in distress, stopped and asked what was going on.

The professor was too lazy to pay attention to him, but told him anyway out of politeness.

The madman laughed and said: "I have a way!" He removed a screw from each tire, so that he got three screws to install the spare tire.

The professor was surprised and grateful, and was very curious: "How did you come up with this method?"

The madman laughed happily: "I am a madman, but I am not an idiot. Ah! ”

In fact, there are many people in the world who, because they have discovered the joy of work, will always show enthusiasm that is different from ordinary people, which is difficult to understand. While many people are laughing at them as lunatics, others may still be laughing at them as idiots.

Being dull and smart is a good attitude especially in China.

Story 13

Before a master performer came on stage, his disciple told him that his shoelaces were loose. The master nodded his thanks and knelt down to tie it carefully. After the disciple turned around, he squatted down and loosened his shoelaces.

A bystander saw all this and asked puzzledly: "Master, why do you want to untie the shoelaces again?" The master replied: "Because I play a tired man. The traveler has loosened his shoes after a long journey, and this detail can be used to express his fatigue and haggardness."

"Then why don't you tell your disciples directly?"

"He could carefully find that my shoelaces were loose, and enthusiastically told me that I must protect his enthusiastic enthusiasm and encourage him in a timely manner. As for why I need to untie my shoelaces, there will be more in the future. If you have more opportunities to teach him how to perform, you can talk about it next time."

A person can only do one thing at a time, and he is a real talent if he understands the key points.

Story 14

There was a kid from a rich family who loved dumplings so much that he ate them every day. But he was very cunning. He only ate the stuffing and threw the sharp ends of the skin into the creek behind.

The good times did not last long. When he was sixteen years old, a fire burned down his whole family, and his parents died of illness one after another in anger. Now he was penniless and embarrassed to ask for food. The neighbor's sister-in-law is very kind and gives him a bowl of batter every meal. He studied hard and came back three years later after taking the official position. He must thank his neighbor's sister-in-law.

My sister-in-law said to him: Don’t thank me. I didn’t give you anything. They were all the dumpling skin tips you threw away back then. I dried them and put them in sacks. I originally wanted to prepare them for emergencies. Just when you needed it, I gave it back to you.

The official thought for a long time. . . .

There is a famous 38 theory: sleep for eight hours and work for eight hours. This is the same for everyone. The difference between people lies in how they spend their spare time. Time is the most affectionate and ruthless thing. Everyone has the same thing, which is very fair. But those who have resources may not necessarily succeed, only those who make good use of resources will succeed. Survive during the day and develop at night. These are the requirements for talents in the 21st century.

Story 15

Father and son live on the mountain, and they drive the bullock cart down the mountain every day to sell firewood. The father is more experienced and is responsible for driving on rugged mountain roads with many bends. His son has good eyesight and always reminds him when he is about to turn: "Dad, it's time to turn!"

One time my father was not able to drive due to illness. Down the mountain, my son drove alone. When we got to the bend, the cow refused to turn. The son tried all kinds of methods, got off the car, pushed and pulled, and used green grass to lure it, but the cow didn't move.

What is going on? The son was puzzled. In the end, there was only one way. He looked around and saw no one, and shouted loudly into the cow's ear: "Dad, it's time to turn!"

The cow moved in response.

Cows live by conditioned reflexes, while people live by habits. A successful person knows how to cultivate good habits to replace bad habits. When good habits accumulate, he will naturally have a good life.

Story 16

When a reporter was writing a story at home, his four-year-old son clamored for him to accompany him. The reporter was very annoyed, so he tore the back cover of a magazine into pieces and said to his son: "First put together the world map here, and dad will play with you." Less than five minutes later, the son came to drag him again. The reporter said with his hand: "Dad, I've finished the spelling, play with me!"

The reporter was very angry: "It's understandable that children want to play, but it's not good if they lie. How could it be so fast? Just put together the world map!"

The son was very aggrieved: "But I really did it!"

The reporter saw that it was true, right? Is there a prodigy in the family? He asked very curiously: "How did you do that?"

The son said: On the back of the world map is a person's head. I work the other way around, as long as this person gets better, the world will be complete.

So be a good person before doing anything. If he is a good person, his world will be good.

Story No. 17

A, working as a white-collar worker in a joint venture company, feels that his ambition is not appreciated by his superiors. He often thinks: If one day I can meet the boss and have the opportunity to show off, Just use your talents! !

A’s colleague B also had the same idea. He went a step further and asked about the boss’s commuting time and calculated when he would probably get into the elevator. He also went to take the elevator at this time, hoping that If you can meet the boss, you can say hello if you have the opportunity.

Their colleague C went a step further. He learned about the boss’s struggle in detail, found out the school where the boss graduated, his interpersonal style, and the issues he cared about. He carefully designed a few simple but meaningful opening remarks, took the elevator at the planned time, and said hello to the boss several times. Finally, I finally had a long talk with the boss one day, and soon I got a better position.

Fools miss opportunities, wise people seize opportunities, and successful people create opportunities. Opportunities only come to those who are prepared. The word preparation is not just talk.

Story 18

A doctor was assigned to a research institute and became the person with the highest academic qualifications.

One day he went fishing in the small pond behind his unit, and the director and deputy director happened to be on his left and right, also fishing.

He just nodded slightly. What do these two undergraduates have to talk about?

After a while, the director put down his fishing rod, stretched, and flew across the water to the opposite side to use the toilet.

The doctor’s eyes were so wide open that they almost fell off. Floating on the water? No way? This is a pond.

When the director came back from using the toilet, he also floated back from the water.

What's going on? It’s not easy for a doctoral student to ask, who am I a doctoral student?

After a while, the deputy director also stood up, walked a few steps, and floated across the water to the toilet. At this moment, the doctor almost fainted: "Isn't it possible? We are in a place where masters of martial arts are concentrated?"

The doctoral students are also anxious. There are walls on both sides of this pond. To get to the toilet on the opposite side, you have to take a ten-minute detour, and it's too far back to your workplace. What should you do?

The doctoral student was unwilling to ask the two directors. After holding it in for a long time, he stood up and stepped into the water: I don’t believe that the water surface that undergraduates can cross is not something that I, a doctoral student, can cross.

With a thud, the doctoral student fell into the water.

The two directors pulled him out and asked him why he wanted to go into the water. He asked: "Why can you walk over?"

The two directors looked at each other and smiled: " There are two rows of wooden piles in this pond. Since it has rained and the water has risen in the past two days, we all know the location of the wooden piles, so why don’t you ask?”

< p>Academic qualifications represent the past, while only learning ability represents the future. Only those who respect experience will avoid detours. A good team should also be a learning team.