How to avoid the middle-aged crisis in AI?

This world is not purely technical. People should learn to take responsibility and accept what you can't change in this world when they reach middle age. In this world, there will not always be the role of parents and teachers, giving you homework and giving you candy when you are finished. Don't expect the world to give you candy, and don't expect the world to repay you fairly. You decide what you are responsible for, and you also know that you can't change anything, so don't take responsibility.