How much do you earn every month to dare to raise two children?

There are two children at home, the youngest is less than two years old, and she can't go to work with her at home. My husband works alone, almost 9 thousand yuan a month. Basically just right. There is not a penny left all year round. My parents-in-law said to buy us a house for 200,000 yuan, and my mother said to give us 50,000 yuan. We borrowed 40,000 to 50,000 yuan ourselves, almost covering the down payment of 300,000 yuan, but we still dare not buy it. I thought I would wait for Bao Xiao to go to kindergarten for a year or two, and then buy it when I have a stable salary, otherwise I really can't afford the monthly payment now. Two children and a family of four are really expensive. Dabao spends an average of 1000 tuition a month. Bao Xiao spends an average of/kloc-0.000 diapers, clothes, vaccines and sick pay every month. Rice, milk and fruit cost 3000 yuan. The rent is one thousand. Telephone network fee for hydropower property 1000 yuan. The average monthly car insurance premium is 1000. The rest 1000 is just going out to play, buying clothes and having a holiday. Basically barely enough to spend a year. The expenses during the Chinese New Year are all supported by the red envelopes collected by two children. Otherwise, there will be no money for the new year.