If your classmates mix better than you

Xiaowen is my good friend. This guy is a little depressed recently.

He bought me a drink, and I said, don't drink yet, brother. You have to spit out the unpleasant things first Otherwise, this wine will be humbled and boring.

Xiaowen nodded and said that he would talk over coffee, otherwise it would be boring. I accepted it.

Drink a glass of wine to warm the atmosphere first, and Xiaowen also tidied up his thoughts.

I said, man, what's going on?

Xiaowen said: Recently, college students have come.

I said, this is a good thing. I haven't seen you for years. Just keep in touch with each other

Xiaowen said: Hey, don't mention it. That boy is getting along well now. Look at me again. I don't know. I feel horrible.

I said: there are so many college students, there are always better than you. What's wrong with that?

Xiaowen said: Hey, you don't know. I was sworn enemies with that child in college. Academic achievements are equal, and students' homework is equal. They should compete with each other in private when they get scholarships and evaluate Excellence. Only a few years after graduation, the gap is so big. Do you think I will feel better?

After listening to his words, I finally knew what was going on. Another pain is a typical case.

Many people criticized Luo Zhenyu before, saying that he was selling anxiety with an APP and knowledge.

As a result, anxiety has become a hot word. There is a popular saying on the Internet: sell hope to teenagers, youth to women, aphrodisiac to men, health to the elderly and anxiety to the middle class.

So what is anxiety and how does it come about? Why haven't you heard about anxiety before?

There are more and more cases like Xiaowen, which gives me some inspiration.

Anxiety is actually that people's poor self-esteem has been hurt, thinking about how to save face. China people have a problem, that is, they don't suffer from widowhood but suffer from inequality. Everyone is poor and can live in peace. But once the rich and the poor are divided, they are incompatible. Lao Wang next door got a promotion, but you didn't move. Your wife must nag every day. Look at Lao Wang next door. How can people develop so fast? Look at you. You and I can't even hold the wall. Isn't it a shame to be such a big man? Your self-esteem is constantly frustrated and your heart is depressed. Why can't I compare with Lao Wang? How can we catch up with Lao Wang? So, you start to be anxious. What should you do? What shall we do? What shall we do?

Anxiety comes from comparing with others. Social media is too developed now. After graduating from primary school for decades, everyone drifted to all corners of the country and was almost forgotten. Suddenly, a good-hearted person set up a WeChat group, so in a few days, a group of people got together magically. It's funny now. Everyone is gossiping and lesbian, asking about the current situation, boasting and gossiping about Kan Kan. As soon as hundreds of messages are screened, you start to go bad. So-and-so started a company, so-and-so has made a fortune now, so-and-so bought a house in Shenzhen, so-and-so immigrated abroad ... It's really depressing to look at his virtue again. We all play with mud. How can people be so good? It's a shame for me to get into this goal. So I began to envy and hate, my self-esteem was hurt, my anxiety was rampant, and the people were miserable.

"If you are well, it will be sunny." Nonsense, most people don't have this ability. You mix better than me. How the fuck am I gonna be okay?

Of course, there is a situation that may be better, that is, when that person is at school, he is much better than you. He is either the headmaster or the president of the student union, or he has a skill. In short, you persuaded him at school. Then this person gets along well, and your opinion is not that big. People are a little servile. I have looked up to this person since I was a child, and I will never look down on this person all my life. Even the better he gets along with, the happier you are, because he can be your bragging point. For example, if you and Ma Yun are classmates, you will definitely tell others that Ma Yun knows my classmate!

Those who are similar to or worse than you in school, if these people mix better than you, you will never be in a good mood. Everyone has received nine-year compulsory education. Why are you so good? I didn't think you were better than me before.

It is not surprising that too many people are narrow-minded and jealous of others getting along well. The key question is coming, envy, jealousy and hate, and then hate, it's over. You should do whatever you want, run and jump according to the photos of horses, and return to your normal life. There is nothing to worry about.

But some people feel unwilling. I used to be very kind to him, and now he can do it and I can do it. There is nothing wrong with this stubbornness, thinking about progress is a good thing. But these people don't have a clear understanding of themselves. They only have gaps in their eyes, but they don't understand the reasons for the gaps in their hearts.

There is no unprovoked success, maybe people are rich second generation, maybe people meet noble people, maybe people work hard, you don't know the situation, you just want to narrow the gap as soon as possible, but you don't do anything about it, and maybe the gap will get bigger and bigger. But you still don't give up, and you have to compare with others. If you live a good life, you won't stop.

If your classmates mix better than you, you must keep a good attitude and be generous, or simply turn a blind eye, otherwise it may bring you endless troubles. It is said that people are more popular than others, and you are always compared with those "superman", that is, you are boring yourself and ruining your beautiful life.

If your classmates mix better than you and you are stimulated, you decide to change yourself, jump out of your comfort zone and catch up. This is also worth encouraging, but you should do what you can and stop.

Life is so short, just be yourself, don't let others easily disrupt your rhythm, and don't live in the shadow of others and let life lose its sunshine.

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