Why are more and more girls unwilling to go to the countryside?

Although we often say that men should get married when they are older and women should get married when they are older, many young men who live and work in rural areas often encounter many problems in the process of finding a partner.

First of all, many rural young women often like to go to cities to work hard. Even if they can't find a suitable job in the city, they like to find young men who work in the city as their blind date, because these girls think that the income of young men in rural areas is relatively low and they can't bring them a good life in the future, which largely leads to some young men in rural areas unable to find a suitable blind date and leaving themselves in a single state.

Secondly, the reason why many young women don't want to find rural young men is that when two people really get to the point of talking about marriage, they often have to live with their in-laws, that is, the parents of these young men. For many young women, the biggest headache is getting along with their mother-in-law. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become an important factor affecting the feelings of many young people and an obstacle for many rural young men to find suitable partners.

On the other hand, the reason is that many rural young men are often offered various conditions by their wives in the process of finding a partner, such as a large number of bride price or going to the county to buy a house. However, the actual economic conditions of many young men can not meet these requirements, so many young men in rural areas have been unable to find suitable partners. Therefore, if we want to change, it is mainly because these girls can change their ideas and give up some unrealistic ideas, which can really be solved.