Immigrant parents are unwilling to go.

Friend, I'm glad to help you. I appreciate whether you respect your commitment to your parents or resolutely return to China (of course, I hope you have a feeling that you don't want to leave the motherland, which is a special stage in our country in recent years)

Your girlfriend is willing to follow you back to China, which shows that she loves and respects you very much. Your future love should be perfect. In this case, you have nothing to hesitate about. For you, you have reached the age of getting married, and you have a glorious and obligation to do is to honor and support your parents. If I stay in America, can I go home again? Even if you come and go often, you will get into trouble one day. Your parents have devoted all their efforts to you. How sad and lonely will they be if you leave like this? Also think about "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to raise it without kissing it."

From your girlfriend's point of view, since you are willing to marry you and love you so much, you have "married the chicken with the chicken and married the dog with the dog". No matter where you go, she will accompany you. Besides, throughout the ages, how many son-in-law stayed at their parents' home because they married other people's daughters, especially in modern times. Of course, they marry their daughters-in-law to stay with their parents, have a happy family and sometimes take their parents home.

On the other hand, the environment in the United States is definitely better than that in China. Of course, they also want you to live there for a long time, like it and no longer yearn for your hometown, and let their daughter and son-in-law stay with you. Personally, I suggest you express your thoughts. Judging from her actions, your girlfriend completely respects and follows you. You should boldly confess to your parents-in-law. I believe you have heard so much and have something to say.

I hope you are patriotic. America is good, but it is not your native land. Maybe our society can't reach the society of other countries, but we have full trust in her! Trust our leader, it's up to you. I just hope you can understand "fallen leaves return to their roots"

Finally, I hope your troubles will be eliminated and I wish you both happiness.