I am so lonely abroad that I am going crazy.

1. First of all, it is also the most important point in a person's life: you need to have a belief. In layman's terms, you need to find a spiritual sustenance. You can believe in God, you can believe in Buddha, you can also believe in Tao, you can also believe in one or several principles of life. In the early stage, when you do not fully understand or have no life experience to support this belief, you can even adopt a blind obedience attitude towards this belief, just believe it or just try to believe it. A person will not be successful when he has no success or fame. , he is busy pursuing this result or goal. At that time, he was always busy because of material things. At that time, he would not have and had no time to feel alone and lonely like you. But once successful, many people will feel lonely, even lonely, and lonely. At that time, many people may even use extreme or alternative methods to relieve this feeling. On the one hand, it is because in the process of pursuing the above results, they have abandoned too many things: family, friendship, love...; but more importantly, on the other hand, they have no faith and no spiritual sustenance.

2. Secondly, you need to have a big goal in life and many small goals in daily life. I would hazard to guess that you are probably confused right now. This is because you probably don’t have your own goals yet, you don’t know what you want to do in the future, or even what you want to do every day. The distance education, studying for exams, and learning to drive you mentioned are all things "imposed" on you by the outside world. Maybe they are not what you want; nor are they what you actively want in your heart. First, clarify what you want to do in the future, and then set some small goals in your daily life to achieve it step by step. You can even make a list and do it gradually and persistently. You can even set a small goal that is easy to achieve at the beginning, and then achieve it to build up your sense of accomplishment and self-esteem first.

3. Try to find your own interests or hobbies, and then try to do more things related to your interests or hobbies. Because when people are doing something they like, they will feel that time flies very fast, and they will have a sense of fulfilling life, which will make you forget many unhappy and unsatisfactory things.

4. Focus on the broad aspects of life and society and the universal and usual laws of life. Willows and flowers drift in the wind, Hua Tuo is unable to heal the world. How many unsatisfactory moments can there be in the world before a song has completed half of your life? Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. What you feel is unsatisfactory in terms of lack of love, loneliness, and loneliness that you feel, but others may be unsatisfactory in other aspects. Everyone has unhappy things. So, don’t think that you are the only one who is unhappy about something or other; most people are unhappy, but the reasons for their unhappiness are different. Because this is the nature of life and life, what matters is how we deal with these dissatisfactions.

5. Try to turn your dissatisfaction into motivation. If you passively endure this kind of dissatisfaction, you may eventually have the tendency or actual action to commit suicide or self-abuse. Even, I would venture to guess arbitrarily that you may have this tendency now. In this case, you are playing into the hands of the "enemies of life" and you will destroy yourself. You should think that heaven will give you great tasks. Maybe life wants to use this method to train your will, perseverance and endurance. Maybe you will be a very arrogant person in the future.

6. Don’t blame your parents. We believe that the vast majority of parents in the world love their children, and that love surpasses any love in the world. Maybe, at a certain time or stage in your life, you don't feel this kind of love. But in the future, you will gradually feel it, especially when special circumstances arise.

7. Try to find someone of the opposite sex whom you feel good about or whom you have feelings for to talk to appropriately. There are many words and things in life that a person may not want to tell his parents, but he will tell them to the opposite sex he has feelings for. Don’t say you don’t have friends. How would you know if you didn’t try? If you don't go out, how could you possibly encounter it? You can also try to do some volunteer work or social work. Everyone abroad basically does volunteer work in hospitals, churches, charities or other institutions several times a year.

8. Don’t talk about the lack of love or care. God is very fair. He has closed the window for you, but at the same time he has opened the door for you. It depends on whether you notice the open state of this door. At the very least, having enthusiastic netizens answer your questions sincerely shows that there is no shortage of love and care in this world. So, no matter what, face life with a positive and proactive attitude, and don't live passively and passively.

In the name of God, Amen!