Who can a woman rely on in this world?

I visited a good friend I haven't seen for a long time today. Looking at the happy scene of their family, I can't help thinking of my daughter who is thousands of miles away. The desire to buy a house is getting stronger and stronger, much like Pinghai in Dwelling House. In a lonely city, I don't have my own house, and my children are not around. I crawl alone. It is said that children nowadays are particularly dependent on grandma and menstruation. I don't know how to describe the feeling of being a mother: failure? Acid? Or guilt? On the way back and forth, the same news was broadcast on the bus: a Peruvian man in South Africa married four brides at the same time. The man solemnly swore that he would love his four wives equally. Watching the groom and four brides "happily" enter the auditorium, I secretly wondered: Will they really be happy? The future is unknown, and the only thing that can be predicted is that there will be a climax of emigration to South Africa in the near future. Polygamy is the dream of many men! Four women are willing to wait for a husband, but there are only two possibilities: first, they love him too much, so much that they would rather suffer any injustice as long as they can be with him; Second, I don't love him. I just regard my wife as a career to make a living, so that I can have a support for the rest of my life. Maybe it's because I don't love a man as much. I simply can't accept such a ridiculous thing as sharing a husband with others. I don't agree with what Zhang Yining's ex-girlfriend said about the love between a man and several women. Is the world changing too fast, or am I getting old too fast? But can a man who has married four women at the same time really be relied on? In the past, I always pinned my hopes on others: I wanted my children to get ahead, my husband to earn money to support my family, and my parents-in-law to help me buy a house ..... thinking that finding a good man means finding someone to rely on. Now I understand that in this world, no one's shoulders are reliable! The child has her own world, and "getting ahead" in my mind is not necessarily her goal. Husband has his dreams, children and wives are not all he has, and he cannot give up the whole forest for one or two trees. In-laws are old and thin, and money has its own plans ... A marriage certificate is like a lock, which can lock a gentleman but not a villain. "It only takes one second to fall in love with someone. It takes a lifetime to practice this love story. " Plans can't keep up with changes. Who can guarantee that a marriage certificate can protect us for a lifetime? I can't help thinking of the classic dialogue of Dwelling House. Guo: What were you thinking when you first saw the snail? Song: I'm worried. So slow, so small, so weak. It needs to walk at its own pace in this complex world. Whoever has no intention of stepping on it will be crushed. I can't bear it. Guo: I didn't expect you to have such a hard person and such a soft heart. Song: It should be said that it is weak. In fact, many times, each of us is like this snail, carrying a heavy shell and crawling slowly. I sometimes wonder, if snails have no shells, will they fly in the sky like birds? Or swim in the water like a fish? But it is a snail and can only crawl. Guo: Do you know? The little snail once asked his mother a question. It asks, why are we born with such a heavy and hard shell on our backs? Mom said that because our bodies have no bones to support and climb slowly, we need a shell to protect us. The little snail asked again, Sister Caterpillar has no bones and climbs very slowly. Why doesn't she have to carry such a heavy and hard shell? Mom said, because the caterpillar sister can become a butterfly, the sky will protect it. The little snail said, at first, it won't become a butterfly, so why doesn't it have to carry such a heavy and hard shell? Mother said that because Brother Earthworm can drill soil, the earth will protect it. The little snail cried. It said we were so poor. The sky doesn't protect us, and neither does the earth. Guess, what did mother snail say? Song: What's the answer? Guo: Mom says we have a shell, and we don't rely on the sky or the ground. We rely on ourselves. "In this world, who can a woman rely on? Since you can't rely on the sky or the ground, you can rely on yourself!