When you grow up, everyone should be busy!

? The 55th essay?

Almost all urban office workers who go to work now have a "holiday dream", taking a long vacation, taking some simple luggage and staying in a "fairyland" for a while.

Eighteen bends of mountain road, flowing water of small bridges, mountain spring water, tender corn roasted by charcoal fire, early morning fog, dew of lotus leaves, red corn stigma on corn stalks, mini crabs in small ditches, and a slightly cold climate in the morning and evening, it only takes a few minutes to get from the ground to the pot.

Yes, I have lived in such an environment for nearly a month and returned to my childhood, but my mood is different.

Many people ask me, how do you play at home? What is the experience of spending the summer vacation like a student?

To tell the truth, no matter where you go, the first day is fun, the second day is not so fresh, and the third day is a bit boring. Then, we kept changing places to play, and then, we looked at our son's creativity.

We have grown up and everyone is busy.

After returning home, everyone in the family is very busy. Many former classmates are at work and have time to get together on Saturday. Dad has to go to work and is free on Saturday and Sunday; My brother has to go to work and stay at home for a day or two at most. Cousin needs to make up lessons in summer vacation; A 72-year-old grandmother can't do nothing all day, do farm work, stop aching all over and do nothing.

My mother finished farm work early and stayed at home with us for three meals a day, not only cooking, but also cooking.

My father-in-law goes to the clinic to see other people's teeth every day. He is very busy. My mother-in-law, with a dozen villagers, is working in the fields contracted by others, and she is more motivated every day; Feng's aunt and grandmother all have their own jobs and rest on Saturday and Sunday; Some of my son's aunts have already started working.

Yes, everyone, no matter what industry, has their own things to do. You will find that people who stay at home are old people who can't work, or children who only play a little bit all day.

No matter what we do, we must "work" instead of doing nothing. Even housewives have a lot of daily life, which is the meaning of life.

Once a person stops working, he feels that the whole person is "wasted".

Hometown is the source of strength because there are parents.

Why do you want to go home from time to time? Our life comes from our hometown parents, and the connection with our hometown parents makes us more powerful. Companionship is like charging a charging treasure, which can last for several months at a time.

Many problems that I didn't understand before have become more and more clear with my study in various fields.

This time I went home, I didn't become the shopkeeper of cutting as usual. When I was a child, I helped my grandmother cut wild boar grass, washed dishes and cooked by myself. That feeling is very different from before.

Once, because of family reasons, I couldn't "see" my mother well. After seeing the courses arranged by the family system clearly, I feel that my communication with my mother is much smoother and more and more topics are discussed. I am very happy when I go home this time.

Every time I leave, I feel very reluctant. This time it's different. We are independent individuals, and our good life and self-sufficiency are their greatest comfort.

Words and pictures are my common memory storage methods.

Did you shoot nearly 800 videos this time? Photos.

I take a lot of photos every time I go home. After all, I only go home twice a year, and the time spent with my family is limited each time.

Therefore, I really want to record every moment I get along with my relatives. Everything in my hometown, the smiling faces of my loved ones, and the interactions between my son and my loved ones made me unable to help but pick up my mobile phone and take photos.

We prolong life and make our life complete.

When it comes to spending time with relatives, it may be a little sad, which is a common problem in most families today. Many young people go out to work, or choose other cities to settle down, or emigrate, and we spend less and less time with our families.

Therefore, the usual telephone and video communication becomes very important. Similarly, when our children grow up, they will leave us, go to the city they yearn for and live the life they yearn for.

Actually, this is the inheritance of life. We raise the next generation and make our lives complete. It comes from our parents, and we can't repay it. We accept the care of our parents, filial to our parents according to their real needs, and we will continue our love.

Self-discipline has nothing to do with where you are.

It has been 129 days since I started punching in early. During the holiday, I wake up naturally around 07:30, and occasionally at 08:00, I do a good deed every day without interruption.

In fact, after I got home, I really ran 5 kilometers in the morning. The feeling of running on the country road is integrated with nature, and my heart is full of strength.

A book worth reading again and again.

This time, I brought a book home, a book I didn't understand last year. After I came into contact with the law of attraction, studied the arrangement of family system and watched the course "Vitality", why did I always get what I wanted? I picked up the book "Rich people are different from what you think" recommended by my classmates last year, and suddenly found that I could understand it.

This book seems to have a vulgar name, but in fact its content is particularly profound. It allows me to distinguish my parents from our own "money blueprint" and see all our actions and the relationship between our parents, pointing to the family background.

It made me understand the power of acceptance, from awareness, to clarifying boundaries, to resetting, and to changing my thinking step by step.

This book is a vertical traditional Chinese character of Taiwan Province Province Edition, which is different from the usual book style. Besides, it is a traditional Chinese character, and I can calm down and read and understand it carefully.

When I went home this time, I basically stayed at my hometown. I didn't play around. It seems to be because of age. I just want to be quiet, get along with nature and my family.

I will go to Chongqing again, get together with michel platini dopted mother whom I haven't seen for several years, and then go back to Shenzhen, the place where I exulted with my youth and dreams.

After the holiday, you will find that it is impossible for people not to work. Because, the law of life requires everyone to go all out, no matter where you are!

When we grow up, everyone is busy, so we must be busy and full of strength. Go back to the depths and continue to toss!