In rural areas, why are many distant daughters unwilling to go back to their parents' home for the New Year?

? ? For many migrant workers, near the end of the year, they will begin to immigrate to Spring Festival travel rush once a year. Going home during the Spring Festival is undoubtedly the choice of most people. Because I have been away from my hometown for almost a year, some for several years, some familiar relatives in my hometown are also looking forward to it. So will you go to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year this year?

Or at my mom's house? In recent years, more and more daughters who have married far away from the countryside are reluctant to go back to their parents' home for the New Year. Some go back to their parents' home only once every few years. Why? There are three reasons for this. Let's see if this makes sense! It's not easy for a daughter to go back to her mother's house. In rural areas, some old people often say that "a daughter who marries far away is a lost child." Once she goes out, it's hard for her to come back. When a daughter gets married, she becomes someone else's daughter-in-law. Sometimes I miss my parents even if I miss home, but I can't save myself because of the long journey.

Think about the cold weather, taking children and dragging luggage. The transportation is more convenient. If the road is long and the traffic is inconvenient, it is necessary to constantly change the means of transportation. Think about it, even if I have the idea of going home at first, my passion will gradually fade after several twists and turns. For parents, what they are most afraid of is going far away. Children can't stand it, and they are afraid of catching a cold and getting sick. I have to suppress my thoughts for the sake of my children.

In fact, a large number of married daughters are not unwilling to go back to their parents' home for the New Year, but afraid to go back to their parents' home for the New Year. When I go back to my parents' house during the Spring Festival, I must have gone to my relatives' house. There are many relatives in the countryside. I want to pay a New Year call to every family, or I will be gossiped. In addition, we should pay New Year greetings to our relatives during the Spring Festival. You can't go home empty-handed Gifts are a must. More importantly, I haven't visited my parents for many years, so I can't be too modest about gifts. I must be high-end and elegant. If you see children sometimes, you have to pay for the New Year's Eve dinner. Not only will you be very tired, but you may not get paid for several months.