China's husband is favored by Japanese and Korean women and is more equal with foreign wives.

Once upon a time, many girls in China were willing to "throw themselves into the arms of foreigners", which made many male compatriots unable to let go. However, there is a trend that "China husband" is popular in many countries, especially neighboring countries. A recent report in Singapore's Straits Times that "Singaporean women love to marry China men" has aroused the interest of many people in China. Global Times reporters in Russia, Japan, South Korea and other neighboring countries found that similar situations are becoming more and more common in the local area. In Moscow, from 2004 to 20 12, the number of China men who married Russian wives was nearly double that of China women who married Russian husbands; In tens of thousands of transnational marriages between China and China every year, the proportion of "Japanese husbands" is rising. Moreover, unlike some China women who lived near foreigners in the 1980s and 1990s, the combination of these "China husbands" and foreign women is more "equal". In an interview with Global Times, sociologists in many countries believe that China's opening up and rapid economic rise have led to more and more China people studying abroad or emigrating. Many countries, especially neighboring enterprises, have shifted their business to the China market, and the number of professionals in China is increasing. Therefore, it is not surprising that foreign women fall in love through work, study, travel and other occasions and marry China boys.

"China husband+Russian wife: a match made in heaven"

"China's husband+Russian wife: a perfect match", the Russian New Network wrote on this topic on July 19. In the introduction, Yelena Kuzmina, the author of this long report with thousands of words and a reporter from RIA Novosti, said that this article is aimed at solving the formula of successful transnational marriage between Russia and China. According to relevant statistics, from 2004 to 20 12, the number of men who married Russian wives in China was nearly twice that of women who married Russian husbands in China. In Primorsky Krai, this ratio is even more disparity, and the number of people who marry "China's husband" is more than seven times more than that who marry "China's daughter-in-law". According to the report, it is obvious that Russia needs a "China husband".

Regarding this phenomenon, nadezhda Lebed, director of the International Teaching and Research Laboratory of Russian Social and Cultural Studies, believes that "marrying a Russian wife will give China's husband a dowry, which will bring a higher standard of living and more business and trade opportunities. Russia does not implement the family planning policy, and at the same time has greater development opportunities. This is a good springboard for immigrants from poor northern regions. " However, Lu Yuping, a Russian businessman doing business in Moscow, disagrees with this unequal view. Lu Yuping has been married to a Russian female lawyer for seven years. He said, "Far from all Russians wanting to stay in China. On the contrary, most people strive to return to China. Of all the classmates studying in Russia, only two stayed in this country, including me and a friend of mine. The two of us never planned to stay in Russia or marry a Russian wife, just because of fate. "

"Are there too many Russian' leftover women' looking for China's husband?" According to an article titled "Will You Marry a China?" on Russian lari website, in fact, the number of marriageable women in Russia is not more than that of men, even less than that of men. According to statistics, the ratio of male to female in Russia's twenties is 1000:989. The report quoted Russian experts as saying that the success of Russian-Chinese transnational marriage does not depend on the low requirements of Russian women for material life, nor on the shortage of Russian men, but on the deep mutual understanding between Russian women and Russian men.

China husbands and foreign wives are more "equal".

"In China, more and more international people are eager to marry foreigners. For many rich people in China, marrying a foreign wife or even just going through a fruitless relationship can be a capital for them to show off everywhere. Southerners in China like to hold hands with American and European women, while northerners prefer Russian beauty. " . Yediot Izvestia, a Russian newspaper, said that not only in the Russian Far East, which is adjacent to China, but also in the vast hinterland of Russia, the files of China male suitors in matchmaking agencies are increasing day by day. Understandably, most marriage seekers in China will not forget to ask what their future partner looks like in the form. However, the report said that due to cultural differences, not all foreign-related marriages can last forever. Of course, no difference can stop men and women who really love each other. At present, more and more women from CIS countries have found their own happiness in China.

International marriage between China and Japan is very common in Japan, with tens of thousands of couples every year. However, in most cases, women in China are married to Japanese. This kind of marriage has also formed an industrial chain in Japan. The business of Japan's "International Marriage Agency" is very prosperous. The life of China women married to Japan is varied, but it is hard to say that "most of them are happy".

In 1980s and 1990s, "Chinese wives" suffered a lot of discrimination in Japan. Most of them are married to Japanese rural men or elderly retirees. Due to economic status and cultural differences, it is difficult for them to get along with their Japanese husbands. Some parts of Japan are full of contempt for China women married to Japan. At that time, it was rare for Japanese women to marry China men in Japanese society. Even if there are a few, they usually choose to return to China to live with China's husband, rather than in Japan, because she will be questioned by all parties in Japanese society.

With the development of Japanese economy, the strength contrast between China and Japan has also changed. China men are becoming more and more popular in Japan. According to the statistics released by the Japanese Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare, in recent years, the marriage rate of China girls married to Japan has shown a downward trend, while the marriage rate of "China husband" has soared.

A sociology professor at Osaka University in Japan told the Global Times reporter, "Now China's economy is rising rapidly, and many Japanese companies are turning their business to the China market. Many Japanese in China have graduated from university to study or work. They have also studied English in middle schools and universities for many years and can speak three languages: Chinese, English and Japanese. Japan's main export markets are China, where Chinese is the main language, and Europe and America, where English is the main language. These China people are in great need of Japanese talents. With the high employment rate of China people, China people began to be regarded as low-income people and attracted the attention of Japanese women economically. In addition, in China, the status of women is higher than that of Japanese. When Japanese women choose China's husband, they don't have to give up their career pursuit for the family, and their wives will get more respect in the family. Japanese women are now popular in pursuing an ordinary and practical life, and the criteria for choosing a spouse are "three levels". These all make China men who have a good economy and don't have much masculinity in their personality favored. "

Although there are still various opinions in Japanese society that many women prefer China men, most people gradually agree with them, instead of questioning Japanese women's marriage to China people as in the past. Regarding this change, Professor Osaka University said, "This is also because Japanese society has increasingly different views on China. In the past, China was a big poor country, but now people in China feel that their lives are colorful and full of vitality. Therefore, it is understandable that Japanese women choose China men. Of course, there are still people who oppose women marrying foreign men because of nationalist sentiment, but in general, they are no longer treated unfairly as before. "

(Original title: "China Husband" is popular in neighboring countries)