What are people who have really seen the world like?

Feng Lun once said: It is not difficult for a person to get up after falling, but it is difficult to walk from the highest point to the lowest point, which is beyond the ability of ordinary people. This is the man who has seen the world.

People who have really seen the world naturally have two things: reading thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road. Because a person's knowledge determines his vision, and a person's course determines his width.

Of course, a person has never seen the world, just because he has read more books and traveled more. What affects people's knowledge breadth is understanding, thinking and refining.

All light needs time to be carefully cultivated to really shine.

0 1 People who have seen the world are low-key and reserved.

People who have really seen the world have experienced the ups and downs of life and seen the vicissitudes of the world. Their wealth is engraved in their bones.

Even if he hides in the crowd, people around him can feel his aura, low-key and deep, dignified and peaceful. On them, the greatest charm is low-key and introverted.

A truly knowledgeable person will never become boastful and complacent because he has read more books, gone to more places and possessed more wealth and resources than others.

I remember Cai Kangyong once talked about his childhood experience in a program.

When he was a child, his mother took him to a rich friend's house to play mahjong. When it was time to eat, the host took out the delicacies, abalone wings and ginseng belly collected at home to entertain him.

Cai Kangyong ate shark fin for the first time and exclaimed, Wow, it's delicious. What is this?

The host smiled: This is a fan. Later, I personally gave Kang Yong another bowl: eat more if you like.

Have you ever seen the world, that is, to see if a person will take care of other people's feelings and understand empathy. Respect for others is the most basic education for people who have seen the world.

The famous Cai Kangyong will meet many dinners now. Sometimes when he eats expensive ingredients, he often meets someone who treats him loudly: this is Kobe beef. When raising cattle, you need to do massage and listen to music. Very expensive!

Cai Kangyong said with a smile: Perhaps this is the difference between the knowledgeable rich and the ignorant nouveau riche.

A knowledgeable person is kind to you because he really wants you to eat, drink and be happy, while an ignorant person just likes to show off, make you envy and then thank him for his great kindness.

We often say that the more people show off, the more they lack. People who have really seen the world will never show off their pattern easily. In their eyes, abalone is just like vermicelli, but it's just food.

They will not be arrogant because they are rich, brag because they are well informed, be cocky because they are well informed, and be frivolous and shallow because they are well informed.

The reason why people who have really seen the world are low-key and introverted is because they see more, feel more insignificant, and value the meaning of life more than fame.

People who have seen the world are exquisite and beautiful.

Whether a person has seen the world depends on whether Ta looks good.

Yes, when I say "good-looking", I mean not only the exquisiteness of the face, but also the true, noble and interesting soul that returns to its original state after seeing all the prosperity.

I attended a unique reading club a few days ago and benefited a lot. One of the girls left a deep impression on me. Her makeup is exquisite, her clothes are low-key, and her gestures reveal the temperament of good family.

When it comes to reading experience, her views are always unique and profound.

After getting to know each other, we realized that this girl is a rich second generation, with good academic qualifications and rich experience. Her parents are diplomats. She followed her parents halfway around the world since she was a child and learned a lot.

But she has always given the impression of being gentle and humble, and has never bossed others around because of her knowledge.

What makes us even more envious is that at a young age, she founded a cultural media company with her own skills without the financial support of her parents.

At that time, she had just started a business. Because of a list from a different place, when she was supposed to be reunited with her family at the reunion festival, she rushed to the other place with her suitcase to discuss it.

With his impeccable eloquence, he can contact customers and suppliers, and he is too lazy to go to the company to supervise the work every day, so he can cope freely among a group of employees.

Everything comes to him who waits, and she finally succeeded in starting a business. Just like a small, inspirational and realistic version of Ode to Joy. So our evaluation of her is that she will not only enjoy happiness, but also suffer hardships.

People who have really seen the world don't want to see the beautiful scenery all over the world, attend important occasions, meet all kinds of outstanding people and have extraordinary resumes-they just look at their ups and downs rationally, walk in the world with hardness and softness, and gradually become better themselves.

A netizen in Zhihu put forward a very reasonable point:

"A person who has seen the world will pay attention to it, do it, enjoy the best and suffer the worst. They naturally exude different temperament in the crowd, gentle but powerful, humble but connotative. "

People who have seen the world are curious and lovely.

People who have really seen the world have experienced great storms, are curious about knowledge and have the spirit of exploration.

A retired university professor lives next door to my house. When he was young, he traveled to many countries, flew airplanes, studied tanks and witnessed the changes of the times.

Now, even though I am old and my eyes are dim, I still haven't given up exploring and learning the world. I love books as much as my life.

San Mao said, "If you read more books, your appearance will naturally change. Many times, I may feel that many books I have read are gone and I no longer remember them. In fact, they are still in the potential temperament, in the conversation, in the mind. Of course, they may also be revealed in life and words. "

Every time I ask the old professor why he is still enthusiastic about books, the professor always smiles and says:

"You can only live once without reading, but you can experience thousands of lives by reading. Many life philosophies and sentiments are easier to understand under the guidance of previous thinking results. "

Such people, I believe, have seen the world no matter what age they are in.

Wong Kar-wai said in "A Master":

In this life, people should see all beings, the world and themselves clearly;

Seeing all beings, I understand that all beings are tolerant;

Seeing heaven and earth, I feel great and small, so I am humble;

See yourself, feel the id and the true self, so open-minded;

People who know more know how to respect others, and respecting others is actually solemn.

Look at the world more, broaden your horizons, broaden your mind, broaden your pattern and reduce your desires.

Anyone who has seen the world knows, look at the details, and look at Saint Si Qi. They are not constrained by triviality or mediocrity, and their eyes are bright. They are full of yearning, inferiority and calmness.

They shine with a kind of unpretentious, low-key and introverted, interesting and lovely, but there is no lack of affability in dealing with others.

Life is limited, and there is much to learn. People who have seen the world can always maintain pure curiosity and sincere awe in the face of strange and new things, and their temperament is calm and calm.

A man who has seen the world, is when he works hard again and again, finally knows what is the right direction for him, and then sticks to it, achieving his unique temperament and cultivation.

People who have seen the world are better at seeing the essence through phenomena, knowing which way is right and which choice is more likely to be what live high wants and live up to this life.

Only in this way can we really be regarded as a person who has seen the world.