Help me find some argumentative materials.

1, a successful life is a perfect life.

A successful life is a life of hard work, a life without regrets, a life with clear goals and fighting for them, and a life that will seize opportunities. Harvard University has made a scientific and systematic investigation and verification of success in life, and holds that success in life must have three elements: one is macro-management ability, the other is practical operation ability, and the third is interpersonal communication ability. The first two only account for 15-20%, and the latter accounts for 80-85%. This is strikingly similar to the formula of an investigation experiment conducted by China and Tsinghua University: success = 15% knowledge and skills +85% interpersonal relationship. The interpersonal relationship here does not mean the usual vulgar worldly wisdom, but the ability to control life, adjust life and solve contradictions.

Everyone wants to succeed, but they often think that success is out of reach. In fact, a successful life starts from bit by bit, and success is very close to us. If you want to succeed step by step, you must start from now and achieve the "five skills", that is, you can laugh, listen, speak, do and think. As long as you want to succeed, as long as you work hard, as long as you succeed a little every day, a successful life will be closer and closer to you!

2, the iron ring fable

An iron ring, accidentally lost a part of itself. So he desperately searched for the missing part. But because I am not round, I roll slowly. But because of this, it saw flowers and plants that were rarely noticed on weekdays and made friends with them.

Hard work paid off, and one day, it found the missing part. With it, although it is perfect, it will run very fast and can no longer talk to flowers and plants. ...

3. Churchill's weakness

Churchill's speech skills impressed the world, and his words, intonation and gestures showed extraordinary courage and strength. In the most difficult period of World War II, the spiritual pillar of British soldiers and civilians was almost Churchill's daily radio address. But who knows that Churchill was particularly shy when he was young, and he blushed when he spoke. When he determined his lofty goals and ambitions, he was determined to overcome this shortcoming. A few years later, his demeanor was amazing.

4. Washington's teeth

1784, five years before Washington became president of the United States, he was just 52 years old and almost lost his tooth. He asked the dentist to implant nine teeth in his mouth, and all nine teeth were actually pulled out from the mouths of his slaves. This is what historians have just discovered in archaeology. Washington, the hero who once liberated slaves, suddenly slipped into our hearts, and we seemed to see the stain on the holy robe. But if you think about it carefully, it is not surprising to put yourself in the social background at that time. Yes, we regard a person as a saint because we don't know him well enough, so we can only look at him from a distance, paint him with various colors in our hearts, and then lower our heads to increase his height. In this sense, we should thank Washington for its imperfection.

5. past praying for

Li in the Western Zhou Dynasty lived in luxury and bullied the people. At that time, there was a loyal minister named, who often risked his life to remonstrate, hoping that King Li could turn over a new leaf, but instead of being taken seriously by King Li, he was laughed at by treacherous court officials.

When KATTO saw the country's declining situation, he was particularly anxious, so he wrote a poem to warn these villains. The main idea of the poem is: it's not that I'm old enough to say these things, but that you take your worry as a joke. When troubles haven't come, they can be prevented; However, once there are more and more troubles, it is like a flame burning, and there is no remedy.

Sure enough, people soon drove Zhou Liwang to a far away place and never let him come back.

6. Inspiration from Haier

In the eyes of many people in China, Haier, a successful enterprise, is already very powerful and remarkable. However, a reporter who has followed Haier for many years said that among the many enterprises he contacted, Haier's "sense of hardship" is the strongest. Zhang Ruimin, CEO of Haier Group, often said, "You are walking on thin ice." An enterprise with an average annual growth rate of 8 1.6% in 16 and an annual sales income of more than 40 billion yuan is well-known not only at home but also abroad, and it is worth our deep thinking. According to Zhang Ruimin, their strategy of marching into China is simple: winner takes all. Their goal is not to leave you any market or territory. Needless to say, many of our enterprises, not to mention small and weak enterprises, are outstanding people like Haier. Compared with the world's top 500 companies, there is still a gap, and we dare not relax and slack off. Realistically face up to the seriousness of the challenge, fully estimate the strength and difficulties of competitors, think about the worst and work hard for the best, and the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

7. A woman from a certain country came to a primary school in China and asked five children to cooperate to do one thing. The lady took out a bottle with five balls in it, and each ball was held by a rope. The lady said to the five children, "Each of you must pull a small ball out of the bottle within 7 seconds, or you will be drowned by the water in the bottle." Remember, there is only room for a small ball here. Whoever throws the ball slowly is in danger of drowning. "The eldest of the five children thought for a moment, then whispered a few words to the other four children, and then gestured to the woman to swear that she had received the following orders. The lady said, "Go! "I saw the youngest child pull the ball out first, then the second, third and fourth balls, and finally the oldest child pulled it out. All five balls were pulled out in 7 seconds. The lady was stunned by the behavior of China's children, and then shed tears of excitement. She said: "I have done this experiment several times in other countries, and all the children are struggling to pull it out." As a result, no one could get out and drowned in it. China's children are amazing! "

8. Hilton Group enjoys a high reputation in the world hotel industry, with more than 200 towering and spectacular high-rise buildings around the world. Hilton Group can be in an invincible position in the fierce competition. The most commendable reason is that the Hilton Group is United from top to bottom. Donald Hilton once said, "I may be the luckiest person in Texas. This blessing comes from friendship and like-minded partners. I hope my life will be long. "

9. housewives

Chen Chong, a film actress, described her life like this: "Everything in life is trivial. In fact, I am a housewife in my life. I have a husband and two children ... I may have been very concerned about my career when I was young, but I am really calm now. What I care about most now is the people around me. As long as they live well and still love me, I will be happy. "

10, Zhao Benshan scored eight roles.

In his very dramatic life, Zhao Benshan also played many roles, such as chairman, deputy to the National People's Congress, husband, father and friend. In the recording scene of Art Life, Zhao Benshan won eight roles in his life. Film and television actors: 70 points; Essay star: 80 points; Director and producer: 70 points; Deputies to the National People's Congress: 80 points; Chairman: 50 points; Father and husband: 10; Friend: 80 points

1 1, a descendant of Marx

Cerca Xi, a reporter from Russian newspaper, took a taxi on the streets of London and found that the driver had a distinctive appearance: a thick black beard. What surprised the reporter most was the small portrait of Karl Marx hanging on the car, set in a delicate copper frame. The reporter asked, "Are you a Marxist?" The driver didn't answer the reporter's question, but handed in a business card. The reporter saw Anthony Marx's name and asked, "Do you have the same surname?" The driver smiled and said, "Don't you think we look alike?" When the reporter looked carefully, it was indeed similar to the appearance of the founder of proletarian theory. The driver said flatly, "He is my great grandfather. His daughter is my great-grandmother ... "

The reporter asked, "What did you inherit from him?"

Anthony smiled and touched his beard and said, "I inherited it." He took out a book Das Kapital with many bookmarks.

The reporter asked while turning over the book: "Do you still remember a questionnaire for Marx? When answering the question' What is your favorite thing to do', he said' reading'. Maybe you like reading, too? "

He replied, "Not really. I like cleaning the garden and the car. We only have one thing in common, that is, we like to drink beer. "

12, Rola Chen: eternal son.

Marshal Chen Yi, who made great contributions to the cause of people's liberation in China, served as Deputy Prime Minister and Foreign Minister of the State Council shortly after liberation, and his work was very busy. 1962, when he came back from a visit abroad, he passed by his hometown and took time to visit his seriously ill old mother. Rola Chen's mother is paralyzed in bed and can't take care of herself. Mother was very happy when Chen Yi came into the room. She is about to say hello to her son. Suddenly, she remembered that the changed diaper was still beside the bed, and she motioned the people around her to hide under the bed. When Chen Yi saw this, he quickly said, "Mom, you have been ill in bed for a long time, and I'm sorry that I can't wait on you. I should wash these pants, why should I hide them? " Mom was embarrassed, and the people next to her quickly took out the diapers and rushed to wash them. Chen Yi quickly stopped him and said emotionally, "Mom, when I was a child, you didn't know how many times you washed my diaper. I washed 10 diapers today, and I can't repay your kindness! " Say that finish, Rola Chen took diapers and other dirty clothes to wash, and mother smiled with relief.

13, care about being respected

People who know how to care about others are respected by the world. Once upon a time, a Canadian scientist accidentally moved two pieces of uranium while doing an experiment, and the two pieces of uranium collided. If these two pieces of uranium touch, their power is equivalent to the explosion of a small atomic bomb. At this critical moment, scientists personally broke two pieces of uranium. A crisis passed, but the scientist also suffered too much radiation and died unfortunately. In recognition of his great spirit of fraternity, the government awarded him the title of "the man who separated the atomic bomb by himself". With his great love, he selflessly cares for others and all mankind, and he has won people's eternal admiration and admiration for him.

14, the enlightenment of ants

Ants give us a lot of inspiration-unity is strength, never lose heart and so on. Here I will also tell a story about ants: two ants want to look for food on the other side of the wall, and an ant climbs up the wall, just halfway up and falls down, and so on several times. Seeing this, another ant bypassed the wall and walked to the other side. When the first ant climbed over the wall, the ant had finished eating. The first ant lost his food with the virtue of never being discouraged and never giving up. This kind of thing happens not only in the simple ant country, but also in our developed human society: some writers blindly sum up their successful experiences, and as a result, their future works are the same as their previous works, with no innovation or novelty. Isn't this a kind of sad? Therefore, giving up is a new breakthrough and a prerequisite for surpassing oneself. Giving up lightly is a weak person, not giving up is a fool, and knowing how to give up is a wise person.

15, Nokia's success

Enterprises in the business world are like people in society. In its life journey, there are many temptations and it is easy to go astray. What is commendable is that once the world famous brand enterprises find their own point, they can not only resist the temptation, but also dare to give up everything else in order to concentrate all their efforts on this point. The most typical example is Nokia. 1990, Nokia was on the verge of bankruptcy because of its extensive industrial fields. Later, the boss decided to focus on only one thing-mobile phones and give up all other industries (including selling a pharmaceutical factory with an annual profit of 8 million US dollars). Five years later, it made a comeback.

16, Mei Lanfang's artistic virtue and beauty

1952 Mei Lanfang staged Feng Haichao on Wuhan Grand Stage. Mr. Wang Qinsheng watched Master Mei's performance in the front desk upstairs. It turns out that the original sentence "What's more, Zhu Chitose is very inappropriate" has always been packed, but there is no color sound on this day. Mr. Wang is very strange Think carefully, it turns out that every time Master Mei sings this sentence, his face is outward and his gesture is outward. On this day, as he sang, he turned his face to Lao Dan, who was sitting in the center of the stage. There was no color. At dinner, Mr. Wang spoke frankly. The next day, Master Mei changed her mind and won a full house. Teacher Mei treats people sincerely and encourages each other. During the performance, if a fellow actor accidentally makes some mistakes, he never loses his temper or admonishes others. It's about saving the scene like putting out a fire, trying to make a comeback and taking care of him after stepping down. 1952 During the performance of Longfeng Chengxiang in Qingdao, the actor dressed as a little eunuch shared the stage with Master Mei for the first time. He was so nervous that he blurted out that he called unmarried Sun Shangxiang the "queen", which caused harmony. Master Mei gently comforted him: "Don't be sad! Next time you play the little eunuch, you won't pronounce it wrong! "

17, Rose on the Ruins

Shortly after the end of World War II, some people saw roses blooming on the windowsill in the ruins of German cities, and saw the high humanistic quality of this nation from the roses, which indicated that this nation would be reborn.

18, a survey data

The International Organization for Assessment of Educational Progress has conducted a survey on basic education in 265,438+0 countries. The results show that middle school students in China spend 307 minutes doing math problems every week, while children in other countries only spend 2 17 minutes learning math. At the same time, students in China spend four hours a week on math when they go home, while children in other countries spend less than 1 hour a week studying math at home.

19, moral pressure from the people

I went to Australia a few years ago. When visiting the natural landscape of "Pocket Penguins Going Home", the administrator has repeatedly stressed in advance that in order not to affect the living habits of the little penguins at night, don't use flash when taking pictures. It happened that someone poked his head out and the flash flashed to grab the camera.

Suddenly, the crowd became angry. I can't understand what they are saying. I saw a tourist coming, his eyes wide open and his face red, gesturing and saying, please take the flashlight away from the unconscious person. Suddenly, the man with the "flash" was disheartened and quickly put away the camera. A healthy and good environment needs people to come out and maintain, and this kind of strong moral pressure from the people is exactly what we lack. 20. Lincoln-the greatest president in American history. What is the strongest thing in the world? It is the will hidden in the flesh and blood. There is a resume of such a person in front of me: 2 1 year-old failed to do business; At the age of 22, he lost the state legislature election; At the age of 24, I failed in business again; At the age of 26, my lover died; At the age of 27, he had a nervous breakdown and thought about suicide. At the age of 34, he lost the election of the Federal House of Representatives; At the age of 36, he was re-elected to the Federal House of Representatives; At the age of 45, he lost the election of the federal Senate; At the age of 47, he nominated the vice president and lost the election; At the age of 49, he failed to run for the federal Senate again; At the age of 52, he was elected as the first 16 president of the United States. This man is abraham lincoln, one of the greatest presidents in American history.

Success is just a state of mind.

There used to be a conscientious old cleaner in the Kremlin. She said: "My job is similar to Yeltsin's. Yeltsin is cleaning up Russia and I am cleaning up the Kremlin. Everyone is doing their own thing. " How relaxed and happy she spoke, very touching and thought-provoking.

The old cleaner in the Kremlin is a common people with low status in front of dignitaries, but she does not feel inferior. She also humorously compares her work with that of the president, which shows that she is open-minded. Whether it is the king of a country or a grass-roots people, they are doing what they should do. Therefore, she carefully cleans up the dust and garbage in the red wall every day, and at the same time cleans up the depression and confusion scattered in her heart.

22. Mountain streams and rocks

The pebbles in rivers and streams vary in color and size, but they are almost smooth pebbles. In rivers and streams, except for smooth pebbles, there are only fine sand composed of pebbles, and there are no angular conflict stones.

However, before they fall into rivers and streams, they will never be so general and smooth.

The stones in the mountains were originally angular souls, bloody lives, and groups of stalwart husbands with personalities. Because of this, they have formed magnificent mountains and condensed into tall and straight peaks, which are highly respected by people.

However, once you fall into the mountain stream and roll a few times, it becomes a smooth pebble.

The stone is hard.

Water is soft.

Hard stones turn soft water into smooth pebbles. To prevent water from grinding itself into powder? Is it to please stone collectors?

25. I saw it from rabbits and wolves

When I was a child, I heard a fable from my father. In a cold winter, a hungry wolf found a hare and kept chasing it. The rabbit got into a tree hole in despair. The wolf refused to let go of the delicious food he was about to get, so he clung to the hole. Late at night, the wolf shivered with cold, but he refused to leave in order to eat rabbits. The next morning, the rabbit poked its head out of the tree hole and found that the wolf had frozen to death. The rabbit swaggered out of the hole, crossed the wolf's body and roared off.

At that time, I only knew that I was glad that the kind rabbit defeated the fierce wolf. When I grew up, I gradually realized something profound from this fable.

From Hare: 1, witty, can help you beat all your opponents; 2, weak, do not eat often; As long as you wait patiently, you will always find a way out.

From Wolf: 1, guarding temptation equals guarding death; 2. The closer to temptation, the closer to danger; In the face of temptation, no matter how strong it is, it will inevitably lead to failure.

26. the way to fish

Anyone who is good at fishing knows that if a big fish is hooked, it is very bad to drag it ashore. As a result, either the fishing line is broken, the hook is straightened, or the fish mouth is torn. At this time, the fish that have been hooked will also escape.

The correct way is that when the big fish is hooked, the fisherman should have a reasonable accommodation for the fish's struggle. At this time, the fishing line should be longer, let the fish drag and run, and then slowly close the line when the fish is tired; If the fish struggles again, the fisherman will set the line again and wait until the fish is tired. After several rounds, the fish will often be exhausted and let the fisherman drag it ashore.

In life, we are often stretched by an invisible line, so you struggle, you rush, you do your best, but the result is tantamount to suicide. Sometimes, when you take a break, take a nap and wake up, your strength and energy are restored, and you suddenly try your best, but you often get unexpected results-at this time, maybe you are as free as a big fish with a broken fishing line.

28. The story told by Tolstoy, a great literary master

There is a man who wants to get a piece of land. The landlord said to him, early in the morning, you run out from here and insert the flagpole for a while. As long as you come back before sunset, the flagpole is yours. The man ran like hell, and when the sun went down, he was not satisfied. He did run back before the sun went down, but he was exhausted and never got up after a fall. So someone dug a hole and buried him on the spot. When the priest prayed for the man, he said, "How much land does a man want? So big. "

29, maternal love in animals

It is said in Buddhist scriptures that when a pony looks exactly like a mare, it is only necessary to look at the situation when they eat grass. Because the mare never eats grass herself, she pushes the grass in the direction of the pony. This is the maternal love between animals.

30.salmon

In the vast sea around the African continent, there is a kind of salmon. After its baby was born, the first food it got was the body of its own mother. When their children suck and bite their own flesh and blood, their mothers just churn in the sea in great pain, but never make any resistance. For the growth of children, salmon can only let its bones sink to the bottom of the sea under the bite of many children. ...

Salmon's love for children is hard to beat; And the cruelty of children to their mothers is hard to see.

fox

In order to feed the newborn fox, the old fox tirelessly searched for food everywhere and even risked his life to steal the bait laid by the hunter in the trap. Once the little fox grows up and has the ability to feed alone, the old fox drives him out of the house mercilessly. If anyone is reluctant to leave, it will scratch and bite and drive them away. The old fox's different parent-child behaviors are well-intentioned. Nature is cruel, and the law of the jungle can be seen almost everywhere. Only the strong who dare to travel can be invincible.

Fox, just an ordinary animal, still knows how to make long-term considerations for children. Man is the soul of all things, and there are more education and training for children than foxes. ...

33. Qingdao No.1 Middle School gives students gratitude homework.

"Did you bother others today? Any progress today? Who are you most grateful for today? " This is a fixed "homework" that students in Qingdao Development Zone No.4 Middle School have to complete every day since the new semester. This practice of bringing gratitude reflection homework into the moral education system for minors has aroused good response among parents. Thanksgiving homework has been supported by relevant experts and scholars and parents of students. Some university professors believe that it plays a subtle role in promoting students' mental health and improving students' humanistic quality, which is conducive to cultivating students' sound personality, inheriting the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, learning to be honest with others and doing things with integrity, and is worth popularizing in the ideological and moral education of minors in the whole society.

34. The origin of Thanksgiving Day

1620, some Puritans who suffered religious persecution took may flower to the New World of North America to seek religious freedom. After two months of tossing and turning at sea, they finally landed in Plymouth, Massachusetts in the cold 1 1 month. In the first winter, more than half of the immigrants died of hunger and infectious diseases. Those who survived had a hard life. They began to sow in the first spring. In order to survive, they pray for God's blessing and eagerly look forward to a bumper harvest all summer, because they know that a bumper harvest in autumn determines their life and death. Later, the crops finally got a bumper harvest. Everyone is very grateful for God's grace and decides to choose a day to commemorate it forever. This is the origin of American Thanksgiving Day.

35. Sign language song "Grateful Heart"

I came from an accident, like a grain of dust.

Who can see my weakness?

Where do I come from and where do I belong?

Who will call me next?

Although the world is wide, this road is difficult.

I have seen all the ups and downs in this world.

How much love do I have?

How many tears do I have?

Let heaven know

-I won't give up.

Grateful heart, thank you

With my life.

-Give me the courage to be myself

A grateful heart, thanks to fate.

blossom and fall of flowers

-I will cherish it, too.

36, the real savior

In a church in northern Europe, there is a bitter statue of Jesus crucified, and many people come here to pray and worship. There is a doorman in the church. He felt sorry to see that Jesus on the cross had to deal with so many people's demands every day. He wants to share the suffering of Jesus. One day when he prayed, he showed this wish to Jesus. Unexpectedly, he heard a voice say, "Good! I came down to watch the door for you, and you came up to be crucified. But whatever you see or hear, you can't say a word. " So Jesus came down and the doorman went up to listen to his friends. But in any case, he held back and didn't speak. One day, a rich businessman came. After praying, the rich merchant forgot his wallet and left. Then came a poor man who could not even eat three meals. He prayed that Jesus could help him through the difficulties of life. He found the bag left by the former rich businessman and opened it. It's full of money. The poor left with gratitude. Next, a young man came. He was going to take a long trip to the seaside. He came to pray for Jesus' blessing and his safety. Just as he was about to leave, the rich businessman rushed in and asked the young man to pay back the money. The young man ignored him and they quarreled. At this time, the disguised Jesus on the cross finally couldn't help but speak ... Now that things are clear, the rich businessman went to the poor man described by the fake Jesus, and the young man left in a hurry because he was afraid that he could not get on the boat. Jesus, disguised as a janitor, appeared, pointed to the disguised Jesus on the cross and said, "Come down! You are not qualified to sit in that position. " The doorman said, "I tell you the truth, is it wrong to uphold justice?" Jesus said, "What do you know? A rich businessman is not short of money, but for the poor, he can save a family's livelihood; The most pitiful thing is that young man. If the rich businessman keeps pestering him and delaying his sailing time, he can still save his life. Now his ship is sinking into the sea. "

37. Bill Gates

Bill Gates doesn't appreciate people who don't care. Once, two people came to apply, one was a bachelor from Oxford, and the other didn't even go to college. Instead of interviewing them directly, he used another method. He sent someone to observe the living habits of two people. The two men went to McDonald's together. People with high academic qualifications feel that McDonald's staff are slow to respond because of their high status, while people with low academic qualifications smile at everyone and finally take the initiative to dump the leftover food into the trash can.

For this performance, Gates chose the one with low academic qualifications. Someone didn't understand, asked Gates, and he said, "He is the best!" " Because he has everything, even a small detail!

Mr. Feng Zikai

There is a passage in Mr. Feng Zikai's Random Thoughts on Cutting Ivy, which tells that a group of children turned into ivy, and a gardener cut off all the heads of ivy with a huge pair of scissors. I didn't understand it before, but now I understand it. If the head is gone, it means there is no head. If the gardener can think about it and just cut the rattan head, that is, "children's hair", it won't be like this. Garden workers do this for no other reason, just because they don't care ... it doesn't matter whether the ivy leaves are dead or alive!

39. Mr Zhang Ruimin, President of Haier.

When comparing the seriousness of China and Japan, Mr. Zhang Ruimin, president of Haier, once said: If a Japanese is allowed to wipe the table six times a day, the Japanese will carry it out to the letter and insist on wiping it six times a day; But if you let a China person do it, you may wipe it six times on the first day, six times on the second day, five times, four times and three times on the third day, and then it will go away. In view of this, he said, it is extraordinary to do every ordinary thing well, and nothing can be indifferent.

40. Yue Fei was a national hero in the late Northern Song Dynasty.

In the turbulent years of Jin invasion, he made the ambition of "returning my rivers and mountains". He fought in battle all his life and died in battle. When Yue Fei led the army to defeat the Jin Army repeatedly and made great achievements, someone offered a beautiful woman as comfort. Yue Fei said, "Is the general happy?" Song Gaozong wants to build a mansion and a family for him to praise his brilliant exploits. He also said that he would politely decline. "How can we go home before the Golden Army is destroyed?" Yue Fei was determined to win all his life, and finally left an eternal reputation.