Why do southerners attach great importance to family ties, while northerners do the opposite?

In fact, regardless of the south or the north, there are more family ties than before. As said in Zhao Benshan's sketch, beauty comes from distance, and beauty disappears when distance is extended. Although family ties will not disappear because of distance, they will alienate strangers because of distance. I think relatives who have lived in two places for a long time still find it strange.

People say that southerners value family ties and northerners are indifferent, which is wrong. Southerners feel kinship because the clans in the south have not been destroyed by the war, and the inheritance of large families is relatively complete, and they have enough centripetal force to unite the clans, so they look more affectionate. In fact, with the development of economy, the influence of clan forces is gradually weakening.

There is also the development and progress of science and technology, and machinery has replaced most manual labor, so that people no longer need to unite and cooperate to complete production tasks as before. To put it bluntly, people don't need to rely on each other to live, and naturally they don't need to maintain their feelings with heart.

Modern people are getting less and less emotional. I think it is more caused by economic reasons. There is a common phenomenon now, that is, people are poor, have no money and have no affection. What do you mean? Nowadays, many people who work outside the home do not go home for the New Year in order to save money. In the eyes of outsiders, it is the indifference of family. In fact, they are all forced by life, not without affection, but without conditions to go home for the New Year.

So don't say that northerners don't have affection. People from the north and the south are from China. Who is not full of affection or can't show it? So please don't live in the dark. It is not easy. Why do you fry each other?