He went to the United States to work just to improve his life. But the ending is that the wife and children are separated!

In order to improve his family life, a Chinese young man went to work in the United States. But the ending was that the wife in China chose to divorce because she waited so long for him to not come back.

When I was in the United States, I met a young man from Fujian who worked in a Chinese restaurant. He was 34 years old, had been married for 9 years, and had a seven-year-old daughter. He has been working in this Chinese restaurant for five years. He came to the United States on a tourist visa. Normally, he was working illegally. Fortunately, this is Chinatown, and the US Immigration Police rarely come here. In fact, there are many people like him who work illegally. The U.S. police and immigration authorities also know very well that "if the people don't complain, the officials won't investigate." The most important thing is the shortage of labor in the United States, especially in this kind of service industry. Native American whites rarely work. Even if they are willing to do it, the wages are high. , and difficult to manage. Chinese restaurants are generally reluctant to hire local Americans. The employees of Chinese restaurants are basically Chinese and Mexican immigrants.

The reason why the young man came to the United States to work illegally is because the wages in the United States are high (of course this is relative to RMB). He earns US$3,500 per month without any insurance and does not have to pay taxes. He is paid in cash. (3,500 US dollars is converted into RMB 20,000) If you do this for a few years, you will definitely become a rich man when you go back. At first, he just wanted to make more money in the United States, and then return to China to live.

But as he spent more time in the United States, he wanted to live in the United States. The first problem we faced was the issue of identity, and we spent a lot of money to solve the problem of illegal workers.

The problem of illegal workers was solved, but then the application for identity ran into trouble. He applied for U.S. identity several times but failed. Originally, he wanted to bring his wife and children from China to live in the United States after his application was approved. However, he did not expect that the application for U.S. identity would be so difficult and he failed to pass it for several years in a row.

Although his identity application was not approved, he was unwilling to return to China. First, the salary income here is not bad, and second, he doesn't know what he can do after returning to China.

He did not go back, but the money was sent back every year, and every time his wife in China asked him to go back. He always made excuses and said he would wait a moment, and his wife, who went back and forth to China, lost her patience with him. Although he said he was working in a restaurant in the United States, his wife had never been here and she didn't know. Coupled with the long and painful wait, the woman finally lost the patience to wait any longer and chose divorce!

He is still waiting for his status application to be approved.

I don’t know why he insists on getting this status. Why must he stay in the United States? Isn’t it good to go back to your country?

Even if you obtain American status and stay in the United States, your home in China will be lost. Is it worth it?

Friends, if it were you, how would you choose?

Should he obey the call of his wife in China and return home, or should he insist on staying in the United States?