"If I had known this, I wouldn't have sent my children abroad if I had killed them." What do you think of the true feelings of the 60-year-old grandfather?

In recent years, more and more parents in China are keen to send their children to study abroad. Even many families with relatively average economic conditions have to do so even if they borrow money. Why?

"If I had known this, I wouldn't have sent my children abroad even if I was killed." The sixty-year-old uncle expressed his true feelings.

Uncle Liu's family had good economic conditions in the early years. For the better development of their children, the couple tried their best to finally let their son study abroad. I thought that by doing this, the children would live better and the old couple would enjoy more happiness in the future. I didn't expect that people are not as good as the sky, and everything in my son is developing in the opposite direction.

Because he has been abroad for many years, Uncle Liu's son has made a foreign girlfriend and found a very good job abroad. Since then, their families and businesses have settled abroad. Because of this, Uncle Liu and his son hardly see each other once a year.

Because of work, my son can't even take such a long vacation home, and he can't go back until he comes back on holidays. Sometimes they are very busy and even come back once every two or three years. The old couple were sad to see their son and grandson abroad, thousands of miles away from themselves.

I thought it would be good for both sides to let the children go abroad, but now it seems that this is not the case. I don't usually see it. I have a headache and my son is not around. When I get old, if I get seriously ill, won't I die alone? The more uncle Liu thinks about it, the worse it gets. If I had known this, I wouldn't have sent my children abroad even if I had killed them!

Why are parents in China keen to send their children to study abroad?

1, learn English

English is an international language, and many large companies require to know English. Learning English well will undoubtedly help children in their future work.

Studying abroad, children will not talk on paper, because living in English-speaking countries can naturally get twice the result with half the effort.

2. Exercise children's independence

With parents, it is difficult for children to grow up completely and have independent ability. Sending children abroad, there is no one around them to rely on, which will force them to learn to be independent and independent. Although this is cruel, it may not be a good way for their long-term development.

3. Enrich your child's resume

The experience of studying abroad will undoubtedly help children find jobs in the future. Even if the child returns to China in the future, he can write this experience on his resume and increase his "capital".

4. Pay attention to foreign education.

East and West have different educational ideas. China prefers indoctrination education, while foreign countries may pay more attention to comprehensive quality education. If parents think that foreign education is better and more conducive to their children's development, they may send their children abroad.

Step 5 prepare for immigration

Some parents plan to emigrate from the beginning, because every country has its advantages. Parents may value the educational resources, medical benefits and social benefits of other countries. Because we have to emigrate for our children, we should send our children abroad to study and take the lead to let them adapt to life abroad first.

The sooner the child is sent out, the better?

According to the data of "20 17 Report on the Trend of International Mobility of Students in China", studying abroad at a young age has become a mainstream value, especially among middle and high net worth people.

In other words, many wealthy families in China believe that the sooner they send their children out, the better. Is that really the case? Not necessarily.

Some parents may think that the younger their children are, the more receptive they are, so that they can adapt to the new life in a foreign country as soon as possible. Yes, some children do, but not all children.

Every child's personality is different, and their psychological maturity is not necessarily the same. If the child is introverted and cowardly, does not have the ability to live independently, and the child's psychological maturity is too poor, even sending the child abroad early may not be good for the child's development, but may cause a series of troubles.

Parents must remember that it is not to prevent you from sending your children abroad, but to advise you to know your children well, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, don't blindly follow the trend, and then consider this matter.