Where is the future of sexual minorities?

Recently, there is a very distressing problem, which is about the future life planning of the object.

Let's start with the core question: Is there no way out for sexual minorities in China?

He is a senior and I am a sophomore. He said that he wanted to settle abroad in the future. I asked why, and he said that he had been watching too many domestic magic news, so he wanted to go abroad. But I feel that there should be a lot of amazing news abroad, but I just haven't seen it. But from what I know about him, he may find it too difficult to live in a domestic sexual minority. So are the elderly and sexual minority immigrants the best solution? I also know that foreign countries are tolerant.

I don't want to go abroad myself. Personal character is more homesick. It turned out that he said he wanted to work in Shanghai in the future. Although I don't like Shanghai, I also want to go to other cities in the Yangtze River Delta for its development. But now I'm really disappointed. Since there are so many different life plans in the future, why bother me by staying together? What am I? A short port on the road of life?

I feel that I have compromised a lot for this relationship, and my future plan has tried my best to fit his. In addition, there is a family background. I'm from the countryside, and he's from the new line in Guangdong. It stands to reason that they will be more tolerant of sexual minorities there, because this relationship is really stressful for me. ...

Sorry, senior, I feel a little bitter when writing these things, so it is inevitable to mix a lot of negative emotions. Excuse me! Besides, I will try my best to communicate with him.

I wish the seniors a happy life!

Hello.

When I was in my second year of high school, I finished my studies and tried to catch up with my seniors. I didn't think about the social inclusion brought by adaptation, whether to move. At the same age, you think about the problem longer and deeper than me.

Nowadays, many post-00 children have completed positioning cognition very early, so they plan their future earlier. The ideal life they plan must include long-term love with a person of the same sex. All their future efforts, choices and behaviors are aimed at realizing the ideal of same-sex love.

I even think that children born after 00 are the first generation of sexual minorities in China who may live an ideal life. No need to hide, no need to panic, no need to be forced into heterosexual marriage, just like heterosexuals, down-to-earth, aboveboard to fall in love, live and even start a family.

Is there no way out for sexual minorities in China? My answer is of course. Just how to live, in the big environment, depends more on your ability and your desire. You have a strong ability, so you can naturally live a willful life, and you have a small desire, so you can naturally live a casual life.

From the overall environment, some western countries are indeed more tolerant of sexual minorities than domestic ones. But it's just a whole. In some places where religious traditions are deeply rooted, anti-gay sentiment is still high. In addition, as an immigrant, it will also involve the issue of racial exclusion.

No matter where you live, there is no difference between good and bad. Gay people can't solve all life problems once and for all when they go abroad.

On the other hand, most of the sexual minorities who can immigrate abroad are people with excellent academic qualifications and economic aspects. If these people, ordinary minorities who emigrated abroad and stayed at home, dare not speak out and are unwilling to speak out, how can the living environment of sexual minorities in China be improved?

"Life planning is different, why do you want to be together? Why bother me? " I have always felt that in gay love, no matter how big the difference is, it will not end a relationship except that one party is determined to cheat marriage in the future. Cheating marriage is a matter of personality, and the remaining differences, or regions, or personalities, or living habits, can be changed. Time is changing, the environment is changing, and feelings are changing, so the differences will change.

If the epidemic continues to worsen on a global scale, the global economy will be in a long-term downturn, and the employment environment at home and abroad will be even more severe. Jobs are shrinking, domestic labor supply exceeds demand, and it is more difficult for immigrants to find jobs. Maybe, at that time, your boyfriend will voluntarily give up the idea of going abroad.

I don't like your use of the word "irritated". That's not provocation, that's like, that's love. If in his mind, you are just a temporary port, just for fun and fun, he will not confess his plan to you. He cares about you, wants you to know his plan and hopes to have you in his planned future.

The maintenance of a relationship must be a mutual compromise between two people. Only sometimes, when one party is wronged, it will disregard the other party's compromise.

He is a senior and you are a sophomore. If you don't study in the same school, you won't have much time to get along. Cherish the little time left, accompany him, love him and support him. Laugh more and complain less; Play more and worry less; More happiness and less blame. If he is looking for a job, give him more encouragement. As for the future of love, where can it go? Leave it to the future.