What books can girls read to improve their self-cultivation and temperament?

What books can girls read to improve their self-cultivation and temperament? A woman with temperament Someone once said, you should judge an ugly woman. If she is reasonable, she can be called a "woman with temperament". Fortunately and unfortunately, I often get such praise. However, I am confident that I have temperament. A woman with temperament never has a high fever about fashion. Fashion always puts on petty bourgeoisie, BoBo, middle class and other coats for women to win their hearts, while temperamental women are always 36' C—— for these rich and gorgeous names-neither too hot nor too cold. Never enough or crazy to chase. Don't think that she doesn't understand amorous feelings. A woman with temperament will calmly explore the factors that suit her from fashion. Or abandon fashion and admire yourself. Who says this is not fashion? A woman with temperament knows how to dress herself. Seemingly ordinary, you will pass by inadvertently, but when you stop paying attention, there are always some seemingly casual carvings that you will savor. Looking at a woman's clothes with temperament is like looking at Japanese literature-a bowl of crystal clear water, which is salty only after tasting it. A woman with temperament loves music. Instead of looking like a certain kind of person, arty. Listening to music is as natural and indispensable as breathing air. When most people rushed into the "Mystery Garden", when every street was hummed by Matthew Lane, a woman with temperament always smiled. This seems to remind me of the rice soaked in water when I was a child-I won't use it to satisfy my hunger now. She knows how to strengthen nutrition. If listening to music is compared to eating, dinner is usually solemn: dinner is Turandot, with opera fragments sung by Caras or Botticelli as the background music. If you want to have wine, you need Madame Butterfly-the strong taste is like a glass of absinthe, which makes you feel willing, although you can't help crying. For dessert after dinner, I might as well have some piano sketches by Greg. Soft and lyrical keys hit all over my body, and quiet notes were printed everywhere. So, I-an elegant action-played fantasy when the light was on. Like a blooming flower. A woman with temperament loves books. It is because of the edification of books that gentle and elegant women are born. Women's gestures, brushstrokes and styles are full of the charm of writing books. Books and women set each other off. Wise you can always feel which woman she looks like in The Book of Songs, or whose become a butterfly is reborn in her confused eyes. Full of fragrance, she is shallower than Tang poetry and deeper than legend. A woman with temperament is a landscape, you can only watch it from a distance, don't play with it. If you are talented and like-minded, you will be fortunate to be friends with Mei Lan. Being with a woman with temperament is like entering Lan Zhi's room-I can't smell its fragrance for a long time. I only feel that my heart and spleen are cool and quiet, and all the invasion of evil and dirty qi can't just be moved outside the cloud nine. A woman with temperament is a good book. She can't be read by anyone, and not everyone can. A woman with temperament knows life. No one's life will be perfect. Worry, anxiety, disappointment ... always sneak out of Pandora's box and wait for an opportunity to invade our happy hearts. Did you get mixed up in the dust? A woman with temperament will first dust them off and temporarily "live somewhere else". When you are sober, you are killing a beautiful comeback. "Living poetically" is the principle she abides by. Therefore, she has been living a poetic life. Wake up in the morning, pick a white cloud and put it in your pocket, and the mood of the day will be light and elegant. No matter how busy she is at work, she can take time off and let go of her mood: the grass under the window is finally exposed; The ink dripping on the paper represents a puppy; The color of the sunset glow is unpredictable, and I can't figure out which colors to reconcile; When the snow falls, there is no order at all, and the direction is changed at will ... It is precisely because of these small bright spots that the days will not be gloomy. A woman with temperament is not an out-of-touch fairy. She replied that life was orderly and uninteresting. If time permits, a big dinner will be cooked. While listening to the coloratura soprano's opera aria, I was cooking in the kitchen. After cleaning up, an oil painting with good color and fragrance jumped onto the table: candlelight flickered, and the elegant tone set off by the plaid tablecloth and the blue printed cloth tray was heavy and light. Flowers are intertwined and fragrant. It's not just the dishes, but also the mood-eating is no longer a simple matter. A woman with temperament is always warm in her heart. One night at 10: 30, she would get up quietly after her husband was breathing evenly at the bedside, turn on the lamp in the study, watch a piece of Duras, or Li Yu's casual mail, or just meditate. Looking at the moonlit night outside the window, I let my thoughts dance lightly in time and space, perhaps remembering a fragrant past, with a smile blooming on my lips, as clear as the new moon in the sky. A woman with temperament has many good qualities; There are many kinds of women with temperament. Maybe, she's with you. Can afford, can buy, can spend, can show. Beauty can be born, but temperament is acquired. I'll teach you a few tricks in the summary. 1. Stand: stand up straight, hold your head up and abdomen in, don't look up at the sky, don't hold your chest out, and everything should be flat. This is the minimum standing posture, and no matter where and where, as long as you stand, you must keep this form, and over time you will form a habit. If you say no, I can't stand that effect, then go home, put your heels, hips, shoulders and back of your head against the wall, put your hands down vertically, and put your legs in the cage and stand at attention for half an hour, every day. I can't believe you can't stand that effect. 2, sitting, sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be straight, the hips only sit one-third of the chair, the legs can be placed on the left or right side in parallel, or one leg can be placed on the other leg, and the legs naturally sag. But don't spread your legs or tilt your legs on the chair. If you are not used to it, take advantage of the rest time to exercise yourself. 3. Go: Use the word "stand" first, hold your head up, chest up and abdomen in, and don't always count your toes. Walking on the road regards the road as your home and your own runway, but it doesn't mean being overbearing. You should walk like everyone else, look around, get out of your own momentum, don't run to the meteor, and don't walk because you are afraid of stepping on the ants on the road. Slow and steady. The rest is the walking posture. You can press the button, and the button on the hip will show the waist posture, but don't move the upper body all the time, giving people a sense of levity. Keep your hands vertical and swing back and forth gently, especially when you are in a military posture or in a positive step, but be natural. 4. Another thing to pay attention to in appearance is clothing. It doesn't have to be a famous brand, but it must be suitable for your age, figure and personality. Good clothes are good for others, but they may not suit you. 6. Speaking of faces, talk about facial expressions, smile, remember to smile, don't be stupefied, and don't laugh. If you can't smile without grinning, then gently raise your mouth. The most important thing is your eyes. When you listen to others or talk to others, you must look at their faces. Don't look around. I remember a book saying that a woman's eyes are a door to her soul. Make good use of it and show your confidence. Well, everything is ready, no matter whether you are tall or short, beautiful or ugly, give yourself a little confidence, believe that you are the most individual, show your confidence and add more temperament to yourself. I almost forgot that the most important thing is that you should have cultivation and connotation. Don't talk about others behind their backs. That man looks very elegant, but he is full of dirty words. Remember, no matter you are a beautiful woman or a person with temperament, don't swear, because that will ruin all your images. Temperament is from the heart, so keep a pure and kind heart. (1) Men's sexual temperament is characterized by calmness, determination, persistence, openness, boldness, cheerfulness, optimism, ruggedness, tenacity, modesty, boldness, decisiveness, broadness and depth, and they have a special sense of strength. (2) Feminine sexual temperament Feminine temperament is the concentrated expression of women's best character, that is, the highest expression of moral purity and noble sentiment. 1. Read more books. Yan Ruyu is in the book! 2. Pay attention to some information about fashion, clothing and accessories. Pay attention to your manners and avoid vulgarity. What is dual personality on the Internet? In short, it is action and spoken language. 4. Walking is to try to hold your head up, chest up and abdomen in. You may feel uncomfortable at first, but you will do it unconsciously after a long time. Wearing high heels will help. 5. Speak to people with good temperament voluntarily. If you talk more, you will find that the tension and formality disappear or decrease, and you will be able to cope with it. We call it desensitization.

A Dream of Red Mansions, The Golden Lock, Aesthetic Walk, etc.

Improve one's self-cultivation and temperament;

1. You can read more books. When college students are free, they should try to borrow some nutritious books from the library and swim in the sea of books. Reading can benefit people's minds, nourish people's lives, and you will find that you know more.

2. You can also check some inspirational movies to watch properly. You should have the ability of self-selection and judgment, learn good automatic filtering and bad automatic filtering, and your personal accomplishment will be improved over time.

3. Do more outdoor sports, or college students can join some model teams, dance teams or folk art teams in the department, which can not only serve the department, but also make more friends. Focus on modeling, quyi study and dance practice, while keeping your figure even and making you more confident.

4. Don't lose your temper with people casually. You should control yourself and ease your emotions. There are few things in the world that are worth losing your temper and are good for your health.

5. If you have nothing to do, read more fashion magazines and websites, take a look at fashion street shooting, and understand the trends of fashion frontiers. Even if you have no money to buy famous brands, you should learn to understand. When you know what matches or suits your hairstyle, you will become more fashionable.

Got it right: The Iron Knot that finally melted —— The 200-year-old Kangba Legend Sichuan Literature and Art Publishing House

A 200-year-old Kangba legend, Alai has accumulated five years of hard work.

Peking University Publishing House: Seven Lectures on Humanities.

The most wonderful interpretation and intonation of "Human Thorn"!

People's Literature Publishing House after Bathing

Centenarians are still ploughing the fields. The classic "Bathing" is a sequel, and Premier * * * recommends books.

Time migration Jiangsu Fenghuang literature and art publishing house

The works of Liu, the first person in China science fiction, the winner of the 9th Yinhe Prize and the author of Three-body.

Wang: Beijing Publishing House.

It truly reproduces Mr. Wang's legendary life and helps readers get to know this legendary figure at close range. Hundreds of photos of Zhang Zhengui reproduce Wang's colorful life legend in three dimensions.

The previous atmosphere Shaanxi Normal University Press Co., Ltd.

Practical pen, simple style, can be called a literary masterpiece.

Shangzhuang Collection Beijing October Literature and Art Publishing House

Facing the current rural life, there are joys in sorrow, sweets in bitterness, sorrows in poverty and hopes in embarrassment.

China Calligraphy Brief History People's Fine Arts Publishing House

It shows the unique charm of calligraphy art which bears the cultural and artistic spirit of China for thousands of years.

Passing through your world: hardcover upgraded Hunan Literature and Art Publishing House

What books should women read to improve their self-cultivation and temperament? 1. A person's temperament is the sum of internal cultivation, external behavior and words, and the way and attitude of treating people. Elegant and natural temperament will give people a comfortable, friendly and easy-going feeling ~~ 2. Temperament is not learned, but cultivated. You can't say too much, but you should know everything. You should study more and read more books at ordinary times. (Not reading eight magazines) Learn to dance or exercise if you have nothing to do. Learn more about communication. 3. Taste determines temperament. 4. The so-called "those who are near Mexico are black, and those who are near Zhu Zhechi are black" is very reasonable. You can get close to some people with good temperament, and you will unconsciously change some ~~ 5. Read more and think more. Temperament can't be changed in a month or two. It will take a year or two or even longer. Many people finish college, and people who haven't seen him for a long time say that he has changed. In fact, it is cultivated by campus life. It is always good to read more books. Another point is, make friends with whoever you want, be a gentleman and stay away from others. After a long time, your temperament will naturally show up. 6. Reading is the most basic. I read less books and practice more, but there is still no meaning ~ Besides, my eyes will be brighter if I read more books ~ After all, my eyes can't make up ~ Although some of them are beautiful, my eyes are empty when I look at them ~ 7. Doing ballet yoga or something, Hepburn's temperament is from practicing ballet. 8. You need a good living environment and a good attitude. In order to cultivate good temperament. 9. temperament ... an inner charm that exudes awkwardness can change the appearance, but temperament depends on inner cultivation. If you want to express your temperament with external things, it is affectation. 10. Different environments will create different people from childhood. A person's experience and knowledge will have a certain influence on his temperament. 1 1. Temperament is also divided into many types, such as publicity, spiritual comeliness, charm, and nobleness that is more difficult to achieve. Temperament is basically manifested in dressing, words and deeds, and it is difficult to master every move! Some temperament is innate. Not born, only by ability. First of all, you should know what type you are, then you should have your own opinions and create a perfect temperament for yourself ~ 12. Temperament does have a natural influence, but it is cultivated by education. However, you can try to cultivate self-confidence under the background that natural factors and education cannot be changed in a short time!

What kind of books can girls read to improve their temperament and accomplishment? Like what? Girls can improve their temperament and self-cultivation by reading fashion magazines and literary books.

1, second sex

Simone de beauvoir's The Second Sex is regarded as "the most complete, wise and full of wisdom without commenting on women" and even regarded as the "Bible" of western women. Against the background of civilization covering philosophy, history, literature, biology, ancient fairy tales and customs, she discussed the reality of women's situation, status and power in the historical evolution from primitive society to modern society, and discussed the gender differences in the history of women's individual growth. The Second Sex can be regarded as an encyclopedia overlooking the whole women's world, which opened the prelude to the long-term gender discrimination in women's civilized activities and set up a monument for women's activities in the world.

2. Gone with the Wind

Margaret Mitchell, a famous American woman writer, is famous all over the country after writing only one work. Once published, this novel with a romantic tone and reflecting the theme of the Civil War has become the most sought-after work of American novels. Even the adapted film Gone with the Wind has become a classic. Scarlett, the gorgeous and brave hero, embodies rebellious energy and self-improvement energy, romantic and persistent Rhett, strong and tolerant Han Melanie and elegant and fragile Ashley.

3. The Bible

Western culture is based on the Bible. She is the hero of all western classics. Lincoln said: The Bible is the best gift that fairies give to mankind. All the goodness of the Savior is passed on to us through this book. Temperament girl has nothing to say. To dabble in a classic is to understand a world. Read more influential books, just like reading is like dabbling, and women with negative temperament will further integrate into the world and become modern people with world civilization thinking.

4. A Dream of Red Mansions

A Dream of Red Mansions, known as one of China's four classical novels, is one of China's greatest literary masterpieces in the18th century, which depicts the failure and despair of the traditional China aristocrats. There are many ideas about Buddhism, Xuanmen and Confucianism in the book, which are full of fairy tales, reflecting the growth of political ethics, social environment, economic system and civilization at that time in the book, so as to dress, eat and drink, build pavilions, drive cars and boats, and so on. * * * called it China's fifth greatest invention.

What books can girls read to improve their temperament and self-cultivation? Some famous literary works, especially those by women writers. . . . For example, books by Jane Austen, Duras and Zhang Ailing. Not bad, but be patient. After all, masterpieces are not attractive novels.